So I have been having this argument with someone for a while and I need mature input from the men and women of the family section. Is it proper for a man's brother to visit and stay in his home alone with his wife for extended periods while the said man is away?

In order words, ladies would be comfortable with your brother in law visiting and spending days while your husband is away and husbands will you condone this? Many thanks for your views.

So far the husband knows about it, it shouldn't be a problem. Maybe the husband even directed the brother to do so, or the brother is just being nice and checking on her so she won't feel lonely .
However, if the woman is not comfortable, then her husband has to ask the brother to stop visiting. She needs to feel safe in her own home.

The husband does know about it but the wife feels it is improper for the brother in law to be passing nights in their home in the husband's absence. Who's right? Who's wrong?

He was sent to monitor the wife.

Haba the wife is childish, I don't see anything wrong here especially if the house is big enough to afford everyone their privacy.

It's like brother visiting his single sister house n spending time there

chivaley:
The husband does know about it but the wife feels it is improper for the brother in law to be passing nights in their home in the husband's absence. Who's right? Who's wrong?

If you're the wife, what stopped you from picking up your phone to casually inform your husband that his brother visited and spent/is spending the night?

These women sef

There’s no right or wrong really!

It all boils down to the rapport between the wife,husband and and bro-in-law as well as if there’s enough space for everyone’s privacy as mentioned above.

Another factor is if the bro-in law loafs around all day it will be eventually irritating to the wife. IF she also has to serve him like many in-laws expect then of course that’s also an accident waiting to happen!

Of course the bro-in-law too should know better than to make extended visits especially if husband isn’t around.

When it comes to the man's family there will be issues


If its from the wife's side, we no go hear anything, that's when she will say the man is immature




Just say you don't like him