Bodaolawrites:
No, Olorun maje.... I can't forgive any cheating partner... Once i confirmed you're cheating... I will just kindly breakup in my mind and look for someone else i will give the love to. And get you fvcked only without any feelings.

I'm not that Nigga that seat a Bae down and announce breakup... I just do the breakup in my mind and that's all.

Birdeyeview:
YES!
so many of y'all do not know the real meaning of true LOVE.
i once dated a guy from Minnesota for 3 years (white skinned), our relationship was a transparent one at that... one time we had a huge argument which led to 2 month of not been in touch. we loved eachother irrespective of our flaws and then decided to bury the hachet and get back together... while we were together he revealed to me how he cheated and with whome (of which i never knew)...
i forgave him because he pleaded and vauge never to repeat it anymore.. it was painful to let go but i had to because i always loved him no matter what... i still do although i lost him to cancer 2017.
my point is; true love never fails and should set no bounds. forgiveness and not keeping an account of any injury should be part of the motivating factors in any outstanding relationship...
ps; forgive my typographical errors if need be.

Slynation:

One thing u should understand about Men is that if you deny them sex, they will definitely get it somewhere else....lemme ask you this "If Sex is not Important in a Relationship, then why is Cheating Painful"?? U lucky he's not my kinda guy, I swear i would av chase u away from that room, You can't deny me of Sex and at the same time i will not also cheat in peace.... But on a second thought, you dated one of the Hottest guy on Campus without sex, my dear the unapologetic truth was that u were dating yourself....
#Nice DP tho

Slynation:

One thing u should understand about Men is that if you deny them sex, they will definitely get it somewhere else....lemme ask you this "If Sex is not Important in a Relationship, then why is Cheating Painful"?? U lucky he's not my kinda guy, I swear i would av chase u away from that room, You can't deny me of Sex and at the same time i will not also cheat in peace.... But on a second thought, you dated one of the Hottest guy on Campus without sex, my dear the unapologetic truth was that u were dating yourself....
#Nice DP tho

MrBrownJay1:


with all due respect..... this has ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with true love, and all to do with STOOPIDITY. if a man truly loved "you" he would respect you (and/or your relationship), and not going to hurt you (and/or your relationship) by going to sleep with other people. you probably loved him, but its evident that such man didnt love you.
Shut up

true love would have stopped this man from cheating on you...FACT!

Twoclans:
@ OP the answer is yes ,I was dating one of the hottest guys on campus while I was at the university .The relationship was not a sexual one just normal hugs and sweet talks but yes I loved him to the moon and back .

He was a lectures kid and stayed in the parents boys quarters ,I am the type that when I date you I can count how many times I will ever come to your apartment I have that character up till tommorrow.This faithful day I just decided to go to his house ,I knocked and went in hmmmmmm my guy had imported chic for the night .I just drew a seat and sat down in my mind we die here today .After ten minutes he had to tell the lady to leave ,that girl hated me from the depth of her heart after that incidence. And i enjoyed myself for a long time with the plenty begging , petting and blackmail from my end.

Guss what?After that incidence we still went on to date for so long until destiny played a trick on us, we are still the best of friends .

UNN Bello Hall room 327 will never forget our love affair .

bonnyhope:



Una Bleep abi love 4 mouth?

MrBrownJay1:


we all know why these women stayed, if these dudes were bill the carpenter and/or Benjamin the shoemaker, this could have been a different story. btw Hillary stayed married to Bill because of her political ambitions. its a well known fact.

now, the important question IS: what is right to do in such circumstances? stay with someone who has no respect for you and your relationship OR leave that deceitful/dishonest/untrustworthy/unfaithful/disgraceful person?! choice is yours....

fireback:
I forgive one sometime. Latter she started acting as if I can not live without her. At times, when we have quarrel, she will threating to cheat. She knew I love her so much. But the day I finally open mouth and told her it's over between us, she could not believe her ears that day.

OROSUNBOLB:
I hate being taken for a ride! I won't forgive and forget such deceitful act. I will fix the two dirty bastards permanently. I have a case at hand now that I'm working on and by the time I'm done with that idi0t,there will certainly be gnashing of teeth and tears of sorrow in his households. You don't send unscrupulous messages to my wife at odd hours in the name of being a business partner or friend!

KOROFO won't forgive me if I don't treat your Bleep-up and put you where stinking fools like you deserve. Your G-nut is soaked in kokoma already and you must chop am.

martinzjay:
I thought I will never forgive a cheating girlfriend until the girl I madly loved acted funny.
Normally I see cheating in a relationship as a normal thing until I met this girl who mad me believe I can actually have one girl friend. She made me believe that if I ever betray her trust that it’s all over.
When she went for NYSC I noticed she started acting funny by missing my calls and giving excuses. She told me she will be lodging with a female friend after passing out from camp and I suspected that she wants to Bleep with camp boyfriend and when I called that night she told me that she later went to one family church lodge for corpers because all her camp girlfriends wants to party....imagine aunty forming saint for me oo...
Recently I visited her in Abuja with out telling her that I’m coming only to ask her to come outside and take what my cousin bought for her and she came out with one guy around 9pm and I was shocked because her sister whom she is staying with traveled that weekend.
On seeing me she couldn’t believe it and I did as if I’m a casual friend and handed her the cake I bought for her,told her goodnight and she turned to leave...I couldn’t believe my eyes....this is a girl that made me believe she can die for me.
I called her back and asked who was the guy and as if her senses came back she started begging me and that the guy was just a neighbor whom she asked to accompany her to the junction since it’s late and the guy sensing the misunderstanding left the scene.
I had never been SHOCKED in my life but I just have to forgive her even though I thought she cheated because I can never believe my girl can walk out on me because of an ordinary neighbor.
Secondly I cannot break a relationship after spending close to 10hours on the road for it.
So since that day,I made up my mind that we are all cheats especially when not together,no matter how you see it.

Beverlyjean:
The chances of a man cheating is 99.9% ... That's unless u don't find out ..so u are trying to say men don't love cos they still end up cheating ... Guy u need to reformat ur thinking faculty...

The way a man is wired is different from the way a woman is wired ...

It's only different if the man does it disrespectfully in ur face or time and time again....

But once just like Clinton's should b forgivable ... A woman that says she wunt b able to stay with a partner that cheated will end up being a hoe , cos she will b jumping from dik to dik searching for el derado ... B4 she knows it , she has 4kd over 15 guys thinking she's still a good girl

ussy09:
why are u sounding as if you don't know that men can have s*x without feeling anything with d person involve and still love his woman, his just been a man

MrBrownJay1:


a man who cheats certainly does NOT love you, no matter how much BS he tells you and/or how foolish you are to believe it.
here is a simple clue: how would you know whether someone loves you if it isnt by their ACTION? thats the "only" way you can have a confirmation that someone loves you or not, and sadly, the minute they cheat is a confirmation that they dont give a damn about you (or the r/ship you guys have). this man is ready to disregard you and your r/ship for a piece of coochie... and thats a FACT!!!



stop listening to the ARRANT RUBBISH men are telling you in order to treat you like dirt. men who say these things are animals...and if that was actually true, they STILL wouldnt need to cheat. if a man care for you and has to cheat, then he will come correct and tell you exactly that (before he goes to cheat).... not after when he has been busted with his pants down.



lol, you have been thoroughly BRAINWASHED.... there is no way on this green earth that anyone can "cheat respectfully". the minute they decide to sleep with another person, thats a LACK OF RESPECT for you and your r/ship.



that woman will have RESPECT for herself... thats what is more important here....rather than being a doormat, used and abused by a man who doesnt give a damn about her.



yes we all know that men can do that, but these men dont love their partner, and actually have no clue about what love is... if they did, they wouldnt knowingly hurt their partner by sleeping around. duh! think about it.....THINK.... so a man loves a woman but he will go and fukc around with other babes while knowing fully well that such action hurts his woman to her chore and damages what you guys have?!?!?!?!?!? makes no damn sense.

sadly, as we can see from this thread, so many women are "damaged" that they will accept any rubbish under the moon from men....in order to stay in that r/ship at any cost.

Nnemuka:
cheating is my deal breaker.
I can forgive anybody but a cheat except it's an open relationship.

Beverlyjean:


So whenever u hv a bf and he cheats , u will move to the next dik ?? In the end how many diks wil 4k u as u searching for a partner that good at hiding his escapades ??

Beverlyjean:
U are the one that's brainwashed ... U can't say that when a man cheats , it means he doesn't love u...that's a blatant sick lie from the pit of hell..

U know nothing about love ...probably u are living in denial... People make mistakes that they truly regret and ask for forgiveness ...

Love and care go hand in hand ... If u don't care about ur partners feelings after the act , then u don't love ur partner

..but if u are truly hurt after cheating on ur partner , what will u call that?? Stop deceiving the gullible ones ...

Love is forgiveness but for only those that truly are remorseful ... Just as God forgives and our parents forgive when we Bleep up .. anyone that can't forgive a partner that once cheated and is remorseful never loved that person

Birdeyeview:
YES!
so many of y'all do not know the real meaning of true LOVE.
i once dated a guy from Minnesota for 3 years (white skinned), our relationship was a transparent one at that... one time we had a huge argument which led to 2 month of not been in touch. we loved eachother irrespective of our flaws and then decided to bury the hachet and get back together... while we were together he revealed to me how he cheated and with whome (of which i never knew)...
i forgave him because he pleaded and vauge never to repeat it anymore.. it was painful to let go but i had to because i always loved him no matter what... i still do although i lost him to cancer 2017.
my point is; true love never fails and should set no bounds. forgiveness and not keeping an account of any injury should be part of the motivating factors in any outstanding relationship...
ps; forgive my typographical errors if need be.

MrBrownJay1:


with all due respect..... this has ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with true love, and all to do with STOOPIDITY. if a man truly loved "you" he would respect you (and/or your relationship), and not going to hurt you (and/or your relationship) by going to sleep with other people. you probably loved him, but its evident that such man didnt love you.

true love would have stopped this man from cheating on you...FACT!

fireback:
I forgive one sometime. Latter she started acting as if I can not live without her. At times, when we have quarrel, she will threating to cheat. She knew I love her so much. But the day I finally open mouth and told her it's over between us, she could not believe her ears that day.

Ikennablue:
honestly true love doesn't stop a man from cheating. True love can stop a man from loving another woman but not from bleeping another woman. Men can Bleep without any emotion attached to it

luminouz:


You're nothing but a ball of hate and hurt.

Fix yourself first,OK?

luminouz:


I'm sorry about your pain. Emotional hurt hits hard,I know. We are all humans, flawed and vulnerable. Like I said earlier,nobody is indispensable to you except YOU. She meant her words but after a while, her interests shifted. It happens to the best of us. The only person whose words deserve your trust is YOU.