I wanted to know from you all if I should marry the girl who confessed to cheating on me with a married guy. I forgave her and took her back. This time I noticed she had started again although I live in the U.S. and she in ghana but she denied it flat. Last week her job took her out of Accra to another town. SHe told me she was coming back on Friday although she was back with the same man that Thursday night when I called her. Immediately I called, she complained been sick so I offered to send my friend living in that town to go see her but she defiantly refused him coming; I said ok then let me speak with one of her colleagues since I do talk to them sometimes but she refused that too and finally hanged up the phone and turned it off. Now she has confessed again to been with that man BUT DID NOT HAVE SEX with him. Also, she claimed thursday was the first time in months that she went there again. She wants me to give her yet another chance again and I refused but she keeps calling my job everyday. I need some discretionary advice from the House so please feel free to tell me what you all think. Thank you !

i think you know deep down that this is not the woman for you. Marriage does not make a cheating person loyal, if she cared for you enough, she wouldn't have been doing what she was doing, with a married man no less. This especially shows that she does not value the sacrament of marriage. All she will probably do when she gets here is get her green card and find a new man. I think you should cut your losses and look to God for true direction.

@ topic

since you are a spiritual person , you already know within you she ain't the one for you, you are just looking for some validation from us
pray and wait on the lord, he will surely give you yours, he might/ might not tarry but believe me the result of his handiwork is always merry!

pls look elsewhere, because of the history of infidelity. Even if she doesn't flirt in future, you won't even believe her. So there is no need continuing, marriage is not a temporary arrangement.

Peace

pls look elsewhere.

I have finally caught the girl I posted the ad about as a result of the wisdom God gave me three days ago so now I have another chance to fire her. It was like God using the sound of the lepers stumps to dirve away Israel's enemies! Victory is really sweet!
Thank you everybody!

@ fifie 90

On first thoughts?? No she isn't the one

On second thoughts?? maybe, just maybe she is

God revealed her secrets to you, she confessed. Her actions (sleeping with a married man) is very bad, but who's perfect or without sin?? It might be she really did drop her deeds then, or maybe she's just putting on an act

But they do say, that a broken trust is hard to regain, could it be your subconciousness is making you virsualise that she's still going down the evil path??

Give it some time, pray for her and about her, God revealed her escapades to you, now don't forget that the same God could turn one's worst habit Even a prostitue willing and with God's grace can change, why can't she??

If she's meant for you, then there are chances God has made her a new person, but please take your time, do not rush things. Continue waiting on God, listen to the spirit, and in time, God will prove the TRUTH (whether she's for you or not) to you, in more ways than one

God watches out for those he loves, remember that, he'll lead you though

Pray for another new girl, You yourself no that the girl is not for you