lilwetdick:
everything the man must do

like the woman does not have brain to take care of herself or think for herself

is she an invalid or someone with disabilities?

lavylilly:
why are you so toxic?

lilwetdick:


what is toxic here?

if a woman has a brain, two eyes, two nose, two legs and everything necessary to be a complete and mature woman

is it my job to tell the woman that she needs to get her hair done?
is it my job to tell the woman that she needs to take her bath or smell nice?
or is it my job to tell her how to be a responsible woman?

as long as she is not an invalid and disable, she can think for herself.

lavylilly:
Invest in your woman!
There is no beautiful garden without a committed gardener. The reason why she is beginning to look less attractive to you is because you're allowing the weeds outgrow her roses. Pluck them off and see if she won't match up to the other women you're admiring.

Don't be quiet when she's carrying her hair undone for weeks. It should bother you if she's been wearing those same torn shoes for months, when she visits you in those shoes uncle how do you feel escorting her to the bus? Stop by the store if she's not smelling nice, the Nivea roll-on and body spray package is not more than two thousand naira, and encourage her to be spraying it fuuufuuufuuu with the fear of God so that it will last.

Teach her to be diligent and honest.
Teach her the principles of purpose discovery.
Teach her about investment and saving.
Teach her the importance of walking with God.
Help her develop a new skill.
Give her a helping hands when she is weary.
Not just to be doing boo and bae everywhere.
And disturbing everyone
Chinny Nwafor

lavylilly:
Invest in your woman!
There is no beautiful garden without a committed gardener. The reason why she is beginning to look less attractive to you is because you're allowing the weeds outgrow her roses. Pluck them off and see if she won't match up to the other women you're admiring.

Don't be quiet when she's carrying her hair undone for weeks. It should bother you if she's been wearing those same torn shoes for months, when she visits you in those shoes uncle how do you feel escorting her to the bus? Stop by the store if she's not smelling nice, the Nivea roll-on and body spray package is not more than two thousand naira, and encourage her to be spraying it fuuufuuufuuu with the fear of God so that it will last.

Teach her to be diligent and honest.
Teach her the principles of purpose discovery.
Teach her about investment and saving.
Teach her the importance of walking with God.
Help her develop a new skill.
Give her a helping hands when she is weary.
Not just to be doing boo and bae everywhere.
And disturbing everyone
Chinny Nwafor

lavylilly:
why are you so toxic?

MrCork:

lilwetdick:
everything the man must do

[/b]like the woman does not have brain to take care of herself or think for herself

is she an invalid or someone with disabilities?[b]

Teach her to be diligent and honest.

Teach her the principles of purpose discovery.

Teach her about investment and saving.

Teach her the importance of walking with God.

Help her develop a new skill.

Give her a helping hands when she is weary.

Not just to be doing boo and bae everywhere.

And disturbing everyone

Martinez39:


Is she still in kindergarten?

Omar09:


The sarcasm in this reply is out of this world.

How can a woman instead of building herself will hoe out her life and expect a man who is built and probably working to sustain what he's built will now come and start building another human that is not his child in the name of relationship? It's not as if she will be humble to learn instead all sticks and stones. Whatever happened to self worth before going into relationship. All this feminist talk and shit.

lilwetdick:


what is toxic here?

if a woman has a brain, two eyes, two nose, two legs and everything necessary to be a complete and mature woman

is it my job to tell the woman that she needs to get her hair done?
is it my job to tell the woman that she needs to take her bath or smell nice?
or is it my job to tell her how to be a responsible woman?

as long as she is not an invalid and disable, she can think for herself.

fweshboi1:
you're the toxic one here, mumu

Easybela:
the way women of the world is today,I won't advice any man to invest in any woman,why the investment if I may ask ,like she's a business that will yield any profit in future. You can gift a woman you are dating if you like,investing is not right until she is legally your wife.
Some women that can carefully date 4 to 5 men same time......op get yourself busy abeg

Martinez39:
Don't mind the op. Let her tell that to those that trained their girlfriends in school thinking they were going to marry her after everything only to be dumped cold for a higher bidder. Let her tell that to the husbands who trained their wives in school, furthered the education of their wives, got them high paying jobs only for the husband to go broke and reap insults, nagging, and cruelty in return. These husbands get insulted and are constantly reminded by their wives at the slightest provocation that they are worthless and that if not for the wives' money, they wouldn't survive. Any money they borrow from their wives is a loan that must be returned or else they are nagged and fought to repay. It does not matter what good these husbands have done for their wives in the past.

emmaodet:


Hmmmmmmmmm.
Bro, it's as if you have stayed with my family from a kid.
This is what is happening presently in my family.
My Aunty's husband sent her to college of education when my grandpa couldn't afford schooling her, after graduation my aunt got job as a civil servant (teacher) with lagos state govt.
25 years down the lane, the hubby lost his job and my aunt was always nagging, complaining, lamenting and groaning at any little opportunity.
It got to a point the man was pushed to sound her a dirty slap to reset her brain ( this is a gentle, quite man that am even surprise could do such - probably he was pushed to the wall)
Now my family are deliberating on whether to go move her away from matrimonial home pending when the man will find his feet. I felt bad because am a man and could have been me.
The hubby really tried for my aunt during his prime when she was Nobody.

Martinez39:
That's female nature. Funny enough, when you see the couple in public the wife would act like she is good person only to turn into a demon at home. No matter the sacrifice you have made for a woman in the past, you cease being important or worthy of respect when you can't provide. Women's thought process is always "how are you useful to me now or in the future?".

That's why I can never make investment in a woman except my sister. I can never train the woman I want to marry in school or help her further her education. If I am very rich and my in-laws ask me to help train their daughter in school, I would say "That is not my responsibility. I came to pick a wife and a woman does not need a degree to be a wife. If her parents can't train her, then she gets no training. It not my responsibility to train her in school". Though I don't play to marry or have kids, I am using the above as an example.

Martinez39:
That's female nature. Funny enough, when you see the couple in public the wife would act like she is good person only to turn into a demon at home. No matter the sacrifice you have made for a woman in the past, you cease being important or worthy of respect when you can't provide. Women's thought process is always "how are you useful to me now or in the future?".

That's why I can never make investment in a woman except my sister. I can never train the woman I want to marry in school or help her further her education. If I am very rich and my in-laws ask me to help train their daughter in school, I would say "That is not my responsibility. I came to pick a wife and a woman does not need a degree to be a wife. If her parents can't train her, then she gets no training. It not my responsibility to train her in school". Though I don't play to marry or have kids, I am using the above as an example.

emmaodet:


hmmmmmmmmmmm.
It is well. i think humans generally are ungrateful.
That is why i have laid out a One Man Mopol plan for myself.
Now thinks are sweet and lovey dovey, if things go south and my wife starts misbehaving, na to pack and relocate jeje be that.
i can't come and kill myself and i don't have any high expectations from humans so won;t really get hurt.
Though am not a red pill man but a purple pill man so i go into relationship or marriage with my eye wild open and not carried away.

Akanoaaa:
Make I invest in her make another guy go withdraw my profit? Edakun I no do.

lavylilly:
Invest in your woman!
There is no beautiful garden without a committed gardener. The reason why she is beginning to look less attractive to you is because you're allowing the weeds outgrow her roses. Pluck them off and see if she won't match up to the other women you're admiring.

Don't be quiet when she's carrying her hair undone for weeks. It should bother you if she's been wearing those same torn shoes for months, when she visits you in those shoes uncle how do you feel escorting her to the bus? Stop by the store if she's not smelling nice, the Nivea roll-on and body spray package is not more than two thousand naira, and encourage her to be spraying it fuuufuuufuuu with the fear of God so that it will last.

Teach her to be diligent and honest.
Teach her the principles of purpose discovery.
Teach her about investment and saving.
Teach her the importance of walking with God.
Help her develop a new skill.
Give her a helping hands when she is weary.
Not just to be doing boo and bae everywhere.
And disturbing everyone
Chinny Nwafor