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Re: What Do Men Want? by Abdulhakeem78(m): 9:40pm On Nov 21, 2019
franchasng:
Number 1 thing every man want is RESPECT!! Most ladies of today lack respect for men!!


Respect your man or even men who didn't humiliate themselves before you through some stupid acts.


Men don't joke with ladies that respect them.

Men worship ladies who respect them. Gave you ever greeted a strange guy and watch how happy he is to do anything for you Most ladies of today will rather die than greet a man that isn't their father or rich uncle lol


So the complete list of what men want from women goes like this:

1.) Respect
2.) Loyalty; every man wants a lady that is loyal to him no matter his financial, economic, etc status
3.) Support; men want support even though they may not loud it due to ego.


Even if your man is Aliko Dangote, try and be making some supportive contributions to you guys daily activities, even if its from the money you saved from the moneys he gave u, he will appreciate it.

If you guys are planning wedding, no matter how much he has, try and support, you can at least use your little savings to pay for the makeup, bridesmaid outfit without asking him, believe me, even if he may say no baby don't do it, he will appreciate it.


4.) Men want obedient and humble lady who doesn't argue everything they say; sometimes pretend like you don't know and just listen to him with joy, he would cherish you.


Not arguing everything he says like you know it all, it is a complete turnoff for most men.

Obedient ladies are wonderful ladies, they take corrections joyfully and make adjustment where necessary but stubborn ladies are a turnoff to men no matter how pretty they are, once a man is done dicking a stubborn lady, he won't even wanna stay close to her or discuss with her or play, his business with her ends at the bedroom.


In the situation you gave, all he needs from you is listen and show some emotion to show you feel his pain and frustration. Don't go fighting the said friend or person, just listen with emotion and if you can tell him to take it easy, that all will be well with time.
Madam!!! You have said it all, exactly what my wife has been doing since the beginning of our marriage!!!
God bless Ma.

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Re: What Do Men Want? by Life0Life: 9:57pm On Nov 21, 2019
ambient:


Hahaha but if the woman start acting on it they will say you want to chase their friends na?

I want the leech to go away but don't want he to interfere but act as a catalyst
Re: What Do Men Want? by ambient: 9:58pm On Nov 21, 2019
Zizza:
Gosh!!! Pls read b4 commenting
Everyday, my husband sits and complains that everyone is leeching and sucking him dry... Friends asking him for money and all, family. I get so incensed... What's really on my mind is 'Nigger better save your money for me and our kids, I've got no 'friends' leeching my own money.' The most painful part is these friends don't wanna be helped to get jobs, they just want you to be paying their bills..
But I just try to encourage him to be wise and know when to say no

I'm so mad

All these stupid expenditure actually rubs off on when I ask him for something...
It's gonna stop
Trust me

Pls guys, when next he asks me what to do about these people what do I say??

Only mature guys should give answers

I feel you sis, you only get to hear the complains every day but once you take action you turn the bad one but nothing is done about it. So confusing .

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Re: What Do Men Want? by Life0Life: 9:59pm On Nov 21, 2019
ambient:


Hahaha but if the woman start acting on it they will say you want to chase their friends na?


I want the leech to go away but don't want he to interfere but act as a catalyst
Re: What Do Men Want? by Anonymousness: 10:07pm On Nov 21, 2019
safarigirl:
When men say they want a strong, independent woman, what exactly do they mean?

A) I want a woman who makes her own money and is confident in her abilities?

B) I want a woman who won't ask me for money and is only as confident as I want her to be?

C) I want a woman who will feed me with her money AND be submissive


Will modify as it comes to me.
For me, I'd say A. That seems pretty much reasonable, ain't nothing bad if we both leveling up together but of course pace will always be different.
Re: What Do Men Want? by czarr(m): 10:13pm On Nov 21, 2019
In Chris Rocks voice....."Feed me, Fvck me and Shut the Fvck up!!!
Re: What Do Men Want? by BotherMleeper(m): 10:21pm On Nov 21, 2019
Cunt
Food
Silence
Re: What Do Men Want? by Sylver247: 10:34pm On Nov 21, 2019
safarigirl:
When men say they want a strong, independent woman, what exactly do they mean?

A) I want a woman who makes her own money and is confident in her abilities?

B) I want a woman who won't ask me for money and is only as confident as I want her to be?

C) I want a woman who will feed me with her money AND be submissive


Will modify as it comes to me.


Hardworking, confident, able to represent you at forums/negotiations, comfortable in her own skin, but still loyal and respectful to her husband
Re: What Do Men Want? by Nobody: 10:35pm On Nov 21, 2019
ambient:


I feel you sis, you only get to hear the complains every day but once you take action you turn the bad one but nothing is done about it. So confusing .

I'll keep my fingers crossed... It's well
Re: What Do Men Want? by Czartega(m): 10:58pm On Nov 21, 2019
The guy is dumb cheesy Ps it's not a hate speech ]

Lol am sure you did not read her write-up [/quote]
Re: What Do Men Want? by SaintLorenzo(m): 11:01pm On Nov 21, 2019
The amount of lipsticks men have swallowed in this world all in the name of kissing is enough to paint two government schools and one parlor

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Re: What Do Men Want? by nextstep(m): 11:17pm On Nov 21, 2019
(C). Just listen and let the guy vent. He will figure it out himself.
Re: What Do Men Want? by ajaymina(m): 11:34pm On Nov 21, 2019
A305:
Can't speak for no man but myself and the list goes as thus;

1-Intelligence

2- Good cook

3- Be truthful even if you are disloyal.

4-Random blow j ob giver

5- care provider

6- No nagging attitude

7- Sex oooooo (this can't be over emphasized), sex in different places when i/he wants it.

8 - please be neat and always smell nice.

9- stay in shape and don't let your weight get overblown.

10- Sex ooooooo

11- Have I mention blow j ob?

12- please blow j ob again.

13- Food ooooo.

And that's it.


Whatever blunt you are smoking should be legalised ASAP.

In addition:

14- less or no female friends.

15-peace of mind and sanity.

16- be organised.

17-talk less and listen more

18-ever ready standby sex like a porn-star.

19- occasionally show up naked with a bottle of wine and kush!!!

The list continues...

U photocopy all of me thought mhan!!!

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Re: What Do Men Want? by drezo(m): 11:42pm On Nov 21, 2019
True cool
crackhaus:

He's just making conversation, doesn't want the woman to do anything - not like she could do anything about it anyway.
Re: What Do Men Want? by Nobody: 11:54pm On Nov 21, 2019
Nnemuka:
Men are the most confused people on earth, if you doubt wait till he tries to settle down/get married grin

Las las he will make mistakes, settle for less and starts regretting his actions. At the end of the day, he starts cheating and moving from bed to bed

Truly they don't know what they want
Attributes of a boi.... Dats how ignorant peeps create their reality.. A man knows what he wants and he's definite about his choice.. U're probably still just a girl and so would only keep meeting boys.. Become a woman and see what a man really is

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Re: What Do Men Want? by Nobody: 11:58pm On Nov 21, 2019
Zizza:
Gosh!!! Pls read b4 commenting
Everyday, my husband sits and complains that everyone is leeching and sucking him dry... Friends asking him for money and all, family. I get so incensed... What's really on my mind is 'Nigger better save your money for me and our kids, I've got no 'friends' leeching my own money.' The most painful part is these friends don't wanna be helped to get jobs, they just want you to be paying their bills..
But I just try to encourage him to be wise and know when to say no

I'm so mad

All these stupid expenditure actually rubs off on when I ask him for something...
It's gonna stop
Trust me

Pls guys, when next he asks me what to do about these people what do I say??

Only mature guys give answers
If he's asking you what to do please don't tell him to stop... He knows what to do but just don't want to be responsible for the act.. Keep praying for your family and God keep blessing you all

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Re: What Do Men Want? by pryme(m): 12:12am On Nov 22, 2019
safarigirl:
When men say they want a strong, independent woman, what exactly do they mean?

A) I want a woman who makes her own money and is confident in her abilities?

B) I want a woman who won't ask me for money and is only as confident as I want her to be?

C) I want a woman who will feed me with her money AND be submissive


Will modify as it comes to me.

A.

But it won't matter if the woman is a lie and a cheat.
Re: What Do Men Want? by pryme(m): 12:14am On Nov 22, 2019
ambient:
Men have always complained on how complex the female mind works, a lot of meme have been created on how a woman saying 'go' actually means stop and the others.

I think some men have been putting a lot of effort in understanding us (women) and is now our turn to try and understand them a little.... Lol

In this thread a woman get to ask a question and the men get to answer or give their opinions on what they actually mean.

I will go first....

When a man keeps complaining to his wife or girlfriend about a friend or friends who is always leeching on him what does he really want the lady to do with the info?

A) just listen and do nothing?
B) try and get the so called friend off her husband or boy friend back?
C) none of the above?

Matured answers only, ladies if you have questions to ask the men folks this is the thread for it.



Pls ask another question, its a small percentage of men that do this, this is what ladies do - not most men.
Re: What Do Men Want? by pryme(m): 12:25am On Nov 22, 2019
Zizza:
Gosh!!! Pls read b4 commenting
Everyday, my husband sits and complains that everyone is leeching and sucking him dry... Friends asking him for money and all, family. I get so incensed... What's really on my mind is 'Nigger better save your money for me and our kids, I've got no 'friends' leeching my own money.' The most painful part is these friends don't wanna be helped to get jobs, they just want you to be paying their bills..
But I just try to encourage him to be wise and know when to say no

I'm so mad

All these stupid expenditure actually rubs off on when I ask him for something...
It's gonna stop
Trust me

Pls guys, when next he asks me what to do about these people what do I say??

Only mature guys should give answers

The truth will hurt his ego, and the truth is he doesn't have the balls to tell them off.

Next time talk some sense to him,
But be very very careful how You say it, cos the manner you say something can change the message you are trying to get across.
How you say it can sink in or blow up in your face.

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Re: What Do Men Want? by Vernor(m): 6:09am On Nov 22, 2019
I think the answer to this question is if we're me it means when I'm wrong don't say because we in love point it to me in love let me know do not agree with what I'm currently doing same goes to the independent question as the wife you took independent stance on the problem at hand.
safarigirl:
When men say they want a strong, independent woman, what exactly do they mean?

A) I want a woman who makes her own money and is confident in her abilities?

B) I want a woman who won't ask me for money and is only as confident as I want her to be?

C) I want a woman who will feed me with her money AND be submissive


Will modify as it comes to me.
Re: What Do Men Want? by Caseless: 6:44am On Nov 22, 2019
ambient:


Hahaha but if the woman start acting on it they will say you want to chase their friends na?
any man complaining to his wife about his friend is not man enough. I don't want my wife to disrespect my friends, so I won't have to tell her stuff about them. I can handle it myself.

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Re: What Do Men Want? by Nobody: 7:16am On Nov 22, 2019
I'll tell you what I want financial freedom.
Re: What Do Men Want? by Lush100(m): 8:01am On Nov 22, 2019
you must have been on a bj when u posted this, i'm surprised your punctuation were still intact considering the effect down below

A305:
Can't speak for no man but myself and the list goes as thus;

1-Intelligence

2- Good cook

3- Be truthful even if you are disloyal.

4-Random blow j ob giver

5- care provider

6- No nagging attitude

7- Sex oooooo (this can't be over emphasized), sex in different places when i/he wants it.

8 - please be neat and always smell nice.

9- stay in shape and don't let your weight get overblown.

10- Sex ooooooo

11- Have I mention blow j ob?

12- please blow j ob again.

13- Food ooooo.

And that's it.
Re: What Do Men Want? by ambient: 9:40am On Nov 22, 2019
I can now conclude with the saying that men are indeed a confuse being grin angry grin tongue tongue
Re: What Do Men Want? by WORLDPEACE(m): 1:46pm On Nov 22, 2019
safarigirl:
When men say they want a strong, independent woman, what exactly do they mean?

A) I want a woman who makes her own money and is confident in her abilities?

B) I want a woman who won't ask me for money and is only as confident as I want her to be?

C) I want a woman who will feed me with her money AND be submissive


Will modify as it comes to me.


Option "C"
Re: What Do Men Want? by Nackzy: 2:47pm On Nov 22, 2019
Pussywar:

Be ready to be submissive too oga submission
Yes madam, am submissive guy
Re: What Do Men Want? by Johnchyz(m): 9:07am On Apr 09, 2020
TheVictorious:
WHY IS IT THAT PEOPLE DON'T LIKE READING IT'S JUST TERRIBLE!
. READ THE TOPIC. AND LEAVE WHAT THE OP WROTE THEIR.
Re: What Do Men Want? by Johnchyz(m): 9:10am On Apr 09, 2020
TheVictorious:
WHY IS IT THAT PEOPLE DON'T LIKE READING IT'S JUST TERRIBLE!
. THE TOPIC SAYS .WHAT DO MEN WANT.? OR DO U WANT US TO DERAIL THE TOPIC. SERIOUSLY YOU DON'T HAVE SENSES. SORRY TO SAY IT.
Re: What Do Men Want? by Johnchyz(m): 9:19am On Apr 09, 2020
ambient:
I can now conclude with the saying that men are indeed a confuse being grin angry grin tongue tongue
IS YOUR HUSBAND SO CONFUSED. IF MEN ARE THIS CONFUSED, THEN GIRLS IS MOST CONFUSED THING.
Re: What Do Men Want? by Nobody: 10:34am On Apr 09, 2020
safarigirl:
When men say they want a strong, independent woman, what exactly do they mean?

A) I want a woman who makes her own money and is confident in her abilities?

B) I want a woman who won't ask me for money and is only as confident as I want her to be?

C) I want a woman who will feed me with her money AND be submissive


Will modify as it comes to me.

No need to search for more options.
The correct meaning is

D) I want a woman who will not nag me to change the generator plugs, who knows where the coolant goes in her car, who does not send me on errands anytime she sees me rushing off somewhere, can carry her own bags and drive her own car on the rare occasions we go shopping together and doesn't need me to follow her and the kids on holiday when I have better things to do back home and when I see family holidays as a time wasting nightmare.
Re: What Do Men Want? by Nobody: 7:41pm On Apr 09, 2020
Who is Mr Right?- Finding your right partner for marriage.

Who is Mr. Right?

Every woman has her definition of her perfect man, her expectations, and derives towards a successful relationship.

What we call a perfect or successful relationship is not obtainable, but is a going concern, a workable distance that is associated to understanding, friendship and finally love.

My definition of Mr. Right is an adjective used to qualify someone who is responsible, gentle, intelligent, jovial, successful, truthful, friendly, accommodating, caring, loving, not secretive, and God fearing.



Where is Mr. Right?

There is no part of the world, country, locality you will not find a guy. But truly, I am talking about someone who you are in talking terms with, in your office, residence, schools, market place, pub, clubs, neighbors, internet and dating sites.

In computing, they do say garbage in garbage out, what ever you put into the system is what you will get out of the system.

The same is applicable in relationships. No one can determine were you will meet your Mr. Right but be open minded, always put up a smiling face and be nice to every one who comes your way.



How do you know/ recognize Mr., Right?



Mr Right will come like every other guy, but with a stronger feelings, perception and lots of caring about caring about you. He will possess the following Characters:

- Respects your feelings and share his daily activities with you

- Not forcing you to go against your will Seek your advise regularly

- Create a friendly atmosphere for communication

- He plays a brother, father, friend, and Husband figure in your life

- Appreciates every thing you do and corrects you politely

- He is not always angered by small things

- Defines the relationship



Qualities You Must Possess



-Smile always and be nice to every one

- Be of good character

- Be clean

- Be god fearing

- Always help those in need







Qualities of Mr. Right

The quality of one’s Mr. Right is an individual thing and has to do with your expectations

Every woman has her own expectations of her Mr. Right, which is true, but must be rated in percentage of 100% to access his true value and quest

Write down on a plain sheet of paper the preferred qualities you will want your Mr. Right to have.

If the total qualities written is 20 which means 100%, if he scores between 50-90%,then he is still there for approval. Any thing below 50% is not acceptable.

Do note that no one is perfect and that you can work things out if there is a will to change.

The Commitment Question.

The commitment questions is scrutinized from two perspectives:

-Some men are not ready to be committed while

-Others pretend to be serious, get what they want and disappear.

In other to combat both situations and emerge victorious do ensure he defines the relationship by asking him these commitment questions:

-What are your intentions for the relationship; he should attach dates and time Remember that he has only 3 months to decide the way forward for the relationship.



Do’s and Don’ts



Don'ts

-Don’t over flog the question- ask only once and note his response

-Under no circumstance should you have sex with him

- Don’t be drunk when you are on a date with him

- Don’t tell him much about yourself until you have found him serious

- Don’t assume any negativity until he as proven to be wrong
Read the rest on my blog www.hightaughts.com
Re: What Do Men Want? by Nobody: 9:35am On Apr 11, 2020
Guyman02:
All that Men simply want from women is happiness, give him whatever makes him happy and that's all
And up till now you have not realised how unrealistic and demanding this expectation is?
Expecting your happiness to come from another human being?
Like all the woman's waking and sleeping thoughts should be how to make you happy?
Does the sun rise and set at your feet?
Are you the air the woman breathes.
What sort of entitlement mentality is this?
I am speechless.
This is way more than i can comprehend.
My dear i am sorry but i do not think this is accomplishable.

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