as long as she's is being raped. . she might as well enjoy it? I'm guessing that everyone who said this is either joking or saying that for shock value.

What happened to everyone who wants to argue homosexuality is wrong because the bible says so, apparently, though the bible says rape is wrong, you all don't care. (I say this both seriously and sarcastically)

So, I suppose that if I see someone trying to slit their wrists, it will be ok for me to cut off their head since they were already killing themselves right? Or if I see a child drowning in a pool, I should hold them down, or if I see a car with the keys in the ignition and the doors unlocked, I should steal it because the owner is obviously making the car available to be stolen or if someone drops their wallet or purse and continues to walk away, I should pick it up for myself because the person was not protecting their valuables well enough so it is ok for me to take it, or if my grandfather slips and falls down the stairs and breaks his hip, I can go ahead and break more bones in his body because he let himself get old and is asking for bones to break due to his weakness or . .

Ok, I am getting tired of writing more. I think I've made my point. . . .. More and more, I'm starting to be really disappointed by human beings - right now its mainly Nigerians since of recent, I've been looking at a lot of related forums. . . or maybe its the anonymity of being online that is allowing people to say things that they don't really believe, people trying to fit in for some strange reason with someone or something else.

I was actually serious when I said it may be better to enjoy it. What I meant by it was to make the best out of the ugly situation to possible save your life. Distracting him possibly to find ways out, hopefully.
I didn't mean to be disrespectful because truthfully you can never enjoy something like that. It's so awful and degrading .

I realize I should have spoken clearer.
I don't believe it is a mans nature to rape but I do believe having sexual desires is natural. The fact that this man's sexual desires were used in a hurtful, disrespectful and degrading way that resulted in criminal activity is wrong. That I believe.

I have been tempt to do that, But i control myself which i just bone cause What makes a guy moves is that when you are in private place with a guy, The way the girl dressed and everywhere is silent, that may tempt the guy to rape and the guy won't be thinking that his raping someone but what he will be after is for him to do the thing. But i don't know the things that use to make someguys Out Of Control, Why they can't Control their self... Is good to be Good..

There is no excuse under the sun that justifies rape, even if the victim is a woman that was sunning herself completely nude at a beach.  Rape is a criminal offence that rightly invites harsh repercussions in court, but at the instant of the attack, the intended victim would be well advised to fight, bite, claw and kick like a wounded leopard.

All men regardless of physical size will crumble and fall if attacked with extreme prejudice in the lower throat or the testicle area, and anyone who feels such retaliation is extreme should remember that the full intention of the rapist may well be murder, so self-defense is vital and could very well save the victim's life.

none of them is to be blamed

Rhodalyn:

none of them is to be blamed

On reading this topic i was shocked on some of the replies i read here.
lets put a part two to the question.
The father of the raped girl gose and kills the mother of the rapist.
who is to blame? this has happened b4.

a woman was raped. another woman was killed for it. <sarcasm> yeah, that makes a lot of sense.</sarcasm>

If women continue to be mumus, stupid and irresponsible men will continue to oppress them.

Please Rape is rape!!! 99% of rape cases aint reported(Thank GOD) or many naijja boyz will be in jail gba bee!!! anyway sha on a more serious note rape is dehumanizing and should be discouraged in all it's ramifications be it date rape boyfriend rape lecturer rape employer rape, etc. Ladies should be made to realise that you didn't ask for it no matter what you wear self control should be exhibited by all,you're the victim and reporting to the police then your doctor is appropriate.NO MEANS NO!!!
hOT ANGEL I GO LIKE KNOW YOU BETTER, OK?

But rape is a call of nature

You have got to be kidding me! A call of nature like peeing and pooing.

I will tell you who is to blame: the GUY

I read my reply on this thread, and i shook my head at myself.

complicated. nobody is to be blame. The best they can both do is enjoy the sex, instead of beating each other up. I mean, you know you can't get out of the rape, so why not enjoy the sex.

I kinda wanna take that back, after knowing more abt some stuffs.

She's been raped, who's to be blamed. Most deffinitely the guy that raped her.

She could be blamed to if she was seducing the man and then decided not to give him some at the end of the tease.

Some guys are just soo bad that once they get hard, and u deny them the 'pussy', they'll practically rape you. Now in that case, the guy is to be blamed a little bit, but the girl in question should be blamed too. I mean u just dont get a nigga hard as shit and then decide to play the "I dont wanna do it anymore game". Especially when u know, u are where u can't get out. If u know u can't go on with it, don't start no shit.

I know most blames go on the guys, but some girls are ALSO the cause of their own rape. As in they sometimes are the cause of getting themselves into rape situations.

To be very honest i was suprised at your answer too.

A CHICK DOESN'T HAVE 2 BE DRESSED PROVOCATIVELY 4 HER 2 BE RAPED,COS I'VE GOT THIS CHILDHOOD FRIEND OF MINE WHO HAS BEEN SEXUALLY ABUSED(RAPED) BY HER DAD SINCE HER PUBERTY AGE,N I DIDN'T GET 2 KNOW ABOUT IT UNTIL LAST YEAR WHEN I OVERHEARD HER MUM TELLING MY OWN MUM ABOUT IT N THAT SHE DOESN'T WANT 2 REPORT HER HUSBAND 2 THE POLICE COS SHE STILL LOVES HIM DESPITE THE FACT THAT HE RAPED THEIR DAUGHTER FOR 8 GOOD YEARS, WHAT A STUPID N SELFISH WOMAN.  BESIDES WHAT DO U SAY ABOUT PAEDOPHILES THAT RAPE LITTLE KIDS,FOR EXAMPLE A 49YEARS OLD MAN HERE IN LONDON RAPED AN ELEVEN MONTHS OLD BABY WHOM HE WAS SUPPOSED TO BE BABYSITTING FOR 3 GOOD MONTHS N HE EVEN VIDEO RECORDED HIS SICKENING ACT BUT ALL HE GOT WAS JUST TWO AND A HALF YEARS IMPRISONMENT FOR HIS ACTIONS,DO U FINK MY FRIEND OR THE CUTE LITTLE BABY WERE DRESSED IN A NUTTY WAY 4 THEM 2 GO THRU THAT KIND OF SHIT.I MEAN Y RAPE GIRLS WHEN THERE R LOTS OF PROSTITUTES OUT THERE WHO R SPECIALISED IN FUKING A MAN 2 DEATH  FOR VERY LITTLE AMOUNT OF MONEY.CAN U JUST IMAGINE GOING THRU WHAT THESE RAPED VICTIMS HAD GONE THRU WHICH IS A SITUATION WHEREBY U HAVE TO  FORCEFULLY OPEN UR LEGS 4 A STINKY,ROTTEN,DISGUSTING,IRRITATING PIECE OF FLESH MEAT 2 INVADE UR PRIVATES(I'D RATHER DIE).N THE ONLY MESSAGE I'VE GOT 4 SICK RAPISTS OUT THERE IS THAT I HOPE THEIR FUCKING AND DECAYING DICKS ROTS IN PERFECT HELL 4EVER IN JESUS' NAME(AMEN), SILLY TWATS

Why blame it all on men. WOMEN RAPE PEOPLE TOOO DAMN IT! (forgive me).

Anyways, i understand what you are saying. Especially the point where you said, there are prostitutes out there who would fxxck anything for a little amount of money.

hot-angel:

Why blame it all on men. WOMEN RAPE PEOPLE TOOO DAMN IT! (forgive me).

OH! U MEAN WOMEN RAPE LITTLE BOYS,COS I'VE NEVER HEARD OF AN ABLE-BODIED MAN BEEN RAPED BY A WOMAN WHEN HE'S NOT A SPECIAL NEED OR GANG-RAPED, DON'T U GET IT,D REASON BEHIND ALL THESE RAPES IS BECAUSE GUYS R NATURALLY MACHO, MORE POWERFUL N MORE ARMED AS IN WEAPONS LIKE KNIVES N GUNS THAN LADIES WHICH ENABLES THEM 2 TAKE ADVANTAGE OF HELPLESS PPLE COS I BELIEVE GUYS RAPE GUYS TOO N GIRLS RAPE GIRLS SOMETIMES. THAT'S WHY I WOULD ADVICE LADIES OUTTHERE 2 LEARN LITTLE SELF DEFENCE N ALWAYS HAVE ANTI-RAPE WEAPONS LIKE PEPPERY EYES SPRAY OR PEN-KNIVES 4 PROTECTION (COS I'D RATHER  KILL THAN 2 BE RAPED) N 2 AVOID WALKING ALONE IN THE DARK OR TRUSTING PPLE WHO MIGHT END UP SETTING THEM UP,COS SELF DEFENCE CAN NEVER HELP WHEN IT COMES 2 A GANG-RAPE WHICH IS ONE OF D WORST THINGS THAT COULD EVER HAPPEN 2 A CHIC. BUT COME 2 FINK OF IT,THERE R SOME BITCHES OUTTHERE WHO EITHER LIKES 2 PLAY IT ROUGH OR WANTS 2 MAKE QUICK MONEY BY CLAIMING RICH GUYS I.E FOOTBALLERS RAPED THEM SO AS 2 GET LOTS MONEY 4 COMPENSATION WHEN THEY WERE D ONES THAT SEDUCED THE GUYS, SO ANY CHIC THAT KNOWINGLY SEDUCES N TEMPTS A GUY 2 BED N LATER CLAIMS 2 BE RAPED SHOULD B  CLASSIFIED AS A PROPER LIAR N A B-I-T-C-H,COS SHE GOT WHAT SHE DESERVED,BUT IN MOST RAPED CASES,VICTIMS NEVER ASK 4 IT.

But you do know that sometimes, rape can't be stopped, and no matter how much protected, or 'self cautious' you are, u can still be raped. In that case, the rappist is to be blamed.

a large part of it has to do with SELF CONTROL.

In every rape situation,the man is to blame.

In some rare cases,their might be a case to be made for attaching blame to the victim.In the UK,if you sleep with a woman who is intoxicated,that can constitute grounds for a rape charge.

For instance,a couple go partying and drink themselves to stupor as is normal in England.They get home and start having sex,the women is free to claim rape if she can establish that she did not expressly ask for sex.If she did not verbally ask for sex,the man can be charged .

In a recent case,the lady claimed that she was soo drunk she could not remember whether she told the man,who was equally drunk,that she actually wanted sex.The case was dismissed but judges are now told that in such circumstances,the verdict should be guilty.

The rapists of course.