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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Nobody: 10:18pm On Nov 18, 2019
electroTech:
I feel lonely when around people than when alone. Having to live together with someone forever scares the sh!tt outta me. If my future wife would be living on her own and be coming to visit once in a while, then I'll consider getting married someday.

I love kids too but I don't dream of having one. The thought of bringing innocent souls to experience this short and painful existence is still a nightmare I can't afford to bring into reality.

I pity married folks than I envy them. In fact, this whole marriage sh!tt is just


Lol...Be a man and face your fears. You don’t have to bring kids, one is fine.

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Acidosis(m): 10:19pm On Nov 18, 2019
maynation:
Marriage na scam.
I swear to God.
What are your reasons?

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Tgifted(f): 10:19pm On Nov 18, 2019
Being an indirect slave to a bossy somebody...one bible verse is even there giving them wings to do yanga..shior undecided

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by babtoundey(m): 10:20pm On Nov 18, 2019
pocohantas:
1. Losing my spouse or a child.
2. What I will do to my husband if he cheats.

Note, I am not scared of him cheating. Just the repercussion he would face.

[img]https://media1./images/51a86b2115cd75b972f9bc933fec39cc/tenor.gif?[/img]


Best of lucks to your husband. You're not afraid of him cheating but of what the repercaution.. of the heat and slashes he would get from you.

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Nobody: 10:21pm On Nov 18, 2019
My partner dying of cancer, stroke, or some devastating disease. (Only healthy food and vibes in my house o. Repping Kourtney Kardashian)

My partner losing his body parts or mobility due to an accident

Me losing some body parts

God forbid all of them!

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by lincs25(m): 10:21pm On Nov 18, 2019
Marrying a slow poison woman!

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Heineken(m): 10:22pm On Nov 18, 2019
maiahsaiah:
My partner dying of cancer, stroke, or some devastating disease.

My partner losing his body parts or mobility due to an accident

Me losing some body parts

God forbid all of them!
amen

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by SendAbroad: 10:23pm On Nov 18, 2019
fatymore:
marry from a rich family

So, what if he is not rich himself considering the rich like to marry the rich.

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by fatymore(f): 10:23pm On Nov 18, 2019
SendAbroad:


So, what if he is not rich himself?
he shouldn't complain then

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by generationz(f): 10:23pm On Nov 18, 2019
electroTech:
I feel lonely when around people than when alone. Having to live together with someone forever scares the sh!tt outta me. If my future wife would be living on her own and be coming to visit once in a while, then I'll consider getting married someday.

I love kids too but I don't dream of having one. The thought of bringing innocent souls to experience this short and painful existence is still a nightmare I can't afford to bring into reality.

I pity married folks than I envy them. In fact, this whole marriage sh!tt is just overrated



Robert Downey jr. Said the exact same thing you are saying now in an Harpers bazzer io interview.

He said he felt like that even in his first marriage.

Then he met his wife Susan and proposed after six months of dating.

He never felt weird about being together forever again with a woman after he met her. They were like yin yang.

Marriage never felt like a cage for him again.

In fact, it was that cage that led him into drugs at first to escape reality from childhood.

There is a whole lot of explanation as to why this is so in personality typing but you won't understand if I went into the basics.

I presume you are an extrovert (even if you say no, from your write up you are). A sanguine too.

The right partner will know instinctively to give you that space without you asking for it because she will also want it. Them you will want her to be around because life won't be boring after all.

But in case you don't meet that woman you vibe with, I hope you find someone who understands your rules and keeps to them.

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Nobody: 10:23pm On Nov 18, 2019
taylor89:
Another man fvcking my wife


To my future wife out there please and please if u know you'll tag me an animal for laying hands on you don't do these three below


1. Don't cheat (even if I cheat don't cheat back it's a set up because i go beat u before sending u packing

2. No matter what happens between us don't yell at me outside (u can do to me whatever you wish indoor even beat me I no go talk since na me dey at fault but don't do it outside

3. This one is the most important one, DONT COME BETWEEN ME AND MY PARENTS/SIBLINGS, they all went through hell for me so when it's time to reap what they sowed u Better don't try to stop it because I'll stop you first


If she can keep to this three then I'm ready

Boss man... You never ready.
When you are willing to put on shock and anger absorber against whatever your spouse might do, then I'll know you're ready but with all that up there, nah...

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Kay25(m): 10:23pm On Nov 18, 2019
If you see men as monsters then you must have been living in th field of fury....
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Nobody: 10:24pm On Nov 18, 2019
pocohantas:
1. Losing my spouse or a child.
2. What I will do to my husband if he cheats.

Note, I am not scared of him cheating. Just the repercussions he would face.

[img]https://media1./images/51a86b2115cd75b972f9bc933fec39cc/tenor.gif?[/img]
lmao..wicked
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by SendAbroad: 10:24pm On Nov 18, 2019
fatymore:
he shouldn't complain then

Are you from a rich family?
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Nvc078: 10:25pm On Nov 18, 2019
Jeopardizing my privacy

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by DCmonster: 10:25pm On Nov 18, 2019
My biggest fear is that my wife Ex might want to Bleep her again, just as my ex is dying to Bleep me again, while her husband is with her she thinks about me.

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by cenaman(m): 10:25pm On Nov 18, 2019
Gold digger and a cheat that's my fear.
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by taylor89(m): 10:26pm On Nov 18, 2019
Jewessgratitude:


Boss man... You never ready.
When you are willing to put on shock and anger absorber against whatever your spouse might do, then I'll know you're ready but with all that up there, nah...

With this mindset you might end up marrying Sissy, so why can't women put on anger and absorber

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by osazsky(m): 10:26pm On Nov 18, 2019
Bag of rice and beign a serogate dad

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Heineken(m): 10:26pm On Nov 18, 2019
DCmonster:
My biggest fear is that my wife Ex might want to Bleep her again, just as my ex is dying to Bleep me again while her husband is with her she thinks about me.
hahaha nawao. Some women bad

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Nobody: 10:27pm On Nov 18, 2019
electroTech:
I feel lonely when around people than when alone. Having to live together with someone forever scares the sh!tt outta me. If my future wife would be living on her own and be coming to visit once in a while, then I'll consider getting married someday.

I love kids too but I don't dream of having one. The thought of bringing innocent souls to experience this short and painful existence is still a nightmare I can't afford to bring into reality.

I pity married folks than I envy them. In fact, this whole marriage sh!tt is just overrated



Accept Christ and your perception about life will change for the better. All you said is a lie from the pit of hell.

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by makavelli80(m): 10:27pm On Nov 18, 2019
The fear of marrying a second hand lady. Aside family I can't imagine living with another person for the rest of my life. Is there any thing one can enjoy in a woman without getting tired of one day?

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Nobody: 10:27pm On Nov 18, 2019
Not fucking enough toto




pukes

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Nobody: 10:27pm On Nov 18, 2019
My fear?? It is possible to marry a chameleon undecided

The way some ladies characters change in marriage ehn.. undecided

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by SendAbroad: 10:28pm On Nov 18, 2019
maynation:
Marriage na scam.
I swear to God.

If thats you on dp, you don't want to tie yourself to one man...is that why you said the above?
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Dickson44: 10:29pm On Nov 18, 2019
My fear is marrying a dirty and lazy wife.

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Lordjb: 10:29pm On Nov 18, 2019
01Alpha:
The fear of been trapped with one wife...
Kuku marry like 5 na grin
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Kokaine(m): 10:29pm On Nov 18, 2019
electroTech:
I feel lonely when around people than when alone. Having to live together with someone forever scares the sh!tt outta me. If my future wife would be living on her own and be coming to visit once in a while, then I'll consider getting married someday.

I love kids too but I don't dream of having one. The thought of bringing innocent souls to experience this short and painful existence is still a nightmare I can't afford to bring into reality.

I pity married folks than I envy them. In fact, this whole marriage sh!tt is just overrated


I share this sentiment too

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by sharpwriter(m): 10:30pm On Nov 18, 2019
Rich4god:
I belong to a counseling unit in my church so sometimes, couples who have issues in their marriage do come to us for settlement and counseling.... The stories I hear eh. It's just as if immediately the wedding is over, cat and dog will just be released in the house.

Lol
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Nobody: 10:30pm On Nov 18, 2019
Expanded kini due to childbirth and no longer feeling it cry Monotonous routines ne and getting fat

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Nobody: 10:31pm On Nov 18, 2019
Rich4god:
I belong to a counseling unit in my church so sometimes, couples who have issues in their marriage do come to us for settlement and counseling.... The stories I hear eh. It's just as if immediately the wedding is over, cat and dog will just be released in the house.
Hope you are married too shocked shocked
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Nobody: 10:31pm On Nov 18, 2019
I fear that marrying a wife will prevent me from playing my part in the implementation of the plans of the coming reformer and saviour called Imes.

Imes comes first before any woman. If marrying will deter the plans of Imes from coming to pass, then I stay single till death

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