i'm wondering if i would ever get married? from my hair to my toe, i don't like it. even when i was supposed to go for nysc, i did not go. i have scars all over my body. my legs are filled with mosquito bites and some scars. my top body is filled with marks too. Then my armpits are dark.
please no criticism but honest help. i am scared i may not marry or it might be hard.

Sorry dear.  talk to a dermatologist. Make up for what you lack physically with your personality.

@poster

If your body is really that bad, you need to do the following:

1.Work on your personality.
2.Have your p_ussy tightened so that your man will find you an unbeatable thrill. (you will have to have c-section births, but a happy home is worth it.)
3.Learn how to use your p_ussy to thrill a guy.(This will keep any man in your life so enchanted by you)
4.Work on your personality

If you do these, your body will not matter and your friends will wonder what hold you have over your man.

johndoe200:

@poster

If your body is really that bad, you need to do the following:

1.Work on your personality.
2.Have your p_ussy tightened so that your man will find you an unbeatable thrill. (you will have to have c-section births, but a happy home is worth it.)
3.Learn how to use your p_ussy to thrill a guy.(This will keep any man in your life so enchanted by you)
4.Work on your personality

If you do these, your body will not matter and your friends will wonder what hold you have over your man.

. . .Not to trivialize the poster's fear but mehn, na which kind advice be dis na? You just centred all Ur advise on her PU**Y like that's her main worry. . Lol
Anyway, at poster, you seriously need professional help both inwards and outwards. . .

You probably think a lot worse about your body than men do.

Regarding scars and stuff, cocoa butter and time will heal them.

Main thing you need to do is to get some self-confidence in yourself. Perhaps counseling would be useful.

Regarding armpits, who cares? I've never cared personally myself, and I doubt most guys do. Your armpits can be blue for all I care, it won't affect your attractiveness.

Anyway, I've been there before in my life, self-doubt and insecurity is something pretty much everyone deals with at some point in their lives. Just know that you are not alone.

rhymz:

. . .Not to trivialize the poster's fear but mehn, na which kind advice be dis na? You just centred all your advise on her PU**Y like that's her main worry. . Lol
Anyway, at poster, you seriously need professional help both inwards and outwards. . .

The poster is worried about her marriage prospects to a man (I suppose), I gave her advice that would make her body irrelevant in the eyes of her potential mate. That is her main worry.

johndoe200:

@poster

If your body is really that bad, you need to do the following:

1.Work on your personality.
2.Have your p_ussy tightened so that your man will find you an unbeatable thrill. (you will have to have c-section births, but a happy home is worth it.)
3.Learn how to use your[b] p_ussy to thrill a guy[/b].(This will keep any man in your life so enchanted by you)
4.Work on your personality

If you do these, your body will not matter and your friends will wonder what hold you have over your man.

its all about her innit?

^-- Probably would get different advice from women, lol

Where you in marathon fight that got you all the scars?

Continue in severe daily grooming with time you will be fine. You can visit the dermatologist for further help.

Moi dear, stop hating on ur body, walk with ur head held up high,

@poster, you should work on your personality and other less physical traits, see a dermatologist bout the skin, but always remember, beauty is a lot deeper than skin

Sweetheart,please stop doing this to yourself,I beg you.
Lemme tel you a lil positive 'secret' I bear in always. 'Whatever you celebrate,appreciates' as such,I celebrate everything,as in everythng about myself. I may not have the best of it,but when I step forth,you'l catch ur breath.
Please,work on yourself,tell yourself you are the best and treat yourself like a Princess,that you really are. You are educated,you have good legs (u aint crippled),you gat eyes(u not blind),you are a masterpiece,only u havent realised it yet. Take simple health instructions,see a dematologist if you can afford one(Offcourse,u should. Go to a teachn hospital its cheaper),in the meanwhile,read books,get exposed,gain knowlede,socialise(even if people dnt wanna hangout with you),take urself out and spend stupidly on yourself. Be nice to people,smile always and we'l celebrate you in a short while.

Dis poster is not sayin d truth,why cant u people reasn wit me or belv me?

Mr.Bones:

Miss. Poster what should we do? Cry for u? Abeg don't be stup1d jor. Handsome and beautiful people that are dead will gladly exchange death for your looks. Yin yin yin i might not even get married, oya u don't like urself then take your life then. **mstchew**
When u start to appreciate urself then will u see that u hve hidden beauty. As majority has said-go visit a dermatologist . But me i will say first love urself . LOL wetin u love sef? If the world was filled with handsomes and beauties what do u fink will happen?
Ma bible tells me that i'm beautifully and fearfully made. Lest i forget i are close to your creator? There is nothing impossible for him to do.
Lastly i don't like your username, Seun u fit do her a favour by changing the name to it's opposite.
THANK U!

Mr Bones said it all

Oya Crawl out of the body now, abi you get some wey you created put for sale somewhere? Love what you've got. Work it until you love it, don't sit down and sulk and tell me that you hate that body. Begin to act like you like it, seek remedies for the spots and find scar removals quickly. Don't allow your body hold you in such hostage that you are too shy and afraid to go for your NYSC.
I don't have a habit of criticising but right now you need harshness to knock you out of your sulking self and get up and work the body that you've got.
I will be a bit kind to make up for my harshness and play you this nice song about a young lady like you who chose to love herself unconditionally black armpit or yellow armpit, black spot or no blackspot (the singer India Arie even have black spots on her face but it did not prevent her from loving herself and shouting it on the mountain top)

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