i realy nid u guy's help and advice on this burning issue. I had a girl when i was on campus even though i neva realy luvd her but i still got stuck wit her,maybe it was bcuz of her body dat she gave at ease due 2 d luv she has 4 me. Sincerely my intention was to abandon d relatnshp as a we graduate bt i was shocked when i receivd a call frm her relatns 6 months afta grad dat she has taken in 4 me. My father made sure we had a formal introductn b4 her delivery even though it was nt my will. Now my son is abt 1 and a half yr old and my suppossed in law want to knw my marriage intentns. I realy do nt LOVE dis lady bt evry 1 is askng me to consider my son. The questn nw is who is more important 2 me my son or my feelngs.

Your feelings here man.

Dont marry her stricly because of the child involved although it would be nice.

You'd both just end up frustrated, miserable and old.

Why u no keep ur pr ick for 1 place?? Now u see trouble wey u cos for urself. Anyways any marriage that is not based on love is bulls*** so u better work things out.

U should have used a condom in the first place!!  poor kid

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too late for that now

Both are important, the deed az already bn done

wahala!!

@all i was caught in d act but like kokoye said d deed is done. I have to say this she is nt even helpng matters wit her pride. I told her parents i wuld nt b interestd again bt peaople are sayng they can cast a spell on me. I am realy scared.

If they refuse to give you the child because you dont want to marry her then leave the child for her. Your child will one day look for you. She may take this case to court.

igelomo:

@all i was caught in d act but like kokoye said d deed is done. I have to say this she is nt even helpng matters wit her pride. I told her parents i wuld nt b interestd again bt peaople are sayng they can cast a spell on me. I am realy scared.

kasala for u ooo

How can you have unprotected sex with someone u dont love,dat was stupid & selfish man,but you shouldnt end up miserable cos of your silly mistake,just try 2 explain to her how you realy feel & don't make such mistake again.best of luck to you.

@freecocoa thank you

I dont see why you have to marry her just because you got her pregnant. Don't marry her if you don't love her you would just be miserable. But do take care of your son. You dont have to be married to the woman to be there for your son.

@ igelomo,you are very welcome.

Poster.

Better run fast go marry the girl, who you dey leave am for to marry? Me or who, you must really be joking.

At least childlessness wouldn't be among your bountiful problems.

Ur son is more important

I tot i culd manage her at least bcuz of my son but d feelings and affectns dat a man shld naturaly have 2wards his wife are absolutely missng. If i eventually marry her due to d pressures on my neck, then i will surely hav to marry another dat i luv.