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7 Dangerous Things You Should Avoid In Your Relationship by AdebisiAdeyinka(m): 8:52pm On Nov 11, 2019 |
Building a good and lasting relationship may be difficult but you should begin with avoiding things that may damage your relationship. Read also: 6 tips to maintain peace with others Lovers may find it too difficult to maintain a steady relationship not because of their differences but because of some little problems that may break their relationships. If you find it too difficult to manage your relationship, there are things you should start avoiding. These things are the causes of broken relationship because there is no way you can keep your relationship if those things are involved. However, in order to maintain a lasting relationship, the following are the things you should avoid: Lying : the only things lying does to a relationship is to damage the trust of one’s partner. If you’re not telling your partner the truth, he/she will find it difficult to build his trust in you. Lying leads to lack of confidence in one’s partner and this may lead to misunderstanding which may eventually lead to a broken relationship. Always learn how to say the truth even if your lover won’t be happy with you. Lack of communication : “In a relationship when communication starts to fade, everything else follows” – anonymous. If you’re not consistent with communicating with your partner especially when he/she is far away he/she may suddenly lose interest in you. Learn how to communicate often in your relationship. With that your relationship will keep blooming. Others will even envy you. Lack of communication is really dangerous in a relationship, lovers should therefore avoid it! Lack of trust : If you’re feeling too insecure about your lovers this is very dangerous and may lead to a sudden misunderstanding. I see no reason why we should go into a relationship with people we don’t trust. We shouldn’t even keep them as friends let alone planning to marry them. Trust is very essential in a relationship as it will boost your confidence about your partner. It will enable you to be free with your lovers at all level and it will make you avoid the influence of third party — such as gossips from your friends and rumours about your lovers. Cheating: This is one of the leading cause of a broken relationship and partners should start dealing with it. If you keep on cheating in your relationship, your partner will surely find out someday and this will eventually damage your relationship. No matter how small the relationship should be, cheating should be avoided at all levels of relationship. I see no reason of going into a relationship with someone we’re not satisfied with. If you love someone with big booty and big boobs, why not go after them instead of cheating? I’m not saying that should be a criteria for choosing your partner but to avoid lack of interest in your lover, you should go after your taste initially. Stay loyal with your lover, only then you will maintain a stable relationship. Bad behavior: Bad behavior varies because what I consider bad may not be bad to you. But there are some behaviors which are not accepted by the society in which you find yourself. You may find it difficult to continue with your lover if he/she is smoking or drinking alcohol. Those acts are consider bad to you and the society with which you find yourself. If you’re into some bad acts that your partner doesn’t like, you should stop it in order to maintain a good relationship. Remember, relationship doesn’t bloom when there are traces of bad habit. Anger: Build a mansion today then damage it tomorrow with your anger. We have heard of some issues of five year relationship which damaged because of uncontrollable anger. If you’re angry you should try not to speak because once a word is spoken it can’t be swallowed again — the word is an egg. So try to control yourself when you’re angry, this will not only help you maintain a good relationship but also help you to maintain a sound health. Toxic friends or people: the aim of some people in your life is to hard salt to your wound — to make you unhappy. This is not new, people will come, making you feel bad about your lover — your spouse or your fiance. They will tell you about his/her pasts and reasons why you shouldn’t go into relationship with him/her, do not listen to them! Such people are dangerous! Anyone whose aim is to make you feel bad about your spouse is very dangerous and you should start avoiding them. If he/she hasn’t given you a good report about your lover before, avoid them! They’re only meant to damage your peace and your relationship with your partner. I wish us a thriving relationship as we observed these little tips! Oya Lalasticlala Mynd44 coman do your job o Read more via the link below � � � https://bidemiblog.com/7-things-you-should-avoid-in-your-relationship/
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Re: 7 Dangerous Things You Should Avoid In Your Relationship by AdebisiAdeyinka(m): 9:11pm On Nov 11, 2019 |
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Re: 7 Dangerous Things You Should Avoid In Your Relationship by GreenDee(f): 9:29pm On Nov 11, 2019 |
nice writeup! |
Re: 7 Dangerous Things You Should Avoid In Your Relationship by IamPlato(m): 9:39pm On Nov 11, 2019 |
I Was Discussing With My Girl Today About Trust. We Had A Thrilling Conversation |
Re: 7 Dangerous Things You Should Avoid In Your Relationship by AdebisiAdeyinka(m): 10:20pm On Nov 11, 2019 |
IamPlato:do you find this article helpful? If yes, pls kindly leave a comment on the blog via the article link |
Re: 7 Dangerous Things You Should Avoid In Your Relationship by Nobody: 4:02am On Nov 12, 2019 |
Very helpful. But I don't know why I find it very difficult to open up my heart to the people I love. This has been a challenge for me. |
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