Hi Nlanders i will turn 30 by Dec. Upon graduation i have been in the teaching sector. Salary is quite poor but still better than doing nothing. I recently got a job with a pay of 50k/mnth. I'm confused on what step to take now. Should I prepare for marriage or proceed for MSc.pls i need you candid advise. Thanks

You placed MSc before marriage in your topic. You already have your answer.

Lol... Witty response. So if i have placed marriage before your answer would have been different?

who is sponsoring your masters? what course are you getting your masters in?

dont expect salary increase just because you have a masters.

abeg guy chill, get enough money before you marry or you will regret that marriage when you start to receive insult from your wife for not taking care of responsibilities.

Bros, marriage isn't a decision u let others make for u. The fact u are asking this question in d first place says u are not ready.

Being ready isn't exactly about money. Don't mind all the make money first advice u'ld get.

A successful marriage is more than money and that make money mentality is a closeted selfishness which is against everything marriage is about.
Granted makinga family needs money but believe me, marriage to the right woman will make u better in every way especially financially. She may not give u money physically, but a good woman will prime ur heart, plan and invest in you morally, spiritually and physically if she can.

The right vibes she creates will attract all the money
u need if u are smart enough to appreciate her and reciprocate it.
Pls think less of money when u think of marriage, if u have d right woman in ur life, all d wedding, feeding, cars etc u worry about, will cease to be a problem.

When u find d woman for u, money won't matter and that's when u are ready.. Bcoz u will know that if u miss this one, u may never get another like her.

fykes:
Bros, marriage isn't a decision u let others make for u. The fact u are asking this question in d first place says u are not ready.

Being ready isn't exactly about money. Don't mind all the make money first advice u'ld get.

A successful marriage is more than money and that make money mentality is a closeted selfishness which is against everything marriage is about.
Granted makinga family needs money but believe me, marriage to the right woman will make u better in every way especially financially. She may not give u money physically, but a good woman will prime ur heart, plan and invest in you morally, spiritually and physically if she can.

The right vibes she creates will attract all the money
u need if u are smart enough to appreciate her and reciprocate it.
Pls think less of money when u think of marriage, if u have d right woman in ur life, all d wedding, feeding, cars etc u worry about, will cease to be a problem.

When u find d woman for u, money won't matter and that's when u are ready.. Bcoz u will know that if u miss this one, u may never get another like her.

so basically, you are saying money isnt important in marriage and that he should wait for the right woman who will feed him and take care of his needs just because he is a man.

lilwetdick:


so basically, you are saying money isnt important in marriage and that he should wait for the right woman who will feed him and take care of his needs just because he is a man.

Well if that's all u gleaned from my write-up, I can't help it.
I'm responsible for what I write, u are responsible for what u understand

fykes:

Well if that's all u gleaned from my write-up, I can't help it.
I'm responsible for what I write, u are responsible for what u understand

basically that is the vibe i am getting.

the right vibes she makes will attract all the money what do you mean by this

is that the woman is working while the man is an house husband?

lilwetdick:


basically that is the vibe i am getting.

the right vibes she makes will attract all the money what do you mean by this

is that the woman is working while the man is an house husband?

U are not married, u have prolly not had a live-in girlfriend or lived with a woman (not ur family) for some time.
I am sure most people who have done that at some point in their life, can relate.
The op said he has a job, he's actually had a job since he left school.
I don't see where ur question is coming from.

fykes:


U are not married, u have prolly not had a live-in girlfriend or lived with a woman (not ur family) for some time.
I am sure most people who have done that at some point in their life, can relate.
The op said he has a job, he's actually had a job since he left school.
I don't see where ur question is coming from.

so having a live-in girl friend or living with a woman is a status symbol or something of pride...make i no laugh..., i value my independence, as long as she is not my wife she cant live with me. living with a woman as a gf is different from living with a woman when married to her

op is earning 50k per month and you want him to go into marriage just because you think money will magically just come when he is married, that is the easy way people fall in trap of not meeting responsibilities.

any sensible advice will be for the op to find a way of how he can increase his salary either by making the bold step to change his job for a better pay or do some side hustle to add to his salary.

fykes:
Bros, marriage isn't a decision u let others make for u. The fact u are asking this question in d first place says u are not ready.

Being ready isn't exactly about money. Don't mind all the make money first advice u'ld get.

A successful marriage is more than money and that make money mentality is a closeted selfishness which is against everything marriage is about.
Granted makinga family needs money but believe me, marriage to the right woman will make u better in every way especially financially. She may not give u money physically, but a good woman will prime ur heart, plan and invest in you morally, spiritually and physically if she can.

The right vibes she creates will attract all the money
u need if u are smart enough to appreciate her and reciprocate it.
Pls think less of money when u think of marriage, if u have d right woman in ur life, all d wedding, feeding, cars etc u worry about, will cease to be a problem.

When u find d woman for u, money won't matter and that's when u are ready.. Bcoz u will know that if u miss this one, u may never get another like her.

Thanks bro, i really appreciate your insight!!!