In the bid to appear loved and social, people (men especially) tend to chase at everything around them that they find attractive. They stack up money and multiple partners like a pack of cards and go ahead boasting they can lay any lady or guy they want and anytime they desire. This massages their ego and gives them the feeling that they are very attractive and appealing to just anybody, but the power if attraction is not that which goes after, but that which comes to.

Men feel that attraction is all about the amount of girls they have, the amount of money they have made or the number of abs they have built. women on the other hand feel that all there is to attraction is wearing pretty clothes, looking beautiful and sexy. While these things contribute to make one attractive, there are other important ingredients of attraction we all over look.

Attraction goes way beyond beauty, money and sexy. physical attraction is good but psychological attraction is also very important, everything that defines your personality and outlook defines your power of attraction. Your behavior, your intelligence, your charisma, your social life, your confidence, the way you relate with others, the way you speak, your sense of responsibility etc. Simply put it that attraction goes beyond the way you look but the way you appear and the way you are perceived.

Work on yourself, your character, how attractive is your behaviour around people? can you start an intelligent conversation and keep it going? How about your attitude toward solving problems? The way you approach people, your confidence around them, how well do you relate with others including those below you or your social class. What about your social life? Is it all about clubbing and drinking? Your diction and assent, your sense of understanding and ability to keep a level head under chaos. A million and one things make you attractive than you know even the way you smell sometimes influences your attraction more than the way you look.

Attraction starts with you, stop chasing others and stacking them up like cards, attract them! Concentrate and work more on yourself, that way you will attract the right people in your life. Invest in your self and your outlook and people will see you and want to invest in you. Don’t just strive to be attractive to the opposite sex, be attractive to everybody, this way you will attract the right opposite sex. Remember that like minds attract therefore you are what you attract, attract not just what you want but everything you need.

Source: https://flipmemes.com/2019/10/02/attraction-work-on-yourself/

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