lagosminded:

From the start of the relationship, men will tell you they’re looking for a wife material - which mostly means - good cook, manage a home, peaceful home take care of kids etc. Nigerian men don’t pretend this is what they want. Nigerian girls play this role well while dating and reverse when they get married.

OruExpress:
Young Nigerian men hate women. their fathers felt they as men were better than women, but the young actually hate them.

emmaodet:


Which girls were trained to behave like girls? And boys behave badly?
Is it not the so called properly trained women we see today cheating ridiculously? Sucking dìcks, smoking shishas, clubbing and drinking heavily? Having sexx orgies? 2somes, 3somes etc runs girls/aristoes/slay mamas who are just looking for the slightest excuse to expose there bodies?
So much for really training a girl child, So much.

Martinez39
Pansophist
Franchasng
Ubunja

Ivebeenbanned:

You must be a boomer. The women are having sex with animals, abi? Men are not 'not' well behaved for having threesomes and smoking shisha and opening packs for the world to see. Your misogyny flew out. Be proving her point.

emmaodet:


We are still saying the same thing that women are as bad as men.
So women should not be seen as better saint.

1StopRudeness:


Why do u ladies worry so much about what people say about you especially guys... people u don’t even know, people that don’t know u most of the time..the funniest part is your fellow women folk even say more horrible shiit..

Few men say they don’t like a divorcee or say some nasty shitt...u cry river.
some men say they don’t want non-virgins you start screaming discrimination, a man has some nasty opinion about ladies with cascade of abortion history, you start screaming double standards...at the end of the day, everyone is entitled to his or her preference and opinion about you..weda good or nasty...I feel the duty is on you not to let it bug you instead of crying and clamoring that they should not talk or they can’t have their nasty personal opinion...
You women always approach life like u want some automatic support and validation from the world..sooner or later, u’ll start tagging it as hate....
The fact is u can never have total control over how people see u, we all have different mentality and process things differently, some people are damaged and hurt psychologically, experiences have damaged their views about the world....no matter how good and perfect ur life may seem, married, great husband, have a house and car... someone will still have something nasty and horrible to say about you let alone when u are divorced, a prostitutee, barren, or worst, u have a sex tape online sucking sperrm from a d!c..

The world is naturally mean, it’s not a man thing....Develop a thick skin, enjoy ur life with the decisions you took and the consequences that follow....at the end of the day...the world owes you nothing..

Alexaonfleek:
shioor
How many guys of nowadays want to suffer like their fathers.Were father's then yahoo boys
Do u still go to the farm now
Uncle sufferhead

Ivebeenbanned:
excuse me sir, what's wrong with having sex? Why are you people such hypocrites? I've never smoked shisha, but going around calling people who haven't hurt you by the lifestyle they chose indecent or unmarriageable doesn't make sense. Everyone has a taste. People are attracted to smokers. Young people don't discriminate like older people. You people need to stop with this African culture shit talk. All these traditions and beliefs that are just peer pressure from dead people. We don't want it anymore because it's ugly. Let people live.

Beosten:
The society knows the devils women can become before it invented a shaming system for the unmarried ones.

lavylilly:
I have been reading with so much disdain, the recent tantrums thrown on divorced ladies on this platform recently. I may not have followed every comment and reply, but majority I read from guy seems to shame the ladies. This is very wrong.

There is nothing dehumanizing or stigmatizing about a divorced lady coming out to say she was divorced. There is nothing glorifying managing an unmanageable husband or wife in a matrimonial home. I have rarely read people shame a divorced man, or are their stigma different?

The truth is simple, its better to live alive or stay and die, and its very very simple, simpler than staying.

As a legal practitioner, I have had the opportunity to handle/witness several divorce cases, and I'm sure to say its better to leave alive.

65% of divorce cases in Nigerian courts today are instituted by ladies who couldn't tolerate a toxic marriage any longer. This simply means, there is something certainly wrong with men of today, or both.

Men have become more randy, intolerant and abusive than before.

Let's watch how we shame somebody, especially in a situation we haven't been involved in before.

Remember the goal is to be alive and happy, married or single.

Thanks, and have a lovely week.

frozen70:


You made a valid point my dear

Men has become what our fore fathers couldn't do out of shame

A man that loses his worth, strength and pride shouldn't vent his anger on his woman

Am glad women are sensing dangers and walking out, marriage it is not a prison or correctional home

It's supposed to be a love field where true love guides our activities, actions, words and deeds

Ivebeenbanned:

You must be a boomer. The women are having sex with animals, abi? Men are not 'not' well behaved for having threesomes and smoking shisha and opening packs for the world to see. Your misogyny flew out. Be proving her point.

Timbuktuo:


I wouldn’t say we hate women. We certainly have no love for them, though.

lagosminded:
Marriage is a sham. Our ladies now don’t want to suffer like their mothers. The more being a divorcee is no longer a stigma for women, the higher the divorce rate in Nigeria will be. Women are not blameless tho, they’ve perfected the act of “getting the ring”.

Ivebeenbanned:

Your abusive father must be proud. I pray to God you marry one that has physical strength equal to a man's. Funny how you people are quick to assume its every woman you can beat anyhow

Fyi0:

Stupid thing. Women have also become more bitchy, disrespectful, hoey etc than before.
Bitch

24kmagic:


Women are the problem, not the men. Men simply go with the flow. You have the power in your hands to get the man of your dreams all to yourself.

At times when I see a girl and her boyfriend walking down the street, what I usually ask myself is na wetin this guy tell this girl whe make her gri for am?

There's this guy I know, he managed to finish secondary school only. Since then, he's been at home forming street guy. No job, no skill, no certificate. All what he knows is play bet9ja, smoke and fvck. At at 30 ooo. Funny thing is he got many girls falling for him. The question is why? Even in sch, we all know that the so called classy girls were reserved for the cultists. In the event that these girls end up with such guys, how far do you think that union will last?

Taste = 0

Ask an average lady what she wants in a relationship.

Good preek
Money

Once a guy knows you're with him for any of these two things, you're already his slave. And you know how masters treat slaves.

Take the Babcock girl story as an example. The boy is a drug addict on rehabilitation, but he still has her mumu bottom cos of good preek. Even on a hospital bed, she couldnt miss an oporrunity to taste his preek. Should that pretty girl even be involved with a drug addict in the first place? Do you think a marriage between these two people will last the test of time knowing that good preek was the foundation? Most of the ladies are just confused beings. Expect more devorce cases as time goes on.

So many things to type but let me stop here.

lavylilly:
I have been reading with so much disdain, the recent tantrums thrown on divorced ladies on this platform recently. I may not have followed every comment and reply, but majority I read from guy seems to shame the ladies. This is very wrong.

There is nothing dehumanizing or stigmatizing about a divorced lady coming out to say she was divorced. There is nothing glorifying managing an unmanageable husband or wife in a matrimonial home. I have rarely read people shame a divorced man, or are their stigma different?

The truth is simple, its better to live alive or stay and die, and its very very simple, simpler than staying.

As a legal practitioner, I have had the opportunity to handle/witness several divorce cases, and I'm sure to say its better to leave alive.

65% of divorce cases in Nigerian courts today are instituted by ladies who couldn't tolerate a toxic marriage any longer. This simply means, there is something certainly wrong with men of today, or both.

Men have become more randy, intolerant and abusive than before.

Let's watch how we shame somebody, especially in a situation we haven't been involved in before.

Remember the goal is to be alive and happy, married or single.

Thanks, and have a lovely week.

Ladycewhy:
key word suffer ,you think their mothers suffered willingly? You think their mothers were happy suffering? Maybe the ladies of today saw what their mothers had to go through and choose not to go that route because at the end it wasn't worth all the suffering. There just has to be another way to enjoy marriage other than the so called suffering you are proposing or are women only designed to be suffer head for men?

Heck i wouldn't want to go through what my grandma went through,in those days it was a taboo to leave your husband's house in my tribe and guess what? My grandma was a victim, she endured and suffered. She and my grandpa were like cat and rat,she was betrothed to him at a young age and had to stay put. It was traumatic for her. If that is the suffer you want ladies of today to suffer, please let your sisters and daughters do so ,stop wishing suffering on other people's daughters.

lagosminded:
Marriage is a sham. Our ladies now don’t want to suffer like their mothers[color=#000000][/color]. The more being a divorcee is no longer a stigma for women, the higher the divorce rate in Nigeria will be. Women are not blameless tho, they’ve perfected the act of “getting the ring”.

lagosminded:
Marriage is a sham. [s]Our ladies now don’t want to suffer like their mothers[/s]. The more being a divorcee is no longer a stigma for women, the higher the divorce rate in Nigeria will be. Women are not blameless tho, they’ve perfected the act of “getting the ring”.

cococandy:
The same posters who shame single/divorced women and make useless comments about children raised by single moms also wonder why women care about the opinions of the society?

The synaptic gaps seem to be enormous.
I’m guessing anything to hate on women flies. Even if it means dancing on both sides of the argument simultaneously. Sigh.

OruExpress:


its hate. Nigerian men often express vengeful happiness when bad things happen to women. Rape, assault, etc.