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Re: Share Your Coming Of Age Stories by Ginaz(f): 12:52am On Nov 18, 2019
AryaSand:


Exactly!

Yes . cheesy
Re: Share Your Coming Of Age Stories by MrOdyssey(m): 12:54am On Nov 18, 2019
Shortyy:
For sale

Whats the cost?

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Re: Share Your Coming Of Age Stories by Smilebukkieman: 12:58am On Nov 18, 2019
Fifa is a scam....dey rubb Mexico with the penalty
Re: Share Your Coming Of Age Stories by TwoBottles: 12:59am On Nov 18, 2019
Neurotika:
Day me and my pop went to a bar then and he was like 'Are you sure just two will be enough for you?, you can take more'. Well I took more and we both staggered home...Twas there I knew I was now a boss....



You and your daddy staggered home? angry
Re: Share Your Coming Of Age Stories by nairalanduseles: 1:36am On Nov 18, 2019
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



Mine was when I made my then landlord's wife moan for me.
She was 46 and I was only 18.
There and then, I knew I had come of age.

That put a smile on my face
Re: Share Your Coming Of Age Stories by tonididdy(m): 1:51am On Nov 18, 2019
Spontaneous007:
The day i paid NEPA bill, LAWMA bill and still bought food stuff in the house. my mum started serving food for me in two plates

Haha
Re: Share Your Coming Of Age Stories by tonididdy(m): 1:57am On Nov 18, 2019
In as much as we all will become adults but I find it awkward and for me "uncomfortable" when my mother treats me like an adult like

... Serving my food in different plates.
... Go as far as bringing the food to the dining table.
... Always asking if I am satisfied or should she make another supplementary dish.
... Asking about my gf, what tribe she is?

Oh mine... I just want to remain a kid to her forever,just her. I don't want any adult treatments, most times it makes me really uncomfortable cry embarassed

Ahhhh.... Why do we grow old.

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Re: Share Your Coming Of Age Stories by tonididdy(m): 1:59am On Nov 18, 2019
nairalanduseles:


That put a smile on my face
I bet you are that landlady. grin
Re: Share Your Coming Of Age Stories by Iphran6: 2:11am On Nov 18, 2019
I was about 16 when my dad caught me in the morning in my room kissing my elder sister's friend who came to pass the night with her, it happened that I thought he was already gone to work before I made my advances at her which she responded affirmatively, then shortly my dad badged in without knocking on the door. He didn't say a word till evening when he came back from work, he then cautioned me... that was when I knew I have grown up, no beating, no baclashing, just caution. I was in SS3 then

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Re: Share Your Coming Of Age Stories by LadyGCrueDKilaB(f): 2:11am On Nov 18, 2019
0knm I'd love to hear your story
Re: Share Your Coming Of Age Stories by nairalanduseles: 2:11am On Nov 18, 2019
tonididdy:

I bet you are that landlady. grin

Hahahahaha
Re: Share Your Coming Of Age Stories by LadyGCrueDKilaB(f): 2:12am On Nov 18, 2019
I love your signature cheesy
tonididdy:

I bet you are that landlady. grin
Re: Share Your Coming Of Age Stories by CanadaOrBust: 2:13am On Nov 18, 2019
Last year when they didn’t start looking for me as usual after I disappeared with one of the vehicles

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Re: Share Your Coming Of Age Stories by LadyGCrueDKilaB(f): 2:13am On Nov 18, 2019
me I haven't yet come of age
At 24, my parents still look at me as a baby (freaking annoying)
hopefully tha'td change when I get a place of my own and become fully independent from next year

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Re: Share Your Coming Of Age Stories by Chuzoetoh(m): 2:16am On Nov 18, 2019
Mine was d day d King of my town gave me cabin biscuits, then I knew I've become a man. lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

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Re: Share Your Coming Of Age Stories by tonididdy(m): 2:21am On Nov 18, 2019
LadyGCrueDKilaB:
I love your signature cheesy

Firstly make I see your photo pls
Re: Share Your Coming Of Age Stories by LadyGCrueDKilaB(f): 2:23am On Nov 18, 2019
for wat? undecided
tonididdy:


Firstly make I see your photo pls
Re: Share Your Coming Of Age Stories by LannisterIMP: 2:24am On Nov 18, 2019
When I had rough play with a Girl and we didn’t finish up and I can’t seem to stop the pre-juice (colourless) flowing...


I was scared out of my mind thinking I had contracted std at that point wink grin grin grin

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Re: Share Your Coming Of Age Stories by tonididdy(m): 2:29am On Nov 18, 2019
LadyGCrueDKilaB:
for wat? undecided

If you fine?
Re: Share Your Coming Of Age Stories by Nobody: 2:29am On Nov 18, 2019
Mine was when our housegirl gave me my first bj...I came off age in her mouth tongue

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Re: Share Your Coming Of Age Stories by Nobody: 2:30am On Nov 18, 2019
Kkings11:
What is that moment that made you realise that you are now an adult or you have reached the age to do something important.

Mine was when I came home during my second year 1st semester holiday.

I was trying to sneak of at night to go and watch champions league when my dad just said "If you're going to watch ball, you should take the front door key so you will not didturb us when you get back". I was beyond shocked.

1) We attend deeper life
2) My father is a church worker, not just any worker oh but head usher.
As I dey waka I just dey feel like one lord.

The next holiday was when my Mom stopped calling me to come and take my food from the kitchen.

So Now I visited my elder brother's wife last week and I noticed she has stopped calling me just by my name, she always adds uncle and she now greets me if I did not see her first. Na now I know say I suppose go marry oh, but the money never dey.


Mhmmm...ive been racking my brain to remember and now I finally did.

Well for me, coming off age has been in stages. So I'm just going to drop the stages I felt I came off certain age at different points in my life
Enjoy...

First was when my parent started allowing me to go to Adeniji to buy garri at ebute ero or so, can't really remember the name of the place very well now. The place is popularly know for garri sales then.
I was like wow, so I too can now go like a big girl to buy quarter bag of garri without my elder Sis who we used to follow then. And it was even the distance that marvelled me. From Ikoyi to adeniji. Used to go through obalende then tunubu tomjones. Sometimes the road gets confusing but thank God I never got lost but how my over protective mum just allowed me to start going to such market all by myself still surprises me till today. So from there I started feeling like a big girl. I was still in pry school then o.


Another experience was when I had finished college and was working as a small secretary. I had a lawyer guy and I told my mum was going to see my lawyer boyfriend at ogudu GRA and she didnt complain. Even my twin Sis was like, " you're letting her go"? My mum still didn't complain. I now felt like a babe. My twin was an SU �� while I was the outgoing one.

When I finally knew I had become aunty, was when my twin and I told my dad we were moving out of the family house to rent an apartment of our own and he didn't say anything. Though we lost our mum and last born then in the same House and were fed up of the place so we said if he was not ready to leave we are moving and he didnt object. So now here I am acting mother, father and everything all alone (later lost him too).

I have really come off age.
Its remaining the stage where ill be controlling and managing a home with my man our children.
Coming off age its in stages I think.

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Re: Share Your Coming Of Age Stories by maya007: 2:31am On Nov 18, 2019
optimusprime2:
The day my Mum non chalantly gave me her car keys to buy fuel for her...
Like that was a super long time ago but the memory is still fresh...
Honestly that day I thought I was dreaming... that was the first time I took car keys legally to drive out ... it's funny they all knew I could drive but, my mum never allowed me to, so I was fond of stealing the car and sneaking out , when they were at work or travelled... I even duplicated my own key.

But that day All my siblings were like: "Simba, it is time" grin
While driving I was just honking the horn even for lizards on the road.
lmao this ur story eh
Re: Share Your Coming Of Age Stories by Horllamideh(m): 2:34am On Nov 18, 2019
achi4u:
The death of my mother made me a senior man at 14...I became a mother to the house house not minding I'm a boy.
You don't need to be told what to do.

Mummy may ur beautiful soul continue to RIP.
Amen.
If ur mum is still alive...take care of her.
I really envy those with mum still alive. It's been 15years and local man is planning to get married to my awesome lady early so as to fill the gap to some extent.

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Re: Share Your Coming Of Age Stories by LadyGCrueDKilaB(f): 2:36am On Nov 18, 2019
wat does my fineness have to do wit anything I just complimented your signature, I didn't say I want to date you nawa
tonididdy:


If you fine?
Re: Share Your Coming Of Age Stories by Dannonye(f): 2:39am On Nov 18, 2019
I was 15
We went to pizza hut,when it came to time to pay the bills,daddy gave me d money to count and pay

it made me sit higher on my chair


Also when my daddy or mummy asked me to sign on their behalf when I was in my early teens
I would always use my best sculpting skill

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Re: Share Your Coming Of Age Stories by tonididdy(m): 2:39am On Nov 18, 2019
LadyGCrueDKilaB:
wat does my fineness have to do wit anything I just complimented your signature, I didn't say I want to date you nawa
K
Re: Share Your Coming Of Age Stories by LadyGCrueDKilaB(f): 2:43am On Nov 18, 2019
K gbagbuo gi there
oponu
tonididdy:

K

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Re: Share Your Coming Of Age Stories by Dannonye(f): 2:43am On Nov 18, 2019
When my mum told me to go tk the market alone I was freaking excited.I crossed the road alone too I lost some part of the money, but I felt like I was no longer a kid

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