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Re: My Friend's Father Is A Ghost!! by Mrexcell(m): 3:19pm On Dec 02, 2019
tianshie:
I went to secondary school with Eze. His father, Thaddeus, fought in the Biafra war. What we know about his father's wartime experience is that the war ended for Thaddeus when he was wounded in Onitsha in 1968. He came home.

Recently a man from Eze's father's village who had fought the war with Thaddeus told my friend's mother (on the phone) that actually Thaddeus died in the war. This man had fled to Gabon after the war. He'd just returned to the country.

Since the news broke, Thaddeus hasn't been seen. He'd been in the bathroom when my friend's mother took the call on the phone. After the call, my friend and his mother could hear the splash of water in the bathroom, but when they opened the door there was no one there!

What advice do you have for the family? I've never heard sh*t like this before!!

This is really strange though I have heard stories like this before. The one I read about that happened in benue disappeared with his son when they found out he was actually a ghost. Your friend might also be a ghost if this story is true.

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Re: My Friend's Father Is A Ghost!! by Ishilove: 3:25pm On Dec 02, 2019
tianshie:


This is not a creative writing project. All who don't believe this are but a speck in the celestial scheme of things. Why should I bother? We're talking about death, and no one has ever grown less by dying. We reincarnate.
Care to explain how come Pa Thaddeus picture which you posted belongs to Alpha Kanu, a Sierra Leonian?

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Re: My Friend's Father Is A Ghost!! by Augustap(f): 3:48pm On Dec 02, 2019
Ishilove:

Why will I have my neighbour's pictures or pictures of her corpse, or any picture pertaining to her for that matter?
But a Linus has his friend's father's picture grin

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Re: My Friend's Father Is A Ghost!! by 1Sharon(f): 3:48pm On Dec 02, 2019
Owologbo:


when they called the lady to inform her of her sister passing away, she was like the sister just left her place.
There's even a story of a man that died in the village, went to a different part of the country, get married and have children. At a point the wife started disturbing him; when are you going to show me your people? When he got tired of the pressure from the wife, he decided to took her home. when he got to his village, he took two bikes, as they were going he stopped at a compound not too far from his own and told the bike man that carried the wife (pointing at the compound) where to drop his wife that he wants to see a friend.
the wife only discovered that he married a ghost when they showed her his picture and grave (the man never appear again).
it happened to people whose lives were cut short (not everybody though).

So.ghosts can have kids with humans? How does that work?

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Re: My Friend's Father Is A Ghost!! by 1Sharon(f): 3:56pm On Dec 02, 2019
Ishilove:

I think you are right because she ignored me totally when I greeted her. She didn't even look me in the face but looked straight ahead. She was passing by her house which is by the roadside. When she ignored me, I assumed she was distracted and didn't bother saluting her again.

Maybe she didn't hear or see you?

Nollywood Is not real you know.

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Re: My Friend's Father Is A Ghost!! by 1Sharon(f): 4:18pm On Dec 02, 2019
atobs4real:

I have an aunty that also falls into such. Yoruba called it AKUDAYA which means some who is late now comes back to life but they don't come towards where they are known. Once they have the feelings that a known person saw them, they disappear.
It is mostly caused by untimely death. Sorry about what happened

You really think ppl can eat their and have it and come back to live again after dying?

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Re: My Friend's Father Is A Ghost!! by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 4:35pm On Dec 02, 2019
willy2000:


Maybe his friend's father was 13 during the war, so mathematically it is possible grin
Count again and tell me, he was older than 13
Re: My Friend's Father Is A Ghost!! by kokomilala(m): 4:39pm On Dec 02, 2019
@djpaparazzi,this thing is very deep.It will take a lot of time to fully do justice to it.But demons hijack wandering souls.When someone dies untimely and doesn't have the Spirit of God,his soul wanders about.Demons ,at that point, can hijack that soul in order to be serving them in the kingdoms of darkness.Or they,possess his mortal body.
Reincarnation is the prerogative of God, as He did in the case of Elijah ,who came back as John the Baptist( cf Matthew 11:14.): The devil also reincarnates his agents,using human flesh or image.
In Psalm 24, the Bible gives us a snippet of what went down when Jesus died and went to hell,the dark place of the earth-Hades. Before then ,the devil had held the keys to the gates of hell.See Heb.2:14-15.
When Jesus got there, the devil froze on his chair and the gates -those ancient gates- opened of their own volition. He was shaking violently in that chair. If you read Psalm 24,he was the one asking,'who is the King of Glory?' And Jesus said ,'open up ancient gates...and the King of Glory shall enter...' From that moment on,the dead came out,those that had been bound for ages.The gates remain open to this day.Also read Matthew 27,when Jesus died-the moment His unblemished blood touched the earth- old Testament saints resurrected.That's why it's good to have the Spirit and power of God. A lot of things are going on in the second heaven-space and the sky- first heaven, and in the deep sea that the human eyes can't see.There's a serious warfare for the souls of collective humanity.

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Re: My Friend's Father Is A Ghost!! by mcbliss: 4:42pm On Dec 02, 2019
Op is high on cheap weed.

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Re: My Friend's Father Is A Ghost!! by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 4:44pm On Dec 02, 2019
bookiesondebt:
Here is my question.....
Kindly take note of these points
1)You said it was during the biafrian war which happen in the mid 1963
2)The op claim the father is 69 years old mathematically he was born in 1950.Therefore he was 13 during the war apparently a child soldier.
3)At 13,So you are telling me he is married already..is that it?.
Cos how can the Gabon returnee knows the number of the wife since he hasn't been home since God knows when..?
Simply go to Google and find out when the civil war took place and stop arguing about what you don't know.

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Re: My Friend's Father Is A Ghost!! by Clinton207: 5:00pm On Dec 02, 2019
kokomilala:
@djpaparazzi,this thing is very deep.It will take a lot of time to fully do justice to it.But demons hijack wandering souls.When someone dies untimely and doesn't have the Spirit of God,his soul wanders about.Demons ,at that point can hijack that soul to be serving them in the kingdoms of darkness.Or,possess his mortal body.
Reincarnation is the prerogative of God, as He did in the case of Elijah ,who came back as John the Baptist( cf Matthew 11:14.): The devil also reincarnates his agents,using human flesh or image.
In Psalm 24, the Bible gives us a snippet of what went down when Jesus died and went to hell. Before then ,the devil had held the keys to the gates of hell.See Heb.2:14-15.
When Jesus got there, the devil froze on his chair and the gates -those ancient gates opened on their own volition. He was shaking violently in that chair. If you read Psalm 24,he was the one asking,'who is the King of Glory?' And Jesus said ,'open up ancient gates...and the King of Glory shall enter...' From that moment on,the dead came out,those bound for ages.The gates remain open to this day.Also read Matthew 27,when Jesus died ,old Testament saints resurrected.That's why it's good to have the power of God. A lot of things are going up in the second heaven-space and the sky- first heaven, and in the deep sea that the human eyes can't see.There's a serious warfare for the souls of collective humanity.
. What an insight.. Thanks
Re: My Friend's Father Is A Ghost!! by olajizz01(m): 5:15pm On Dec 02, 2019
fk001:


There lots of questionable things but unfortunately religion silent us
Hmmmm,religion doesn't recognized such things, but nowadays, this world is full of mystery.
Re: My Friend's Father Is A Ghost!! by agarawu23(m): 5:30pm On Dec 02, 2019
Augustap:

How can someone even die twice... Make Una dey reason the lie from many perspectives before coming here to fry stew.... Suffery abeg grin grin
kids like you don't know anything na. Na only to rub make up and flex grin grin cheesy
Re: My Friend's Father Is A Ghost!! by agarawu23(m): 5:30pm On Dec 02, 2019
1Sharon:


I never knew you could die twice
now you know smiley
Re: My Friend's Father Is A Ghost!! by 1Sharon(f): 5:36pm On Dec 02, 2019
agarawu23:
now you know smiley

Nonsense
Re: My Friend's Father Is A Ghost!! by Augustap(f): 5:51pm On Dec 02, 2019
agarawu23:
kids like you don't know anything na. Na only to rub make up and flex grin grin cheesy
A very wrong notion. Some ladies actually do more than apply make up and flex

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Re: My Friend's Father Is A Ghost!! by kinzd(m): 5:57pm On Dec 02, 2019
Oga take it deep chill my Dad went to the war at the AGE of 17yrs its all about mind there were lot of baby Soldiers during liberia civil war.
zinaunreal:
Guy a 69 year old would still be a kid in the war not even able to pick up a riffle

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Re: My Friend's Father Is A Ghost!! by sammugbes(m): 6:08pm On Dec 02, 2019
[quote author=Omoluabi16 post=84442169] Really?? heard things like this, but I never believed it.Some even say, they go and raise family elsewhere. It has happened to me also, saw my friends dad walking on d street one hot afternoon, I greeted him, no response, but he had died some days earlier, I was shocked cos I told my friends I saw him, that hes still alive, they laughed at me, but I knew I saw him
Re: My Friend's Father Is A Ghost!! by sylve11: 6:22pm On Dec 02, 2019
mcbliss:
M reading this creepy thread at nyt, hmmm. Hu send me !


grin grin cool

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Re: My Friend's Father Is A Ghost!! by sylve11: 6:30pm On Dec 02, 2019
1Sharon:


You really think ppl can eat their and have it and come back to live again after dying?

what's essence of living if it's not to reincarnate to be a better person? sad cool
Re: My Friend's Father Is A Ghost!! by LeoFish92(m): 7:44pm On Dec 02, 2019
Ishilove:

I know what I saw and greeted, but the logical part of me pales and quails, and I therefore find myself hiding behind the safety net of absolute rejection.

This world is mysterious.
We recently lost a staff at my place of work. Before she died, she was sick and bedridden for a week.

About two of the colleagues in her department who didn't know she was sick reported that they saw her in the market, greeted her, but she ignored them.

The husband was adamant that they didn't know who they saw, her own wife who has almost been in a coma go to market? He dismissed it as utter bullshit. But those guys were sure of whom they saw. They saw her on Friday, Saturday she died.

Again, I repeat, this world is a mystery!

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Re: My Friend's Father Is A Ghost!! by aysnoopy(m): 8:14pm On Dec 02, 2019
when my father died, someone said he met him walking in a hast on d road, dey greeted each other and he told d person he's on his way to church. everyone was shocked wen we heard dat, even d person that saw him was surprise that my dad died. he's just shouting in surprise that he talked to a ghost..

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Re: My Friend's Father Is A Ghost!! by Ishilove: 8:20pm On Dec 02, 2019
LeoFish92:


This world is mysterious.
We recently lost a staff at my place of work. Before she died, she was sick and bedridden for a week.

About two of the colleagues in her department who didn't know she was sick reported that they saw her in the market, greeted her, but she ignored them.

The husband was adamant that they didn't know who they saw, her own wife who has almost been in a coma go to market? He dismissed it as utter bullshit. But those guys were sure of whom they saw. They saw her on Friday, Saturday she died.

Again, I repeat, this world is a mystery!
This is very strange indeed...

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Re: My Friend's Father Is A Ghost!! by Ishilove: 8:22pm On Dec 02, 2019
tianshie:
Thank you for all the advice. I am very grateful. For those who doubt what is clearly a mystery, a painful episode for my friend's family, I've been told to tell you this—Every child is born with the name of the world in his mouth, and at death that name is declared—a key between this world and the next.


Guy leave the esoteric shiit. You still haven't explained why you posted a fake picture.

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Re: My Friend's Father Is A Ghost!! by digitaltrades: 8:36pm On Dec 02, 2019
shogsman:


They should blame Moisture and unstable air for that.
. Lolz
Re: My Friend's Father Is A Ghost!! by Nobody: 8:37pm On Dec 02, 2019
Was your friend born before he died?

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Re: My Friend's Father Is A Ghost!! by deniguy01(m): 9:00pm On Dec 02, 2019
Lol.. comedian. His dad died in 1968 and the boy (38) was given birth in 1981.
Please someone should play ‘Na Audio’ for me

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Re: My Friend's Father Is A Ghost!! by Skeendip(m): 9:01pm On Dec 02, 2019
But OP, wetin you wan gain for doing this?

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Re: My Friend's Father Is A Ghost!! by ashala(m): 9:08pm On Dec 02, 2019
Richy4:
smiley I will nominate Chinwe Owoh to play the role of the wife because of her crying abilities.

Chinwetalu Agu to play the part of man who witnessed him killed during the war.

Zulu Adigwe to play the part of Husband who turned into a fish in bathtub or what was it he turned into when confronted..

Okey Bakassi will do nice as your friend on this movie,

OP you did not say how many kids the man had. Anyways, it doesn't matter we will assume he has 3 kids a son and 2 daughters. I haven't watched Nollywood for ages. So I will say Maureen Solomon, Chioma chukwuka or Nkiru Silvernous would be a better options for this movie project as daughters...

OP I want you to nominate who will play your part very well as a good friend..

What a tales by moonlight.

Kai, last was finish me here

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Re: My Friend's Father Is A Ghost!! by deniguy01(m): 9:10pm On Dec 02, 2019
Ishilove:

Did this really happen? How did this bearer of unpleasant news know Thaddeus died? Did he see the burial spot? Did he see the corpse? Didn't Mrs Thaddeus visit his family home before marrying him? This harbinger of abominable information should have concrete proof before we assume things. Are you saying your 39 year old friend has not visited his ancestral home since he was born?

Too many holes in your story.





You don’t get the point. You should be thinking how someone of that 68(1951) fought in biafra(1967) at age 17. Abd got killed but gave birth to a son of 38(1981) .
Dz people de write stort

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Re: My Friend's Father Is A Ghost!! by deniguy01(m): 9:19pm On Dec 02, 2019
Everybody come use the time de talk the gost weh be say person yan them.. AUDIO

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Re: My Friend's Father Is A Ghost!! by Ego2(f): 9:42pm On Dec 02, 2019
oldtruth:

Amen. Okay. Thank you
you're welcome

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