Discipline?

Very predictable. What else is new? I am sure they have disciplined her plenty before this episode. There is time for discipline and this is not it.

1StopRudeness:


U call this wisdom?? Patting a child on the head with no form of discipline after disgracing herself??
it’s a wrong decision to have sex irrationally and film urself like a porrn actress..if that’s too hard for u to understand and let ur child know this sternly then u shouldn’t be the father...
The world is suddenly becoming a shittyy place.. u can’t correct someone without it being tagged as hypocrisy and hate speech and discrimination or double standards....
Nobody holy pass..but we won’t because of that close the court houses and send the justice department to their homes and also close the correctional facilities.....:
While we are adopting a “let’s spread love” approach..let’s not always forget to call a spade a spade..failure to do this is why we have to much celebration of crap as excellence these days....

TOPCRUISE:
Why is it that If you condemn a cum swallower in this country, you are an hypocrite

Don't mind the lovers of IMMORALITY

Fountainofyouth:
Some people like to be seen as woke, Op has watched too much Hollywood high school movies, this is Nigeria ma'am, come back to reality, I would so much whoop her ass ehn she would never do doggy anymore talk more of sex, and that her mouth that swallowed cum, she would wash her teeth and tongue every hour of everyday for one week till she has sores all over her mouth,

Do you know the trauma I as a mother would feel watching something like that? My own daughter? That's if i don't have high BP sef.

Don't mind the OP. She thinks she's modern. Too much Hollywood fakeness has crept into empty heads.

donMIG:
First I'm not judging
Besides who doesn't phuck? Ehn put ur hands up!
But then the tin wei burst my head na the record wei dem record am
From the video it seems like the girl instigated d whole tin
The guy didn't want to reveal her face but she decided to turn him around so the camera would reveal her identity
I swear I won't take that shit from my mind I spit that talk!... Spent millions n instead u turn into a IndecentStar haba... Wic kind love again I wan show u
I won't take that nonsense
I'm sending her no way close to yankee 4 dia she go just become pornhub wallpaper
I don't know wat I will do if I happened to b her fada
But I'm sure I won't show any love beyond wat I've showed in the past
I mean phuck for phucksake but don't b dumb to record it wit ur bf n I will b really disappointed the guy gave her a skin deep diving... I beg c population of naija
C HIV join
My daughter go come dei do this kind tin u say show love.... Life hard n its even harder wen u stupid

you're one of the few reasonable people on this thread.

lefulefu:
gbam! chidinma"s own case was even worse than this but ppl still forgot it and moved on.in the few weeks to come all these will be forgotten.

Can you marry her or accept her as your sister-in-law after your parents are shown this video?

Parents are no longer doing their job

Zero home training

This is the most recent news of the lady:


https://www.informationng.com/2018/01/ex-miss-anambra-chidinma-okeke-bounces-back-new-photos.html

Sterope:
Easier said than done.

She has found what she is looking for. If after this episode, she continues to be silly, I will understand. This may the unfortunate lesson that she needed to have sense. Better late than never.

if that was an underage child, i would understand, but this is an adult woman over the age of 18... if by then she doesnt know RIGHT from WRONG then you have to admit that A) you have failed as a parent and B) this woman has tasted the forbidden fruit and no matter what you say, it wont change her ways.

what that woman needs is to get her life on the right track, and be whoever she wants to be (whether p0rnstar or shop assistant) LIKE AN ADULT!

that certainly does NOT mean i would love her any less.... its called TOUGH LOVE!

AntiWailer:
Nothing.

My baby will remain my baby forever.

I will tell her how I recorded sex tapes in the past. That her own got to the wrong hand does not make me a Saint and her a sinner.

I am going to show my baby more love. Send her to another school preferably abroad and be there for her till she gets over it.

Fck every hypocrites

Explain how it is hypocrisy?

It's only hypocrisy if you know you were her age doing it in gutters, on the road, in classrooms, hospitals etc. That people lived a dirty life doesn't make it right for their children to, too.

Foolishness is to have a child repeat its parents mistakes like it's an achievement.

the sex is nothing to me..but d way she swallowed that sperm.. cray and disgusting..she swallowed a whole zygote. she 100% cannibal

PataAlhaja:


Sharrap dia! Madam Holier-than-thou ...

If dem analyse your history now, you must have probably lost your virginity to Indomie and fried egg. Mumu! I sure say your toto go wide pass third mainland bridge.


OP, you are on point jare. All the girl needs now is love. We all make mistakes. We all engage in acts we later regret.

As I bad reach, I really feel for the girl.

I am not claiming holy, and I have had sex, but that doesn't mean I would be so stupid to video myself in action, all she needs is love? Okay nah,

Your daughter will video herself hanging on a tree having sex with three men, and they will cum all over her face smiling, and she will rub the cum like cream all over, when you watch it, smile with her and kiss her telling her she did a good job okay, it is not a curse, your daughter will definitely do it, don't worry.

drey076:
i am not against her, some people do worst of this in their closet. she should find her way out of Nigeria to further her studies.

Can you see the difference? It's very different. And even outside Nigeria, if she did that, she would receive the same backlash. Who told you "abroad" is a place where anything goes? People still have sense there. Stop depending on Hollywood and the Kardashians for your education on what goes on.

Godofwonders01:
Why putting the blame on the poor girl ? Most time we fail to forget that most of these girls fall into all these things as a result of compellation from guys as a result of what I tame "Stupid or Blind Love". In bid to suit our stupid and greedy sexual huge we want them to do extra ordinary stupid things not minding the consequences on them and the society.

Looking at that girl's reaction after the sex psychological it depict "Now I gave you what you wanted: doing this because of the love i have for you"
Or maybe the guy even cajoled her that he needs that to be fine or get over some sort of issues she is going through at the moment.

Have you forgotten that every bad girl we have on the street today are once a good girl until he meet a guy that twisted her to suit his taste. Then why is nobody talking about the guy or is anyone not aware that it is the guy that did the recording why and for what ?

Though am not justifying their actions but only saint should judge the girl.

it's abysmal bro but the world is what it is. Men can't be shamed for f**king around with their d**k but a lady can't do same, even if the said lady was doing that for her boyfriedn which she believes would be marrying her in the future, she'd still be called names. It's just what the world is.

This is why i always advocate for girls to always try and be who they are even when they are madly in love, yes they can buh they just never learn.

A girl that once love so much that it was all visible to the blinds denied me sex all through our togetherness because of the fear that she'd be haunted by it as that might be the only reason i got to be in relationship with her while she was deeply in love with me, which she was right, i never loved her buh i was keeping her untill i got tired keeping her.

I never for once disrespect tha her choice, she made it and scaled through. This is how it should be, no matter how deeply in love you are, don't do what you don't want to do.

I pray they learn.

wink2015:


Interesting contribution.

But why is men fond of taking nude picture and video of na. ked women?

Why is the media hiding the identity of the man who wreck the life of this consenting woman.

That's to show her degree of stupidity and nonchalance but some fools are still calling her a victim. Sex at a rehab? Hmmm!

Fountainofyouth:
Some people like to be seen as woke, Op has watched too much Hollywood high school movies, this is Nigeria ma'am, come back to reality, I would so much whoop her ass ehn she would never do doggy anymore talk more of sex, and that her mouth that swallowed cum, she would wash her teeth and tongue every hour of everyday for one week till she has sores all over her mouth,

Do you know the trauma I as a mother would feel watching something like that? My own daughter? That's if i don't have high BP sef.

You are very realistic.

Godofwonders01:
Why putting the blame on the poor girl ? Most time we fail to forget that most of these girls fall into all these things as a result of compellation from guys as a result of what I tame "Stupid or Blind Love". In bid to suit our stupid and greedy sexual huge we want them to do extra ordinary stupid things not minding the consequences on them and the society.

Looking at that girl's reaction after the sex psychological it depict "Now I gave you what you wanted: doing this because of the love i have for you"
Or maybe the guy even cajoled her that he needs that to be fine or get over some sort of issues she is going through at the moment.

Have you forgotten that every bad girl we have on the street today are once a good girl until he meet a guy that twisted her to suit his taste. Then why is nobody talking about the guy or is anyone not aware that it is the guy that did the recording why and for what ?

Though am not justifying their actions but only saint should judge the girl.

What they both did is wrong, its not about condemning her alone the guy is also at fault. The society is quick to point out the girl it's not fair. The blame should be shared evenly.

FatherBona:
How old is that girl? She does not look above 24 to me. No matter what happened she's still the victim here. The amount of backlash she's received from her institution and the internet is more than enough to make anybody drink a carton of sniper. The op is right. It is a mistake that has happened which is not worth the girl's life. So if you are a member of that girl's family and you reading this just know that she needs you now more than ever. Hypocritical Nigerians be acting like they have never had sex or done so in a weird place. Randomly collect the phone of any Nigerian and go through his gallery, the amount of personal sex.tapes and nude vids will make a Catholic priest renounce his oath of celibacy. So why are we crucifying two people for an act of carelessness which is common among children their age.
That girl should pick up the pieces of her life, Babcock expelling her is not the end of her world or her life. People have survived after a sex tape scandal, she is not the first and won't be the last.

Hopeless hypocrites

She is a.victim of her own stupidity. The sex tape was recorded with her consent. So, she brought it on herself. She should learn her lesson and stop being stupid.

densiks:
Pikin where go chop doggy style inside rehab clinic na pikin where no Dey hear word from way back.

Far too many things had already gone wrong with her mind before she reached the point of knowingly recording herself with a psycho just for knacks or whatever it may be called.

She needs all the love she can get especially NOW she’s on everyone’s lips for an act she is probably addicted to which includes swallowing semen like a pro.

Young folks should try to be moderate in their actions to avoid this kind of ‘ant on the scrotum’ or ‘catch 22’ situation.

From my heart, I love her and I will like to hug her and tell her some comforting words.

seems she came for the guy semens

partnerbizn5:
I will call her on phone to come back home from wherever she is, hug and kiss her, reassure her of my love for her; prepare her favourite meal, and make the bed for her to sleep. We will look for the way forward afterwards ranging from sending her abroad to counselling.

You know why?

She needs me now more than ever. The whole world is against her. The hypocrites.

I will be with her now!

Another option is to disown her, let her go into depression and may be suicide.

I choose the former, first option.

Wisdom is profitable to direct!

Op you are a genius

I will call her on phone to come back home from wherever she is, hug and kiss her, reassure her of my love for her; prepare her favourite meal, and make the bed for her to sleep. We will look for the way forward afterwards ranging from sending her abroad to counselling.

You know why?

She needs me now more than ever. The whole world is against her. The hypocrites.

I will be with her now!

Another option is to disown her, let her go into depression and may be suicide.

I choose the former, first option.

Wisdom is profitable to direct!
WOW. Thank you for the Love. People are so hypocritical, Even these that sleep with married men and women , their bosses , members in churches , mosque e.t.c. I wish a fund can be started for this girl to continue her education outside the country. At least she is not sleeping with another person husband. Youths are make mistakes , indeed , we all do.

obailala:
That girl looks clearly over 20. You think flogginhlg an already grown adult can ever work as a corrective measure?.... She don big pass to correct with cane.

Okay any other punishment should do. But she must be punished!

Fountainofyouth:
Some people like to be seen as woke, Op has watched too much Hollywood high school movies, this is Nigeria ma'am, come back to reality, I would so much whoop her ass ehn she would never do doggy anymore talk more of sex, and that her mouth that swallowed cum, she would wash her teeth and tongue every hour of everyday for one week till she has sores all over her mouth,

Do you know the trauma I as a mother would feel watching something like that? My own daughter? That's if i don't have high BP sef.

Does being in Nigeria really make a difference? how and why? Is the girl not in Nigeria doing doggy? Is Nigeria better off as a country than those other "hollywood" countries?

Fact is, if your child has gone this far astray, chances are you did not raise her right. And i hope you are a virgin who has never seen nor touch a dick in her life coz as far as i can tell, the only difference between this child and many on here is that she was caught on camera.

Fountainofyouth:



I am not claiming holy, and I have had sex, but that doesn't mean I would be so stupid to video myself in action, all she needs is love? Okay nah,

Your daughter will video herself hanging on a tree having sex with three men, and they will cum all over her face smiling, and she will rub the cum like cream all over, when you watch it, smile with her and kiss her telling her she did a good job okay, it is not a curse, your daughter will definitely do it, don't worry.

idiota, i have videos of girls who till 2mao will never know they were recorded having sex. It's in the safest part of my pc.

Someone can record you without your knowledge, don't be stupid. It's a common thing furing our school days, we secretly filmed girls without their knowledge just to brag in our circles.

And during your emotional period(sexual) you can do whatever especially for the one you love, trust and believe is prolly gonna be your future partner.

partnerbizn5:
I will call her on phone to come back home from wherever she is, hug and kiss her, reassure her of my love for her; prepare her favourite meal, and make the bed for her to sleep. We will look for the way forward afterwards ranging from sending her abroad to counselling.

You know why?

She needs me now more than ever. The whole world is against her. The hypocrites.

I will be with her now!

Another option is to disown her, let her go into depression and may be suicide.

I choose the former, first option.

Wisdom is profitable to direct!

Not everyone is a "hypocrite". You see what she did? Not everyone of us have done the same. Immorality is still abhorred by a good number of the population.

This is what people who refuse to take accountability start to do- demonise others instead of listening.

tenderheart:
Am I the only one that haven't watched the video

You don't need to be interested, you will be having a mental picture of it and can put you into trouble anywhere.
Desist from watching such things, you have nothing to gain from it.
Even the cucumber one, not interested!

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solmusdesigns:




well well well

At her age iwas also drilling boreholes, so after some few slaps here and there for disgracing me and wasting my money i will accept her home

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VirginSearcher:
That girl is a clear representation of a prostitute

She is worse than prostitutes
Prostitutes deal with mentally stable men

Fountainofyouth:
Some people like to be seen as woke, Op has watched too much Hollywood high school movies, this is Nigeria ma'am, come back to reality, I would so much whoop her ass ehn she would never do doggy anymore talk more of sex, and that her mouth that swallowed cum, she would wash her teeth and tongue every hour of everyday for one week till she has sores all over her mouth,

Do you know the trauma I as a mother would feel watching something like that? My own daughter? That's if i don't have high BP sef.

Infact I'm already loving you. Once you criticize wrongdoer for doing things wrongly, they call you an hypocrit. We are all sinner yes, do they want us all to keep quiet or praise someone for doing things wrong? It was done in private and then became public, so deserves public criticism and total condemnation. If they don't get criticised, it then encourages not only the two of them but also other young ones to toll this same part. Criticism does help to reduce the rate to the prevalence of immoralities otherwise, everybody would've been having immoral decadents like animals that's if animals aren't better now sef.

statusquoante:


Okay any other punishment should do. But she must be punished!

you don't have to be the one to punish her, that's something she will voluntarilly do to herself, you are to help her and watch her so won't overpunish herself except if you are ready to lose her.

Elxandre:
My own point is, Would Jesus expel her from his school because of a mistake or transgression?
In fact, this can be compared to the case of the adulterous woman saved by Jesus in the Bible.
Where is the place of forgiveness and grace in a supposedly Christian school, considering that the event even took place outside the school?

Now she's likely depressed and suicidal, while Babcock only cares about it's "image"and business considerations, instead of the wellbeing of students like a Christian body should.
This Pharisee-like attitude is the reason atheists keep multiplying daily.

She made a mistake that brought the school into badlight, fine! But how about counseling and suspension instead of throwing the baby away with the bath-water?

Thank you for your wise words
Dear Seun and everyone reading this, this is what all of us should do- call out Babcock for their unChristlike treatment of the “sinners” in their holy school. Sinners whose parents’ money said school won’t be refunding I am sure

Let us do good and call out that Babcock through this platform. They were draconian with regards to this case, whatever the yak they have used to justify their judgement

@post
I don’t know what I would do as a parent, but I know this. It is more about the girl (and the boy) than it is about the parents
Any feelings the parents have that involve shame, embarrassment and etc have more to do with ego and sosayiti than love. Cos the right thing is to support the children as they live out their trauma
(I would love to be that parent that would leave judgement and my own embarrassment aside to truly help their child through the horror of it all...but one never knows, eh? I have shrank from being there for my most loved person before, when they were ill. I was devastated and made it about me instead of being totally there for them as they lived out their horror. My biggest regret in life, because all I have of it is this huge love that I never showered on them when they needed it, when they were here. I am still forgiving myself for that, cos I know they have)
Moving on...

partnerbizn5:
I will call her on phone to come back home from wherever she is, hug and kiss her, reassure her of my love for her; prepare her favourite meal, and make the bed for her to sleep. We will look for the way forward afterwards ranging from sending her abroad to counselling.

You know why?

She needs me now more than ever. The whole world is against her. The hypocrites.

I will be with her now!

Another option is to disown her, let her go into depression and may be suicide.

I choose the former, first option.

Wisdom is profitable to direct!

May be, she probably learnt things from you. It might not be her fault only. That's "if she were to be your daughter". Lol
Sex, doggy or whatever they mught be doing behind the closed door is not anybody's headache but being stupid and reckless is when you closed the door so that the next door neighbour won't see you but end up filming it for the whole world to see.
You can even download it and show it to your rest kids.