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| Do My Principles Affect My Relation With Ladies? by bilms(m): 8:04pm On Nov 09, 2010 |
hey, My friends do tell me that i need to adjust but i insist no. i am this principle guy, i hate to cheat nd be cheated. my principle is,any girl i date,i can marry and for this reason i look out for some basic requirement in girls b4 i can date her. when i toast a girl and she acceptd me,if i discover she doesn't have this quality, i drop her immediately without had feelings. but many of my friends argue that i should keep her. my concern is, if i keep her knowing i cant stay long with her, it make me feel guilty. i am not saying i will marry any girl i date,but can marry them if all went well. |
| Re: Do My Principles Affect My Relation With Ladies? by Outstrip(f): 8:16pm On Nov 09, 2010 |
Stick with your principles. You will get farther in life being true to yourself. I don't think it is unreasonable at all. |
| Re: Do My Principles Affect My Relation With Ladies? by Dyt(f): 8:20pm On Nov 09, 2010 |
ynt check ur self u seems 2 want a perfect babe wen even u is nt. |
| Re: Do My Principles Affect My Relation With Ladies? by Dsense(m): 8:30pm On Nov 09, 2010 |
bilms:  |
| Re: Do My Principles Affect My Relation With Ladies? by kanmi22(f): 2:17am On Nov 10, 2010 |
Nice principle, all human should have atleast a minimum requirement but remember, YOU ARE NOT PERFECT AND IF A LADY CAN ACCEPT YOU DESPITE BEEN PERFECT, U SHOULD BE ABLE TO WORK SOMETHING OUT AS WELL!!!! MY BABY IS NOT PERFECT BUT I AM STILL THERE, SHAPING HIM THE WAY I WANT IN ADDITION TO PRAYER! Also, U GET WAT U SEE, U CANT ALWAYS CHANGE PEOPLE, IF THEY LOVE U ENUFF, THEY WILL CHANGE FOR U, LET LOVE REIGN!!!!!!!!!!!! Yes, u can stick with ur principle and if u dnt get a gurl after age 30, then u gotta check yah-self, something got to be wrong with yah principle,  |
| Re: Do My Principles Affect My Relation With Ladies? by biola44: 3:59am On Nov 10, 2010 |
principles are good but better when you know the time to bend them  |
| Re: Do My Principles Affect My Relation With Ladies? by Ikedonn(m): 9:03am On Nov 10, 2010 |
@ poster It's a nice principles.I actually have a similar principles like yours. |
| Re: Do My Principles Affect My Relation With Ladies? by jnrprof(m): 10:20am On Nov 10, 2010 |
A man who stands for nothing will fall for everything! Stick to your principles but be a bit flexible. I have similar principles about relantionships too and my friends have concluded that i have 'no game' simple because they haven't seen me identify someone as my girlfriend. I consider it a waste of time dating someone i know i can't marry from the onset |
| Re: Do My Principles Affect My Relation With Ladies? by experts: 4:10pm On Nov 10, 2010 |
kanmi22: As u can see, the poster never claimed to be perfect. he only as principles, but @poster,may i ask, what are those requirement of urs? may be they too much i guess? |
| Re: Do My Principles Affect My Relation With Ladies? by jnrprof(m): 5:15pm On Aug 01, 2011 |
@poster, to make things easier for u, don't ask the gals out immediately. get to know them as friends first, from there you'll get to know those things u can't tolerate. That saves u d hassle of breaking up, and there'll be no broken hearts involved |
| Re: Do My Principles Affect My Relation With Ladies? by mikkymoi(m): 5:23pm On Aug 01, 2011 |
aww!!! may be u want a Virgin as your wife huh  |
| Re: Do My Principles Affect My Relation With Ladies? by Mynd44: 6:22pm On Aug 01, 2011 |
Guy stick with your principle but don't expect others to have the same principles as you |
| Re: Do My Principles Affect My Relation With Ladies? by Pweety4me(f): 6:26pm On Aug 01, 2011 |
Mynd_44:Simple!! @OPFair enough, but you can have fun sumtimes and when i say fun not 'sex-making' i mean exploration and nothing all that serious  live a little |
| Re: Do My Principles Affect My Relation With Ladies? by Pweety4me(f): 6:27pm On Aug 01, 2011 |
jnr prof:Good advice  |
| Re: Do My Principles Affect My Relation With Ladies? by claremont(m): 6:36pm On Aug 01, 2011 |
biola44:Seconded!!! A wise man is someone with principles, but the wisest of men are those who know when to "bend" those principles to achieve a common goal. |
| Re: Do My Principles Affect My Relation With Ladies? by Mynd44: 6:42pm On Aug 01, 2011 |
Hmmm |
| Re: Do My Principles Affect My Relation With Ladies? by pendo89(f): 6:50pm On Aug 01, 2011 |
thread. |
| Re: Do My Principles Affect My Relation With Ladies? by Kslib(m): 3:17pm On Aug 02, 2011 |
@OP - Stick 2 your principles especially the one on cheating,atleast u deserve a faithful patner since u are not a cheater.If u are a virgin,i think u deserve a virgin too.Although they are scarce nowadays.But always stick 2 wat mks u happy!! |
| Re: Do My Principles Affect My Relation With Ladies? by tpia5: 3:26pm On Aug 02, 2011 |
Depends on what you can work with, @ poster. But dont rush to date people until you really know them, or at least have an idea of their character. |
| Re: Do My Principles Affect My Relation With Ladies? by Mynd44: 3:29pm On Aug 02, 2011 |
@ksid, The world does not work like that. Just cos he is a virgin does not mean he will get one. |
| Re: Do My Principles Affect My Relation With Ladies? by bilms(m): 12:05pm On Mar 16, 2012 |
cheers |
| Re: Do My Principles Affect My Relation With Ladies? by omega25red(m): 1:39pm On Mar 16, 2012 |
poster lucky for you that you are a man and there are lots of women in the world to listen to you even when you are 70. Your principle b.s is b!tch like who walks around with a list of what they expect and then dump that person soon as you think she can't fulfill your list? In this life, the only perfection is GOD if you believe beyond that people have imperfections and being able to work with and deal with those imperfections is the ultimate sign of maturity. i bet if you actually took the time to look at the faults you chose in dumping these women you will find that those things are actually trivial so i say to you if you really want to settle down, you are going to have to relax some rules you have and at least tell the woman or women you are "toasting" from the get go so they can either decide to ride with you because maybe they are willing to adjust or they can leave without getting emotionally attached to you and being suddenly dumped because you saw something that violates your rules and you couldn't tell em. no offense |
| Re: Do My Principles Affect My Relation With Ladies? by Nobody: 3:53pm On Mar 16, 2012 |
OP live you life however it pleases you ok. its your life afterall |
| Re: Do My Principles Affect My Relation With Ladies? by bilms(m): 10:09am On Mar 17, 2012 |
lol..thanks anyway. |
| Re: Do My Principles Affect My Relation With Ladies? by bekay911(f): 10:29am On Mar 17, 2012 |
Brb |
| Re: Do My Principles Affect My Relation With Ladies? by Nobody: 11:05am On Mar 17, 2012 |
Dyt: ynt check ur self abeg leave him o dyt. he has that right to drop them as he likes when they mess up just like you do |
| Re: Do My Principles Affect My Relation With Ladies? by maclatunji: 12:26pm On Mar 17, 2012 |
OP, you remind me of me, except that I seem to be more extreme. I do a quick mental analysis and drop them before hi is even said. If you see me really getting involved with a lady, it will be because my principles are not likely to be compromised by getting involved with her. |
| Re: Do My Principles Affect My Relation With Ladies? by harakiri(m): 2:47pm On Mar 17, 2012 |
@Poster NOPE! ! ! Your principles don't count for nothing but your bank account does. |
| Re: Do My Principles Affect My Relation With Ladies? by ronkebp(f): 3:01pm On Mar 17, 2012 |
Good to know some people still have principles. |
| Re: Do My Principles Affect My Relation With Ladies? by bilms(m): 11:24am On Mar 20, 2012 |
lol |
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