Fam..I realized that the reason why we have lots of singles these days is cos of Social Media,Too much relationship options and maybe movies.

All of us want the perfect Nicholas Sparks "The Notebook" kinda love and romance,but that shit ain't real,we see a lot of scenes where the guy wakes up the lady with a cup of coffee in hand or maybe food in bed.This was exactly how Honeymoon came about,but in the end,it still doesn't end well, because we have become too engulfed in that shit and everyone is forming if he isn't doing over the moon showy kinda romance gestures he or she isn't for real.This isn't just for the lady but for the guys as well,that shit ain't real, especially in a setting like ours where you come back home after spending hours in traffic,still you woman expects Nicholas Sparks kinda romance .

Social Media
Note:I'm not an authority in Romance at all..but know this,this shit is real, i don't wanna even start with people who snap their food and post all the time and the likes,we need to deal with our personal insecurities first.. social media won't take these things away,these days everyone be forming and acting "who can show less emotion" and pretend to be happy and alive on social media.
Some many Options.
Unlike some years ago when there wasn't really a lot of options in relationship aside from the few that reach out,today you can break up cos your geh decided not to suck the tip of your dick well it's funny..or you can just jump into someone dm on Instagram for a quick sharp sharp hook up and Bleep and be done with it.

My point is..We act like"well there is a lot of fishes in the ocean" we act like everyone is Disposable Truly everyone is Disposable..but it's becoming alarming for nonsense reasons,even the Social Media sef you don't know who's real and who's not, you'd just be running from frypan to fire.This has kinda common in a lotta Relationships..these days you hear people say"immediately she acts one kain,I just jappa" what if the next babe or next guy do the same thing,you would keep jappaing.. that's unreal..people don't even wanna fight or trouble themselves anymore..well it's the 24th Century.. let's face it we all are just using social media as a cover to our insecurities.

Also women..you don't need the damn likes or approvals from people or anyone,must you fight guy cos he doesn't post you..he doesn't comment on your pissures.. it's sad you guys don't know that all you need is the sincerity of that guy in how he shows it to you that he cares about you..he doesn't have to become monitoring spirit to be following you,liking your comments,posting you...Pls Get Real Nothing would ever be enough for you in a relationship,if you don't dump the mentality for approval from social media

We Stopped Fighting for the things we believed..

Truly a self confident man or woman must know when to jappa from a relationship..but come on!.. everything shouldn't be "we are done" "I can't kill myself" nothing good comes easy,as long as the person is into you sha 8

Note: I'm not here to preach about Relationship..nah..in fact I and my babe are having issues on things like "Who pays for the first ,second ,third" date between people in Relationships .. it's just a debate though..

My point..All in all.. people need to face issues more... don't run away,carry your baggages..address it..stop.seeking for cheap social media likes on everything..

If you have people reasoning like this..only really strong issues would cause break..some guys would come say "alaaye nah money woman like"Definitely but that's one of the problems.. Social has given more muscle to issues like that
I can't shout..

Tell me yours

(Nobody on this forum sleeps? Or does everyone work weird shifts? I notice the Romance section is active the latest, with questions that gnaw at the heart and prevent sleep. Or porn uploads when nobody notices.)

I agree with you in general. I think the disposability thing may have to do with a mentally/emotionally as well as chronologically young population, who can see that there are indeed lots of other fish to choose from. Judging from the issues that come up in this forum, there is not a lot of self-reflection or self-knowledge; and individuals posting, seem to want someone to cater for all their needs, without taking responsibility for meeting their partner's needs in the relationship. The partner says no to something, and we hear how unfair that is, is it possible for the relationship to continue, etc., without even asking why the partner said no, and what the poster's own part is, in the situation. People seem to want to run away from the least challenge, instead of confronting it, and working with the partner and growing together. With too many other fish to choose from, tossing back one that resists something on principle, is easy. Maybe numerous break-ups for the same reason, will point to enlightenment at last.

NiCurious:
(Nobody on this forum sleeps? Or does everyone work weird shifts? I notice the Romance section is active the latest, with questions that gnaw at the heart and prevent sleep. Or porn uploads when nobody notices.)

I agree with you in general. I think the disposability thing may have to do with a mentally/emotionally as well as chronologically young population, who can see that there are indeed lots of other fish to choose from. Judging from the issues that come up in this forum, there is not a lot of self-reflection or self-knowledge; and individuals posting, seem to want someone to cater for all their needs, without taking responsibility for meeting their partner's needs in the relationship. The partner says no to something, and we hear how unfair that is, is it possible for the relationship to continue, etc., without even asking why the partner said no, and what the poster's own part is, in the situation. People seem to want to run away from the least challenge, instead of confronting it, and working with the partner and growing together. With too many other fish to choose from, tossing back one that resists something on principle, is easy. Maybe numerous break-ups for the same reason, will point to enlightenment at last.

Hmmmm...well we are the on the same page