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Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by noatak: 9:00pm On Dec 01, 2019
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Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by BigDick70inch(m): 9:08pm On Dec 01, 2019
Pick yo mobile phone and call him..
Not all guys enjoy calling Oo..
Me inclusive..my ex moved on cos she thought I wasnt into her and perhaps there was another girl somewhere gaining my attention..
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Phenomenal16(f): 9:09pm On Dec 01, 2019
Playstation1:
If U Never Still Call That Boy Up Till Now Since Wen U Open This Thread, Then There Is Bone In Ur Brain.
...honestly I don't av airtym.....u won't understand.... No data as well....
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Phenomenal16(f): 9:10pm On Dec 01, 2019
BigDick70inch:
Pick yo mobile phone and call him..
Not all guys enjoy calling Oo..
Me inclusive..my ex moved on cos she thought I wasnt into her and perhaps there was another girl somewhere gaining my attention..
...he wasn't like this bf...like he calls me very well.... May be he's feed up
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Phenomenal16(f): 9:13pm On Dec 01, 2019
Updates!!!
I sent a text msg yesterday... He called and I wasnt wit my phone...
I told him to send a feedback msg ..but he didn't ...this my thread is a kind of funny...but am surely using it to ease off tension...
Did u guys read abt the dream part?
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Phenomenal16(f): 9:14pm On Dec 01, 2019
BigDick70inch:
Pick yo mobile phone and call him..
Not all guys enjoy calling Oo..
Me inclusive..my ex moved on cos she thought I wasnt into her and perhaps there was another girl somewhere gaining my attention..
.we love attention
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Phenomenal16(f): 9:15pm On Dec 01, 2019
I will drop any oda update
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by chinedumc91: 9:36pm On Dec 01, 2019
Phenomenal16:
I will drop any oda update
. hmm
look at the way u are dropping everything online.
no secrecy. this is a sign of desperation.I pray never to meet ur type.
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by ambassadorgozie(m): 9:39pm On Dec 01, 2019
Phenomenal16:
I will drop any oda update

babe see u have to call him, is not a must guys should be d one calling.
I am facing d same issue in my relationship now though is a new relationship. I noticed i have been d one calling always, she has not called or heard from me since i decided not to call her.
I can send u airtime nd data if u really want to call him, communication is d key
great regards

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Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Phenomenal16(f): 10:04pm On Dec 01, 2019
chinedumc91:
. hmm
look at the way u are dropping everything online.
no secrecy. this is a sign of desperation.I pray never to meet ur type.
..OK seen...
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Phenomenal16(f): 10:06pm On Dec 01, 2019
chinedumc91:
. hmm
look at the way u are dropping everything online.
no secrecy. this is a sign of desperation.I pray never to meet ur type.
desperate for what
Am dropping things here cos I don't wanna cheat u grab?
A one or two advice might be helpful .......
If I wanted to cheat I will do so..
I just wanted to know my stand
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Phenomenal16(f): 10:08pm On Dec 01, 2019
ambassadorgozie:


babe see u have to call him, is not a must guys should be d one calling.
I am facing d same issue in my relationship now though is a new relationship. I noticed i have been d one calling always, she has not called or heard from me since i decided not to call her.
I can send u airtime nd data if u really want to call him, communication is d key
great regards
...thnk u.....my sis just flashed him ..but he isn't picking or Calling back though......
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Phenomenal16(f): 10:19pm On Dec 01, 2019
ambassadorgozie:


babe see u have to call him, is not a must guys should be d one calling.
I am facing d same issue in my relationship now though is a new relationship. I noticed i have been d one calling always, she has not called or heard from me since i decided not to call her.
I can send u airtime nd data if u really want to call him, communication is d key
great regards
O seven 0 sixty seven ,17,fourteen, zero nine.....I feel I might deactivate wen am done wit this thread
Transfer will be appreciated ..I av full memory can't receive msg..transfer pls.. Full memory
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Maduawuchukwu(m): 10:42pm On Dec 01, 2019
Phenomenal16:
O seven 0 sixty seven ,17,fourteen, zero nine.....I feel I might deactivate wen am done wit this thread
Transfer will be appreciated ..I av full memory can't receive msg..transfer pls.. Full memory

No need to deactivate. There is no shame in pouring out your heart.

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Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Nobody: 12:09am On Dec 02, 2019
Phenomenal16:

.we love attention
Stop thinking you are the only ones who need attention, some guys do need same too.

I'm not that type Sha.
I hate excessive communication.

Secondly, try to call him. Don't allow whatever pride you have to ruin a potentially beautiful future with him.

Thirdly, your dream is just a dream. It is borne out of your state of mind and it's not good. Such will destroy your relationship.
I have a similar encounter with my African American ex. She will always give me bull crap dreams of me with someone else(all of them were wrong because I never even had any close female friend not to talk of intimate lady) until I told her I am not ready to be in a relationship with her anymore. I got tired of her mindset and she confessed that she normally have fear because she was afraid of losing me.
She lost me eventually because I wasn't ready to live my life true one insecured and overzealous lady.
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by MistadeRegal(m): 3:01am On Dec 02, 2019
Your dream already said it.
Don't rely on him.
He is seeing someone else.

That's how life is though...
What someone out there is praying for is what just got dropped by someone else.
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Hazardd(m): 3:51am On Dec 02, 2019
Phenomenal16:
..OK,,I will do that ...but I hope am not acting cheap
you are acting so cheap my dear pride....na this type the faint for some celebrities when they saw them
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Phenomenal16(f): 7:51am On Dec 02, 2019
Thank u all for ur contributions!
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Phenomenal16(f): 7:52am On Dec 02, 2019
Hazardd:
you are acting so cheap my dear pride....na this type the faint for some celebrities when they saw them
...okay!
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Phenomenal16(f): 7:54am On Dec 02, 2019
MistadeRegal:
Your dream already said it.
Don't rely on him.
He is seeing someone else.

That's how life is though...
What someone out there is praying for is what just got dropped by someone else.
.....I understand but if he's seeing sbdy else,,,he shld av told me at least and save me d stress.....
If I finally decided to call him ..I don't even know what to tell him.
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Deandean: 8:46am On Dec 02, 2019
Phenomenal16:
...u made a point especially no 2 ...because I don't demand ....he was even praising me for that ...I come dey feel myself..
Foolish me
I feel like crying a river right now

Lolll..dm me can guide u on how to handle a real nigga....ul pay me grin
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by MistadeRegal(m): 10:31am On Dec 02, 2019
Phenomenal16:
.....I understand but if he's seeing sbdy else,,,he shld av told me at least and save me d stress.....
If I finally decided to call him ..I don't even know what to tell him.

Let go and move on.
You'd find someone else who will value you.
Don't hurt yourself... OK...?
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Phenomenal16(f): 12:31pm On Dec 02, 2019
I decided to call him today. ,,,,he sounded so casual.....
So I av decided not to call him again ...unless he calls me.
I noticed a change in his voice.......
At least I av called him.
If he calls I will pick but I won't call him again.
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Phenomenal16(f): 12:31pm On Dec 02, 2019
He didn't even talk abt not Calling for sometime...I wish him luck
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Phenomenal16(f): 12:32pm On Dec 02, 2019
MistadeRegal:


Let go and move on.
You'd find someone else who will value you.
Don't hurt yourself... OK...?
...I av called.....I av decided to move on......thank u for ur contributions
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Stevengerd(m): 1:03pm On Dec 02, 2019
Phenomenal16:
.....is not by forming miseducation... He's keeping me in suspense..... And I don't wanna cheat....
Good luck to ur too
Kindly follow someone that won't keep u in suspense.

I' m readily Available...
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by olatunyemi(m): 1:05pm On Dec 02, 2019
Homeboiy:
I don't know for him

But I don't usually call when am in a relationship except u flash me

I have 3,566# airtime on my phone now and I don't want to call anyone except the person flash me.

Swallow your pride and call him

Maybe he's in police custody or he's phone has lost
Today, I found someone like me, I think mine is worse sef. it's recently I tried to adjust to be calling parents at least once in a week. All my ex's left because of call. Only my current girl understand that
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by noCAP(m): 1:27pm On Dec 02, 2019
olatunyemi:

Today, I found someone like me, I think mine is worse sef. it's recently I tried to adjust to be calling parents at least once in a week. All my ex's left because of call. Only my current girl understand that
I swear mehn. like, what's with these girls and calling? if i miss a girl, we'll arrange for a meet up. I would rather text than call
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by MistadeRegal(m): 4:50pm On Dec 02, 2019
Phenomenal16:
...I av called.....I av decided to move on......thank u for ur contributions

What was has reaction when you called?

I've read it.
That's sad though.
But it is well.
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by MistadeRegal(m): 5:01pm On Dec 02, 2019
Phenomenal16:
...I av called.....I av decided to move on......thank u for ur contributions

I'll suggest you take a break for a week because this is an unexpected heartbreak.
Then, I'll advise you do not put too much trust on any man for now unless you're sure and convinced he is really into you as you are.

Whoever the man that comes your way, before handing your heart/love over to him, make an inquiry. This will save you another stress or trauma of heartbreak. I will share with you here my way of making inquiry.

And here it is:
Before you go to sleep at night, follow this process,
1. Sing three songs of praise unto GOD.
2. Offer prayers of thanks.
3. Pray for forgiveness of sin. (Psalm 130 & 51)
4. Read and recite Psalm 31:1-3.
5. Then go straight to the point, "Heavenly FATHER, you GOD that sees in secret and in the open, you GOD that knows all secrets and all hidden things, you are the LORD. Now O LORD GOD of heaven and earth, there is something that is hidden from me but open to you and because you know all things, that is why I have come to you only to inquire from you. There are these men (mention their names) who wants to marry me. And I don't want to make mistake in choosing the wrong one. LORD I beseech you, tell me the one that is rightfully mine among them. The one that I will have peace of mind and joy and happiness and love and progress throughout my life of staying with him.
6. Thank you for answering me. In JESUS CHRIST Mighty name I pray.
Amen.

Finish.

Making inquiry of GOD has always been the best way of knowing and finding the right partner.
Looks can be deceiving.
Words and promises can be broken.
But whoever GOD confirms is the best choice always without regrets even though, normally, there are bound to be misunderstandings as humans, but there will always be a peaceful reconciliation and not separation nor extremism.

Keep and save yourself off unnecessary heartbreaks.
INQUIRE OF GOD ABOUT THAT PARTNER.

GOD bless and comfort you.
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by zackon(m): 5:42pm On Dec 02, 2019
Phenomenal16:
Updates!!!...OK I had series of dreams
1.he refused to hold my hand in one of d dreams..
2.he left me and was seeing anoda gal
.....this dreams r real...but then I don't if am over thinking lol..
Just felt like sharing...
. Hi concerning your dreams. I suggest you read one of ubunja miseducation,,,, titled ( in gut we trust) ,I hope you find your answers their. and learn one or two things from it..
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Homeboiy: 5:59pm On Dec 02, 2019
olatunyemi:

Today, I found someone like me, I think mine is worse sef. it's recently I tried to adjust to be calling parents at least once in a week. All my ex's left because of call. Only my current girl understand that

I let any girl I'm going into a relationship with know that

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