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Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by ngwababe(f): 5:24pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
sassysure: I dey tells you. |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by kollinz1234(m): 5:24pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Is constant fornication better than getting married without have financial strength |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by jimmyLd101: 5:25pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Micholawoye:Ori Wan loburu 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by mindful01: 5:26pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
babyfaceafrica:because of what I said earlier |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by Omoejigbahe(m): 5:27pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Worst advice ever, even the Bible says build your business before you build your house.(Proverbs 24:27) Marry when both of you are financially stable. Shalom. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by spencekat(m): 5:28pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Omoejigbahe:Thank you. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by Edyice: 5:28pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe: My brown sugar bae is quoting me How far na Anyways to answer your question , men get married when they have investment on ground or monthly paying job , if not Na suffer oooh .. And we all know what women can do if or when money isn't coming in... 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by webngnews: 5:29pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Hmmmm |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by Oluwaseun0704(m): 5:33pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
People are making a lot of sense on this thread. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by mindful01: 5:34pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Starz825: If they marry legally |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by Razram: 5:35pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
emmaodet:He was trying to marry at the prime time and marry the right one not just marry 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by nauto5: 5:38pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Proverbs 18:22 He who finds a wife finds a good thing, And obtains favor from the Lord. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by Divay22(f): 5:38pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
okokkk:Hahahahahha lol |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by Naanlong01: 5:39pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
I don't believe this. Don't go and be like one guy in my compound o. He is only a phone charger and married (no wedding o) e just impregnated the poor girl and now they have a daughter that is of school age but not yet in school, the only food i see them cook every night when they return from the charging center is indomie, imagine indomie without egg for the 3of them every night. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by Nobody: 5:39pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Acidosis: Nice one. I like the last word. THINK. How many Nigerians can think? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by midnighter(f): 5:44pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
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Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by loswhite(m): 5:47pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Micholawoye:So If you get married because you are employed, what will you do if you loose the job after getting married? Maybe you will divorce the next morning telling the lady to be on standby pending when you get another job...lol 7 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by akpunda86: 5:48pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Micholawoye: Yes ohhh.I was jobless and wife too but our sex was bam bam.morning till note.pregnancy come we were adviced to marry. Where I go get money.well we did how the wedding happened I don't know.how my wedding suit came o don't know all I know we printed photocopied cards for Iv. Baby came.wow was breast feeding but guys for me and my wife no easy. Lucliky for me and my family an application I did years ago and forgotten I was called and given a house in lekki.from one room to a duplex with a hilux van. Well from that company to anoda till I became an entrepreneur. Guys marriage open doors depends on kpeleke u dey marry.for me my wife knocked on the door and my little queen angel opened the day and I say Lord thank u for giving me a golden family. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by Beatswim: 5:50pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Been married for 5years with 3kids now.. And my prophet told me same thing 6 years ago.. I took the same bold step.. It was very tough decision for cos i depended on my wife for everything for 5 years . Shes a medical personnel but very humble and tolerant to a fault ..until this year God opened a very big way for me.. If i had waited till now.. Just tell me where will i find that type of highly tolerant, disciplined andGod fearing lady now? Be wise 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by Samuels90: 5:51pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
okokkk: 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by sholay2011(m): 5:52pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Acidosis:This is one of those posts one would have 'liked' before realizing, on a closer look, it is not saying much. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by ChiefSweetus: 5:53pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
So why are all those Northern families with their one million almajiri children still poorer than church rats 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by midnighter(f): 5:56pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by Funkybabee(f): 5:57pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Which pastor or your cultue say so some people talk as if the don't have sens@ |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by Gracemadeit(m): 5:57pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Marriage is for matured minds. But a man must at least have something doing before marriage. If a man is advised to marry without a job, where will he stay with his wife and how will he pay the bride price of his wife. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by jodoh: 5:58pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Take life at ur own pace. It is not those who are first to submit their script during exam that score the "A" grade. Don't rush to submit ur script in any area of life becos others are submitting theirs. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by loswhite(m): 5:59pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Micholawoye:do you also know single ppl that are struggling? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by Godsonkemz(m): 6:00pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
They (pastors) work by faith and when you connect with their faith and be positive, blessings will come. You must not be employed by an organization before you marry as a man but you have to be doing something (self employed) that can generate resources to sustain two people. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by DeKen: 6:02pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Acidosis: This sounds like a woman's fantasy. In the African reality that we live in there are tones of expectations that come to men when they get married and this puts married men on pressure. And if you are a christian, the bible considers you worse than an infidel if you can not take care of your family. Some of these expectations are; 1. Taking care of your wife and children (these are basic) 2. Supporting your extended family (including those from your wife's side) - While this is not compulsory, the requests that will come can embarrass you and put you on pressure. 3. You are now standing on your feet and most of those who previously pitied you and would assist from time to time now find excuse. I won't encourage anyone who does not have a means of livelihood to get married. The expectation that things will sort out themselves when you get married is a flawed one. You should focus of establishing yourself first before taking further responsibilities unless you plan to be an irresponsible husband and father. After they've pressured you into marriage, the'll soon pressure you into having children but most of these people will not be there for you when the responsibilities come calling. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by Lumig: 6:05pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Acidosis:What kind of person /advice is this for God's sake. Na this kind of person dey push people into avoidable hardship and heartbreak. 4 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by Revolva(m): 6:06pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Acidosis: True but for this naija how many girls are capable of sharing bills with you Think am na 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by momove4real25(f): 6:10pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
babyfaceafrica:wisdom will not leave you |
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