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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by bizhop01: 9:46am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Another Nonsense |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by phymba: 9:46am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Sir, I love your sincerity in bringing your dilemma here. I know exactly the feeling. In 2012/13 I was in such pain when the lady I was getting set to take to the altar opened up on same issue. I brought it to this beautiful forum...most guys bashed me like kilode, called me all sorts of unprintable names..ONLY one precious soul of a lady, an angel I think..gave me a level headed counsel, that I should not loose that girl. Her advice gave me peace. we have 2 girls and 2boys now (the boys are deadly identical twins)..if I were to be allowed to come to this world again, i will search Biola out and marry her again and again. And I am Ibo, and definitely not a saint..BOTTOMLINE: If you have that connection, don't allow that girl slip away, she's a keeper 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by DenreleDave(m): 9:46am On Oct 29, 2019 |
generationz: How do we believe the babe? Is it true that she did that to help her broke ex or she is just trying to paint a good girl picture for him? No be woman, they can make everything sweet and you will be like u have found the best woman but deeply, na pretender and liar all join 4 Likes |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by GoldHorse(m): 9:46am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Forgive her as how?! Did she offend you in any way? She even love and trusted you enough to "confess" She did all these before you started dating SO E NO CONCERN YOU! You should only be concerned with her actions from the day you started dating, period! Enjoy your woman and don't seek problems where there's none. 2 Likes |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by realestniggah: 9:46am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Logan95: Take some days off think about it.. And see if you still love her after.. At the end of the day only you can make a decision that best for you.. Just know this people have the ability to change and shouldn't be judged on past deeds 3 Likes |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by glowskillz: 9:46am On Oct 29, 2019 |
lilwetdick:... Did you even read a single word of the post at all? 1 Like |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by mubarakyoung: 9:47am On Oct 29, 2019 |
My Fren Go For Maltina Can One Open Is Ok Not Bottle Of Cocakola That Is Open And Close , Open And Close |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Duru009(m): 9:47am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Please wife her, its rear honestly these days to get and see an sincere lady. Very difficult! |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by lessonsoflife: 9:47am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Sampam911: Lol I don't just run like that na. Deliverance from what exactly. |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Eberex(m): 9:47am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Do the same thing and confess your own pat sins. She did not do wrong by telling you, it is better you hear it from her mouth than from another source if eventually, you go ahead with the relationship 1 Like |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by QDubz(m): 9:48am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Wait you need the whole NL to tell ya she f**king loves you? ... 1 Like |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Asiaerrandboy: 9:48am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Mumu reasons to worry about. What's your problem with anyone's past? Is there any big deal in sex? Is written on forehead? Can you eat it all? Have you not sex any woman before her? Have you not bleep her? Leave her and meet the worst ahead. #tell her not tell you any story like that again 'cos you're man enough to know such. # I read sometimes ago on nairaland that some husbands lease out their wife for tourist in Kenya... It is called tourist sex. 1 Like |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Korllami007: 9:49am On Oct 29, 2019 |
generationz: This Crack me up. You think her main objective is to provide for her ex. All these olosho on coded runs, in message, na most of them get boyfriend and some of them are spending money on their boyfriends but thinking that their main goal of going into whoring is to provide for their boyfriends is what's funny to me. It's not a new thing. A female student will be dating sugar zaddy and she'll be spending the money she gets from sugar zaddy on her boyfriend but the boyfriend will be thinking she's rich. It's not a new a thing and I don see am wella. But you saying is because of love is what crack me up. What if she has been whoring before she met her ex. You're very funny. 3 Likes
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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by ngwababe(f): 9:49am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Logan95: No mind him, they don't read to understand at all, na so dem dey kill innocent person. My dear, it might be truth, and it might be lie(to know how you will react). If you still feel that same way you felt when you met her, please continue, but if you don't, quietly lay her off. |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by realestniggah: 9:49am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Logan95: 20 year old around the world are making mistakes dialy.. |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Nobody: 9:50am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Logan95:Bros everyone wants to get laid lie now say you never lay woman the fact that she told you means she wants to set it right and that is a true gem if you love am love am life is crooked sha always remember that 1 Like |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by chigoizie7(m): 9:50am On Oct 29, 2019 |
lilwetdick: Only if you know Nigerian girls well enough, you won’t be surprised that age 20 is even advanced when it comes to abortion. I am not saying that it is right. But that next girl you will go for. Do you know her past? Do you know what she has done too? 1 Like |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by gbagyiza: 9:50am On Oct 29, 2019 |
If I were u, I will be happy for her telling me d truth. It is difficult for a lady to tell u her past even do she loves u. She genuinely loves you. But the question is that, do you love her as much as she loves you? Common, the decision is yours, follow your heart in making your decision because you're the one in d Center of it. But I must tell u that an open-minded ladies like her are scares nowadays. 2 Likes |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Samuels90: 9:51am On Oct 29, 2019 |
I hate that you don't deserve me, you deserve better line. That's like an emotional blackmail. Buh she loyal for telling you the truth.. Stick there a Lil bit, if you know she real! With time you will know who she truly is, just don't use the confession for punishment, if you not liking it, take a bow in peace. |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by martowskin1(m): 9:51am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Logan95: Bro, thats a NL problem.... If she has changed for good, mehnnnn everyone have a past, u are lucky she told u, from all u have said she deserve a second chance. |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by 1deycoalw(m): 9:52am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Forgive her, she told you the truth and tell her not to go back there |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by sophia28(f): 9:52am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Forgive her..��b4 she confessed 2 u that means she really loves u .......Okay y she no confess to her ex? |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Imoobot(m): 9:52am On Oct 29, 2019 |
My Brother forgive and continue f*cking her if she sincerely regretted her past. Afterall, the devil you no is better than the angel you dont no. |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by jaxxy(m): 9:52am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Logan95: An honest gal is rare and it shows she probably has changed or wants to change and turn a new leaf. Also such a gal can’t hide anything from u ever mostly likely. If u leave her, u might meet one that has done same or worse bt will rather hide her info from u so as not to loose u. These type can be dangerous smtmes. Also what she just confessed is about what many other gals have done. Atleast 50/60% of gals have slept with guys for money sake. Abortions maybe 30% At the end of the day it comes down to how u view her after all this. If u can’t handle it pls leave and don’t make her feel worse for confessing to u, sm other guy will Appreciate her truth and love her despite These flaws and mistakes. This doesn’t make u a bad person just not the right person. For me it will depend on the level of love and trust that exists between us. That will be the determining factor. Sm1 can tell me this and I will leave and Sm1 else and I will stay no matter what so It depends. 1 Like |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by chinedu234(m): 9:52am On Oct 29, 2019 |
To confess before strong commitment is exemplary. Abortions have very bad negative effects. If both of you have slept together,it is sin. Relationship,especially marriage is the bonding of two histories. Look hard at your past history and what you will like it to be till the end of life. Does her past and imaginable future look suitable for your dream? This needs to be your consideration for the next possibly one year before a reasonable decision can be made. And you must not sleep with her in order to be objective. Most mistakes in our marriages arise from not doing such realistic reasoning. And we are prejudiced by sex. 1 Like |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by RoyalHighness7(m): 9:53am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Nobody Holy! |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by alizma: 9:53am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Logan95:You already have your problem solved since you understood she confesses without you asking. She could have keep her secrets to herself but she choose to let you know who she was. Now the question is do you feel better hearing it from her now or you would have prefer to hear it later and from outsider? I will advise you just focus on her new life with you rather focus on her past |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by SocialJustice: 9:53am On Oct 29, 2019 |
rossovu:Case closed. Nobody holy pass. |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Wande22(m): 9:53am On Oct 29, 2019 |
If I were you @Logan95, I would grab her with ARADITE HANDS For a lady to come out clean to you means that she's ready to commit her body, spirit, and soul to you Study her.... if truly she had changed why not... GRAB YA COPY NOW!!!!!!!!! BatleFox: 1 Like |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by OVA200(m): 9:53am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Op i will advise u not to break up with her but dont put ur 100% trust in her becaure there are two ways to this; either she truly loves u and really want to keep the relationship or thats her way of life and she just want ur pity to continue her hoeloshoism or she might even be testing u because some girls are still that daft. All these things i read here on nairaland make me to thank God, love and appreciate my girlfriend more. |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by xavierx: 9:53am On Oct 29, 2019 |
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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by kizyalex10(m): 9:54am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Logan95:everyone wants to know the past of who they re dating but very few can handle the truthful past.and to be couragous to tell u even without u asking means a whole lot.u will be more broken if u find out yourself. Most students female sleep with lecturers for mark.but non will admit to it.because no body wants to be tagged a LovePeddler.as for me i better deal with d devil i knw than the pretentious angel.gudluck bro.las las na u get d final decision |
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