A girl who's is already dating you, why should you ask her out again? For what?
BRO, fnck her and she'll be the one to ask what you are to her.

Anotii:

U might put her in a situation she doesn't wanna be in...just kiss her straight away in the moment, avoid talks and if it doesn't work out,you are still in the safer side

Economist. ''less cost more benefit'' O.P follow this advice.

livebyday:


What do you do for a living? What does she do for a living ?

Pardon my asking but I have my reasons

We are both student interns in an oil servicing firm in Delta State...I'm a programmer, also technically inclined (I assist my boss in tutoring students on Python language during weekends), while She's got a business of her own and she's very much independent . You can state your reasons now.

KingErnesto:



We are both student interns in an oil servicing firm in Delta State...I'm a programmer, also technically inclined (I assist my boss in tutoring students on Python language during weekends), while She's got a business of her own and she's very much independent . You can state your reasons now.

Alright , wanted to be sure the emotions where as real as possible

Believe it or not there things matter in this part of the world

Secondly , how old are you?

There is more to life than women, foolish men everywhere!

Lol. Op is waiting for an engraved invitation. You are too slow man.

Newboss:


Yeah, sex spoils stuff until a man fûcked a woman and you were born. Sure, sex has spoilt something.

Sex is a beautiful and natural something. Stop making it look "spiritual".

Yes it's beautiful, not denying that fact.

Don't ask her out, I repeat, don't ask her out!
Start acting like her boyfriend
Once she's into you, fvck her very well
And watch her ask you what are we now

annford:


You don't expect a Lady to immediately agree to dating you even if she was already madly in love with you. Mine did "Shakara" for 5 weeks and 3 days before saying yes to me. [b]It is the nature of Women to do "shakara" before agreeing to date a man. [/b]Women want to be sure the man isn't being led by his feelings or her body or even her money. The two are already good friends and it should be easy for him to make his intentions known to her.

"Shakara" has never helped any woman if we are being honest. A good woman studies a good man and would agree to his advances on the fly.

If she's trying to use "shakara" to gauge interest, I see that as nothing but feminine naivety lol.

Bad men/ people with ulterior motives could pursue you for 100 years and when they have what they want, they bail. It's pretty common nah. Don't people learn from other people's sad experience? There should be other ways to check seriousness in admirers and unfortunately "shakara" is just a useless band aid.

annford:


"Most" good women aren't easy to get. I never got tired of chasing after her and wooing her cos I already knew what stuff she was made of and what I wanted in a woman. I am a businessman and if you're into business, you'd know that there are deals or sales take time and patience to get through. You don't expect a Woman to immediately say yes to daring you. Do you say yes to all the requests made to you? Bro, a woman who knows her worth would want you to know and understand that she places a high value on herself. Women aren't "Properties" that we can acquire easily. Women are meant to be loved, respected, nurtured and encouraged.

So because you're a good woman, you shouldn't be easy to get? Forming hard to get and then you fall into the wrong hands. Coughs, sighs. just live a simple life.

So you chased your wife down that rabbit hole, good for you bro, but not everyone would do that. I don't place much worth on myself, so why should I place so much worth on someone else? More still, I don't see people who place much worth on themselves as people of great worth, lol. Am I a bad guy? Are you going to make that assumption?

annford:


Women aren't "Properties" that we can acquire easily. Women are meant to be loved, respected, nurtured and encouraged.

No one is saying they are, however, they (women) were made for men, so what's the point you're trying to make?

Monaco2:
Teenagers , it’s clear she has fallen for u, u just have to be bold enough to ask her out....u will definitely get a yes from her....... congratulations in advance

I swear that kind green light can light up a whole neighborhood

AwkaetitiBabe:
Must everything be about sex with you guys? Don't u know sex spoils stuff?

Sex ain't any validation for relationship pls.

yeah, .. instant Billings damage stuff the more



can you girls stop imposing your financial burden on your bfs

annford:
Ask her out already or watch some other guy take her away from you. Every request in life has a "yes" or "no" answer. The devil wouldn't repent if she said "yes", neither would it snow in Nigeria if she said " no". My take on this? Go ahead and make your feelings for her known to her and then see how it goes.

Reasonable!
But you forget to instruct him to give us feedback

KingErnesto

biGDhAp:


yeah, .. instant Billings damage stuff the more



can you girls stop imposing your financial burden on your bfs

They lean on each other.

KingErnesto:
We've been friends for 2months now and we've only hung out thrice, at my place only , tho we belong to a mutual association and we often see.

She agrees to come over without hesistation.
when ever i say i want to see her, maybe in 4days time, she would rather make plans to come over the following day ... And she keeps me company for hours without complaining. We gist, eat , laugh and have fun together ...
I never made a move to touch her nor cuddle her for once, i gave her that respect and now i want to define our friendship/relationship...We've hugged a few times and she held me the night i took her out on a eat out and walk .

A certain time, she asked me a question and asked for my take , she painted a scenario where a girl who is older than the guy decides to like him to want to date him for the mean time, and these two belong to a mutual association...
I didn't want to raise or deduce a false impression, but i sensed she was passing a message. I could be wrong. But she's older than i am a little.

On call yesterday, she told me she doesnt keep close friends and she doesnt like much friends, she likes her privacy and all. But she said its not the same with me, and then i moved on to ask her what was i to her , immediately she paused and then stammered for seconds, like she was searching for the right words to refer me, and then she eventually said, "you're dear to me".

Should i ask her out already? Or have i been friendzoned?

my brother.... To much delay bad,what else you need she Don give you the green light unless you won wait till it turns red.

AwkaetitiBabe:
They lean on each other.

you think..

Akinbahm:

Brotherly, make I burst ur brain if u dare open up to her by requesting her hand in relationship she would start manipulating u (capital NO would b her answer) unless she want to tie u down with marriage.
Never u ask her for dating relationship. Just ask her to come over to ur side for lunch, follow d rhythm btw u pple and make move by planting a soft kiss on her lips chill a bit nd read her countenance if she consent to the kissing draw her closer for deep kissing never rush down to her pant step by step make one goes far. From there start acting like her boyfriend with freestyle and don't take it 3 personal till it get to ur advantage...

Hmm, awon one wobe!!!

I can understand your plight bro, my lil opinion is that you could make things quite easier by spending quality time around her, you can offer to take her out frequently but you shouldn't confess anything to her during those times, you just only have to be yourself and naturally by herself she'll be able to define the kind relationship going on around you too.

OP. Come and tell us how it went.