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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by THURAFTERNOON: 10:27pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
lefulefu: Lol bro you know girls so much... This one isn't abroad matter sef ooh.. I experienced a very similar case of this op with my babe tonight...she's a girl I really love a lot and we've been together for years... I felt something was wrong btw us tonight and tried engaging her in a convo.. Truthfully, she admitted she met someone and have been studying him for sometime. She mentioned that the guy sends her some random lovely messages on whatsapp all day (which I don't really do) and even told me about the one the dude still sent to her this morning. Most girls easily get freaked out when guys sweetmouth them.. Its really sad sha. Men should just think and work on themselves which is the most important thing. Women would value and chase you when you're OK.. I mean OKAY! THE babe matter just dey funny me sha. 8 Likes
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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by dejio42(m): 10:27pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
she asked for 2 weeks break and u apologized. Are you insane? Do you need your math teacher to solve this equation. SHE IS DON WITH YOU. Be a man and move forward 4 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by IgbosNIGHTMARE: 10:27pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
holaxi:Leave her alone for your own good... She's not into you anymore... 3 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by makinson2865: 10:28pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
Dump her before she does bro!!!! If she is d one to make d first move, Two things are involved, you will be in severe pain and you may not get over her on time. If you are d One who initiate d breakup, isolate yourself from whatever that reminds you of her.Delete all her pics frm your phone n etc. Then, engage yourself with profitable things, hook up with Friends, fxxck her best friend as a pay back.......u ' ll be fine with respect to time. 9 Likes
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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by oodua1stson: 10:28pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
holaxi:you apologised to a lady? A lady that is openly cheating on you and even asked you for a break up? Thank your stars you're not my younger brother. I would have smashed something on your head. I'd rather not have a son than a guy like you as son Tueh! 11 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by HowDareU: 10:30pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
holaxi:Simple! Oga, spike it up a notch. Maybe you nag like a sissy. Learn to trust her OK? |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by barapistis(m): 10:30pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
Ladylite: Op Here is the answer 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by ColouredWriters(m): 10:30pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
Mehn she don dey Bleep outside already. She don already dey find the other guy interesting. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by tedimola(m): 10:30pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
holaxi:its the spirit of Succubus and Incubus 4 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by oodua1stson: 10:31pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
holaxi:a girl that openly cheats on you has NO GOOD ATTRIBUTES. Dude you have been poocee-whipped damn! Who raised these kind of men 3 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by noisy45(m): 10:31pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
Just enjoy the pussy forget all this your complains most ladies are born hoes 10 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by iknowexperts: 10:31pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
My brother, if you stay at a job for 3 years, no promotion, no increase in salary, won't you be applying for another job? It's just human nature She's been with you 3 years, no marriage. It can be either of these 2 things: 1. You're still contemplating if she'll make a good wife 2. You do not have the resources to run a family, yet I doubt if no. 1 is the case. If it's no. 2. Bro, just focus on you increasing your means. Let the babe go if she wishes to move. You will definitely get opportunities to meet better quality people when you increase your means And as for your GF, she just wants chance to enjoy the other guy without feeling too much guilt. I might be wrong though. The signs are there. But it's up to you to decide if she's worth waiting for. If she isn't, turn that 2 weeks break she's asking for to a permanent break Selah 7 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by zicoraads: 10:32pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
It's done, move the fúck on. You've been dumped, bro. 9 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by dannybrasky(m): 10:32pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
makinson2865:Or make he go follow @ aro1 for romance section,make em too watch it flow out like a boss 4 Likes
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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Starz825(m): 10:32pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
richard870: Oga...don't expect too much from a girl wey no be ur wife..its normal for girlfriends to have people who still eye them while they are dating some other guy .....as a guy we handle matters differently...the moment u begin to stalk a woman...u want to know who she is talking to and all..u go get heart attack....if ur girl is fine and set...for sure guys are in her dm (u don't need to be told, even married women wey set..guys are in their dms chatting them day and night)...so if u warn her and she isn't adhering then she has lost focus... meaning no commitment...then the next is to leave her for some time which is the only way not to tolerate disrespect....esp all this girl within the bracket age of 18-25.. 6 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Nobody: 10:33pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
holaxi: Was that a trick question? Because you damn well know what has gotten into her. |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Acidosis(m): 10:33pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
Channel your energy into a productive venture. It will pay off. Don't fight for love. What's yours wouldn't give you stress. 7 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by collele(m): 10:33pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
metformin: Your username though....Are you a pharmacist? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by HowDareU: 10:34pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
Again, work on insecurities too. There are two sides to a story. However, women and their wahala self. Check my blog for all things security at www.securitymattersafrica.com |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Numerouno94(m): 10:34pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
She has started luvin dat guy. She will break up wit u soon. Its glaring, hw can a girl tell u dat she nids 2weeks break cos u complain 2much. My advice is:start looking for anoda girl. Nd pls stop dating one girl if u dnt wanna die of hypertension. Atleast keep 3 to 4 girlfriends nd i promise u dat u will feel more lyk a man. 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Sniper101(m): 10:35pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
I'm always perplexed whenever I see guys complain like this about the lady they're dating I mean, even when true love is involved, who wouldn't know the best course of action to take in a situation such as this? ....when I was in a similar situation, about two years ago, I left the bitch and clung to my side chick. A year n some months later she was trying to come back to me; cos the guy later left her. Presently, she and I are still f*cking even as I keep telling her at every chance I get that I won't have her back as a girlfriend. In conclusion: Bro, DROP THAT GIRL. You'll still be fine Las Las. 11 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by ArcSEMPECJ(m): 10:35pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
When you said GIRLFRIEND....I got discouraged to say a word......pls drop her ass and move on ..... She is only transiting in life until a husband picks her 3 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Nobody: 10:36pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
Ladylite:word
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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Forward77(m): 10:37pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
My brother, I like you so much for speaking up. I will give the Advice my father gave me and it’s working me. He said: “my son focus on your dreams and achieve success; women will run after you and then you will make your choice out of a bunch of options.” 27 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by nosa73(m): 10:38pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
Put it in prayer 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Nobody: 10:38pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
holaxi: It’s either she wants to get married or is bored of the relationship. If you really love her, add some spice to the relationship. Take her out, buy her chocolates, send her love messages early in the morning of how you never want to lose her. Be romantic! Don’t give up too easily. |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Cheryph200(m): 10:38pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
Alaye leave her alone with the new guy and focused on your self.. Work hard and make money.. Life is good when there 3is money.... She will be using your name as prayer point sooner or later when this money arrive 3 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by AuwalYusuf812(m): 10:39pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
I pray u lose the feeling already, because women are not meant to pute inside heart. dey are supposed be in a shoulder, so that when she misbehaved u can dropped her down without hurting urself 4 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Nobody: 10:39pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
Starz825:And you think she will stop after marriage? 2 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by lilachiever(m): 10:40pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
I can relate. I just broke up with mine cos I couldn't learn to trust her again after she did a similar thing, mine even went as far as telling the guy on WhatsApp that she needs a quiet time with him. I loved this Lady with all my being and I still do but I had to let her go just for me to have peace of mind. I'd never tolerate a girl cheating on me cos I don't do such too (like I even have the time to cheat) 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by bluefilm: 10:40pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
Women matter no dey ever taya una, bikonu? Nonsense. |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Countertenor(m): 10:40pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
Ladylite: Communication ko, Communication ni. (Hisses) The way to most women's heart is to know when to decide to spend quality time with them and when to leave her and face Ur Art ( what brings U money) . Shit Always leaves them wanting more. A man gets his sense of worth from Work, not from Women. Use Ur head. I see it everyday. It's as right as rain. [color=#990000][/color] 15 Likes |
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