LOL. I know I sent you a message on messenger.  I will send you an email then. Gosh! 

LMFAO! you put your email in the YIM section. Stop trying to play me

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My bad,
Sent you a reply

Did you get it!!!

sure did

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Nice 2 meet you

Mz Light skin!!

Your partner wont give you sex because you say no to a request she made. I mean, she manipulates you with sex all the time.

guys/girls if any of this is happening to you in yr relationship - you need to chill:


jealousy or possessiveness towards you.
(Jealousy is the primary symptom of abusive relationships; it is also a core component of Sexual Addictions and Love Addiction.)
Tries to control you by being very bossy or demanding.
Tries to isolate you by demanding you cut off social contacts and friendships.
Is violent and / or loses his or her temper quickly.
Pressures you sexually, demands sexual activities you are not comfortable with.
Abuses drugs or alcohol.
Claims you are responsible for his or her emotional state. (This is a core diagnostic criteria for Codependency.)
Blames you when he or she mistreats you.
Has a history of bad relationships.
Your family and friends have warned you about the person or told you that they are concerned for your safety or emotional well being.
You frequently worry about how he or she will react to things you say or do.
Makes "jokes" that shame, humiliate, demean or embarrass you, whether privately or around family and friends.
Your partner grew up witnessing an abusive parental relationship, and/or was abused as a child.
Your partner "rages" when they feel hurt, shame, fear or loss of control.
Both parties in abusive relationships may develop or progress in drug or alcohol dependence in a (dysfunctional) attempt to cope with the pain.
You leave and then return to your partner repeatedly, against the advice of your friends, family and loved ones.
You have trouble ending the relationship, even though you know inside it's the right thing to do.

personality traits of people who tend to be on the receiving end of abusers:

Intense need for love and affection. (See Love Addiction)
Low self esteem. (Belief that they can't have / don't deserve better treatment.)
Drug or Alcohol Dependence.
A background involving physical, emotional or sexual abuse.
ACOA issues (Adult Children of alcoholics / addicts.)
Codependent personality disorder and / or Love addiction.
Enforced isolation creating resentment.
Strong need for a relationship to validate them.
Gain a sense of worth by care taking the abuser.
Inability to set and enforce interpersonal boundaries.
Difficulty expressing anger, tendency to internalize it, act it out in other ways.
Loyalty to the abuser takes precedence over emotional or physical safety.
Belief that "it will change if I just try harder."
Repeated attempts to leave the relationship.
Inability to follow through with leaving - return to the abuser again and again. 
Clinical depression, self - medication.
Suicide attempts. 

personality traits of abusers:

[b]Uncontrolled temper.
Extreme Jealousy. (See Love Addiction.)
Intense fear of abandonment. 
A background involving physical, emotional or sexual abuse, abandonment, ACOA issues.
Unrealistic expectations of a relationship. (To "fix" them or solve their problems.)
Isolation and antisocial temperament. 
Recklessness. (dangerous sexual behavior, reckless driving, drug use etc.)
Inability to accept responsibility for their behavior and actions, even in the face of dire consequences.
Cruelty to children / animals.
Threats of violence.
Low self-esteem, shame. 
Codependent personality disorder and / or Love addiction.
Inability to respect interpersonal boundaries, a compulsion to violate boundaries.
Drug or Alcohol Dependence, self medication.
Emotional volatitily -  fear of being "out  of control".
Need for power and control to compensate for the above.
Bipolar disorder and / or Borderline Personality Disorder.
Abuse generally escalates when the partner leaves.[/b]

@190 MzLightSkin? ? ? Ewww what an insult! , never that! Dark and Lovely strictly!

• You are feeling controlled by your partner – they may be reading your mail and texts and checking up on yousigns of an abusive relationship

I DISAGREE WITH THE ABOVE. THERE IS NO HARM READING YOUR PARTNERS MAIL. IF YOU ARE NOT TRYING TO BE DODGY WHY BOTHER ABOUT YOUR PARTNER READING YOUR MAILS . AS LONG AS YOUR HANDS ARE CLEAN, IT SHOULDN'T BE ANY WORRY.

SECONDLY THERE IS NO HARM IN MY PARTNER PUTTING ON WHAT I ADMIRE ON OTHER LADIES. FOR EXAMPLE I LIKE MY GIRLFRIEND LOOKING SPORTY. I ADMIRE IT ON OTHER LADIES AND I GET A SET OF JEANS AND NICE T-SHIRTS A PAIR OF SPORT FOOT WEAR. SHE WEARS IT AND IAM PLEASED. YOU CALL THAT ABUSIVE. NO NO NO. EVEN WITHOUT IT I LOVE HER SO THERE IS NOTHING CLOSE TO ABUSIVE IN THIS SCENARIO.

scared away your family member all in the name of protecting the kids and financial state of the family
decide when to have sex even when you are not in the mood

some relationships are abusive but not all, i'll give it 50%-50%,
You know birds of the same feather flock together!