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| Possessive Versus Entitlement In Relationships by MrsEve: 4:58pm On Nov 06, 2010 |
So Seun, Possessive basically is ownership or sense of entitlement, do you think a man have ownership over his wife or girlfriend? What your definition of possessiveness and entitlement? Do you think Married or Engaged couples have entitlement over each other? What is the boundaries that couples should have with each other in term of entitlement? |
| Re: Possessive Versus Entitlement In Relationships by Seun(m): 5:20pm On Nov 06, 2010 |
Possessiveness means you don't want to share. 1 Like |
| Re: Possessive Versus Entitlement In Relationships by mediatrix8(f): 5:48pm On Nov 06, 2010 |
From the moment you say " i do" to each other,signifying possessions- that you belong to each other.Being possessive is a "negative" attitude at the times -which often define as "selfishness".Hence,husband and wife/gf/bf ,in love they belong to each other so they are entitled or responsible to each other but it doesn't mean ownership  , that's my own point of view  1 Like |
| Re: Possessive Versus Entitlement In Relationships by Yorisb: 6:06pm On Nov 06, 2010 |
Posses me for what when there's lot to share?  |
| Re: Possessive Versus Entitlement In Relationships by Rhymez(m): 6:12pm On Nov 06, 2010 |
@mediatrix. Like your comment but that doesnt chang the fact that men are polygamous in nature.  |
| Re: Possessive Versus Entitlement In Relationships by CrazyMan(m): 6:26pm On Nov 06, 2010 |
So is this thread strictly for Seun only or are other members welcomed? |
| Re: Possessive Versus Entitlement In Relationships by iice(f): 9:30am On Nov 07, 2010 |
Possessiveness is just ughhh. It has a hint of controlling. Can lead down a very dark path. Entitlement, i see more as something of a standard. You're married, you're both entitled to be responsible for you family and work together as a unit. You're dating, you're both entitled to make something real out the relationship You have an open relationship, you're both entitled to date whoever All according to conscious and willing agreement between partners. |
| Re: Possessive Versus Entitlement In Relationships by mediatrix8(f): 1:42pm On Nov 07, 2010 |
Rhymez: Yes,I agree with you.Men are polygamous by nature!  but in fairness to some who can't afford to have"other" relationships,they prefer to be a "one- woman man" because they have no other choice and source"  |
| Re: Possessive Versus Entitlement In Relationships by Rhymez(m): 1:54pm On Nov 07, 2010 |
^one-woman men lack opportunities or can I say they have no choice. |
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