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| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by dexla(f): 12:14pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
Verbal abuse is just as bad as physical abuse. If you left an ex one or twice, going back a third time wont change the reason you left in the first place. I'll advise you cut off all forms of communication. Have one good and last conversation with him and help him understand why you think the communication should stop. Hes a distraction to your current relationship and needs to be gone for good. Delete all traces of him, from pictures to email to phone numbers. (Ps: I hope you don't know his number off-hand). Get your mind occupied on other motivating things like building your spiritual or financial life. Ask your current boyfriend for advice instead and leave the ex alone. Honestly I dont know how you people get into new relationship without purging yourself of past relationships. Once my attention is given to a new relationship, nothing can distract me. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by Nobody: 2:59pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
Queentee214:I have no new advice. I'm assuming you're emotionally mature to know the importance of going back to your vomit while dating a new guy. Peace. |
| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by henry457: 3:05pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
My dear,you have known ur ex more than anyone else.please don't listen to people advice,follow ur mind.what works for you may not work for someone. The truth is u can't let go of someone simply because of one or two flaws,human being are not perfect.so if you are sure you can change him to your taste and you know he loves you genuinely,go back to him but if otherwise,let him go.Provided their is love,their is hope.dont go into a relationship you know u are not yet ready to let go of your ex,otherwise I pity u and the new guy. I had similar issue like yours,I did all my best to make the relationship work,but my ex kept on devaluing me,abusing me,causing me,fighting me,always causing misunderstanding, etc while we r in a relationship. She made my life miserable to a point I become cold inside me, being with her made me unhappy though I was patient with her hoping she will change until one day,due to misunderstanding, she told me she won't continue our relationship because she has found someone she is compatible with.I tried talking some sensing into her but she threatened to make my life miserable if I force her to come back.i decided to let her go for good.A relationship I was mistreated and yet the only way she could pay me back is by quiting the relationship and going into another one immediately. But thank God I let her go and I won't ever accept her if she comes back to me because I later realise she is a "Nacissist".Now she is trying to Hoover me back to her but too bad am never coming back to her especially knowing she is a narcissist.let her reap what she sow In summary Most women are impatient, you complain about guys alot but have you bother to stop what guys don't like.a relationship is mutual,you both must let go of pride and settle your difference.dont allow ego to make you lose someone that cherish you.Moving from one relationship to another,does not guarantee your happiness, your happiness lies in your hands.if you can't keep a relationship, what guarantee you u will keep your marriage. |
| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by Funkychic(f): 4:47pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
Queentee214: If you really love him as you claimed, then accept his flaws. If not, just let him go and be gone for good..... Simple!! |
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| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by lawpeh: 2:58am On Nov 24, 2019 |
henry457: Most women are patient and I respect those in relationship. I dated a guy for close to 3 years, during this period I can swear withy life that I was faithful and loyal. He's had several flings while we were dating but I accepted that as a flaw and didn't break up. He likes making decisions for me and ignores my advice. There was a time I went to his place and saw an earring , used pad and some other things in his house and he didn't bother to give an explanation. The straw that broke the camel's back was when I discovered one of his girlfriend was stalking me online and I confronted him."I thought u had sense" was the reply I got. I got angry and went to his house, he practically threw me out of the house cos the girl was coming. Am I not patient enough? A lot of girls are enduring a lot of things from heightened ego guys yet when they react the world term them as how's or impatient. My advice to the OP is that u should move on. Don't ever think ur ex will change. You're both having a good chat now cos you're not together. Once you go back to Jim, you might experience worse than you ever did 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by dharamanil(m): 8:23am On Nov 24, 2019 |
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| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by Greatzeus(m): 7:34pm On Nov 24, 2019 |
omron:Congrats on your pile of trash  so if your daughter comes home and told you that her BF or fiance called her a prostitute at a party with hundreds of people present,you will tell her he can still change? Love conquers all ? Hypocrite |
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