Today, marriages are no longer as charming and dream-worthy as it used to be. The rate at which marriages crash is alarming which has even made some change their view about marriage.

So, if I’m correct, you are here because you want to know more about those things that kill marriages faster.

Before then, if you have not read my article about the types of partner to avoid before marriage, you can read it here as that will further enlighten and help you understand this better. So now, let’s go into details.

Things that kills the joy of marriage which you must avoid
Secrets
Except if you are planning a surprise. Keeping secrets or hiding some sensitive things from your partner could be the beginning of the end of that marriage. In marriage, talk about everything, don’t feel it’s not necessary, what you feel is not necessary might be very important and could even save you later if you open up on time.

There is nothing like “I can handle it”. If there is anything that keeps marriage fun, its constant communication even when the two of you are not on good terms.

And if you are looking for one powerful tool that keeps marriage, its trust, and trust is not automatic my dear, you earn it. One better way to earn it is by not keeping secrets.

Let him know almost everything so that he won’t start having trust issues with you when he eventually finds out himself or from an outsider.

Difference in beliefs
Having different belief has destroyed many marriages and has even led to domestic violence of some. If you are married and belief is causing the problem, it’s better to sit and sort it out or separate if none of you is ready to make adjustments.

Current case study is Kim Kardashian and her husband Kanye West.

The new change of belief of Kanye is already bringing little problems to the table because he is trying to enforce it on their daughter which currently as at the time of this article, doesn’t go well with Kim.

Don’t ever think of going into domestic violence to solve it, it affects the kids in so many ways, you can read more about the effects of domestic violence on kids https://braveachiever.com/effects-of-domestic-violence-on-kids/.

Brave Achiever said “When the husband is religious and the wife is not or vice versa, there is going to be a problem except on rare occasions. If you have not gotten married, don’t hope your case will fall into the category of rare occasion. Prevention they say, is better than looking for a cure”

So, don’t be blinded by love, don’t be self-centred, think of your kids too, they don’t deserve confusion.

Domestic Violence
You can say this is the easiest way to kill the emotions of your partner. This is the mostly associated with men

The day you raise your hand on her, that is the day the foundation of that marriage starts shaking.

As a woman, if he hits while in relationship, then imagine what he will do when he have full access to you after marriage.

If he hits you in relationship, I will suggest you don’t think of marriage. And if you observe he has anger issues, let him completely solve it before marriage.

Your life is very important

Cheating
Cheating is no more “breaking news” when it comes to reason for broken marriages, and it’s not gender-specific.

In fact, it has the highest percentage of the reason people leave marriages and relationships. This is why I always advise people that marriage doesn’t cure cheating. If your partner can’t solve it before marriage, don’t think marriage will perform the miracle

Listening to friends all the time
As funny as it sounds, it will surprise you to know that many marriages ended because either of the partners was listening to friends and trying to please them.

If you are the type that can’t make decisions over .... continue reading https://braveachiever.com/10-things-that-kills-the-joy-of-marriage/

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