AdedoyinO:


Are you actually female? Have you been pregnant before? So you don't know pregnancy age is calculated starting from your last menstrual period LMP, i.e 2 weeks plus when the actual conception could have likely taken place. That's is why you will be asked in the hospital the last time you saw your menses.

So please do some reading (Google is your friend) and come back to edit this ignoramus epistle you have written. This should not be coming from a lady except you are not one.

RonaldoVido:


[s]How many places have you worked with your A1 ?

I'm sure the simpleton who registered a new monicker to rant about finding a man in lekki is you.

Keep searching...

Poverty alleviating relationship seekers[/s].

Homguy:

I am a Pharmacist, and would want to shed some light on this.
Firstly, if you calculate that its four weeks ago you had sex with her, and scan results say it's six weeks,
The scan result is most definitely right as you are likely the father of the child.
A scan result does not actually know the actual date you had sex with her, so the age of the pregnancy starts from the first day of her last menstrual period till the day you took the test. So it's very possible that it's going to be about 2 weeks ago plus the date you had sex with her.

To confirm, get her to tell you the date she had her last menstrual cycle and calculate from there, it should tally with scan results.
Don't be quick to send her away, she is most likely carrying your child especially if she does not come across as a wayward lady.

2. The drug that doctor gave her was misoprostol. I believe you most likely saw a quack because misoprostol is an abortifacient. What you should have been given is an emergency contraceptive and they are plenty in the market for you to buy yourself. If misoprostol did make her bleed, there are two possibilities, she was close to her period or she was already pregnant.
I would like to ask, how long did the bleeding last? If it was slight bleeding or spotting and only for a very short time,
She was most definitely pregnant before coming to see you. But if the bleeding was heavy and was for a while you are most likely the father.

Do you think she's a lose lady? Try to track any conversations with guys on her platforms, I used to hack my Ex's what'sapp chat through whatsapp web, and I learnt a lot.
Be very smart. Everything is a probability.
All the best.

Ghostfaze:
Kindly approve to the homepage, mods.


Hello everyone.
I have an unusual issue at hand and it's really giving me a headache.

I have a girlfriend I met in August this year when I traveled to my state from Abuja. She's beautiful, a graduate, and she's everything I have ever wished to have in a woman or so I once believed.

I loved her and our relationship was going to lead to marriage.

After we met in August I traveled back to Abuja and a few months later her NYSC call up came. She told me about it and we planned that she will serve in Abuja. I paid one NYSC man to work her posting but unfortunately, she was posted to another Northern state.

On her way to the state where she was posted she stopped over at my place in Abuja on the 3rd of November, That night we had sex without a condom and after the sex, I gave her a pregnancy prevention drug tablet I had collected from a doctor.

She refused to take the drugs not until after much persuasions. The next morning, some thick blood mixed with water started coming out of her and she was also having stomach pains so I called the doctor that gave me the drugs and he said we should come to his hospital.

We got to the hospital and after explaining to him what happened the doctor said she was already pregnant before taking the drugs that's why her body reacted that way to the drugs.

She denied that she's pregnant and eventually she had to undergo a pregnancy scan. The result came out negative but the doctor kept on insisting that she was pregnant and that the reason why the result came out negative is because of the drugs she took and how young the pregnancy is.

She left for home angrily that day and I had to beg her to forget whatever it is that happened.

A few days later she left for NYSC camp in the state where she was posted. After two weeks she started complaining to me that she's been feeling cold, hungry, and sleepy often than she used to.

I told her that it could be because of the change of weather and the approaching harmattan season. While she was in camp I was working for her to be reposted back to Abuja and somehow she didn't want to serve in Abuja again. She wasn't really open to me about that but she was subtly letting me know of her desires.

Finally, her reposting worked out and she came down to Abuja three days ago. Today she told me that she wants to go for a pregnancy test and I obliged and escorted her to another hospital different from the one we previously went to the first time she came to Abuja.

After the test and scan, the result said she's 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant. We went to another hospital and the result came out the same.

Remember that I first had sex with her on the 3rd of November. Tomorrow will make it a month I had sex with her but she's already 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant.

I could not understand why she should be 6 weeks pregnant when it's not been up to 4 weeks I had sex with her. I have asked her to tell me if she slept with someone else earlier before she came to Abuja but she has maintained that she did not.

I have equally asked the two doctors we met today plus a few other doctors I spoke with on the phone if they think that I'm responsible for the pregnancy but their answers are all contradicting.

Now I'm confused. She's in my house, with a child I'm certain does not belong to me. I don't know what to do. I'm really really confused. Please, any mature advice would be gladly appreciated.

Thank you!

Shygirl1989:



Finally, someone that went to school.
Its sad that over hundred comments and none of them know that pregnancy is calculated from the date of your last period not the day you had sex.
Morning after pills are not abortants,its possible that the blood that came out after taking the pills was as a result of implantation. Lots of women bleed during implantation.

Except the girl had sex with two men within her fertile period,the poster is most likely the father of the child. A DNA would prove that.

Ebenezar2020:
hi dear why are you shy even at 31 years of age

Shygirl1989:

I dunno o..........just shy like that.

Ebenezar2020:
same here dear.
how about a pm?

Ghostfaze:
Kindly approve to the homepage, mods.


Hello everyone.
I have an unusual issue at hand and it's really giving me a headache.

I have a girlfriend I met in August this year when I traveled to my state from Abuja. She's beautiful, a graduate, and she's everything I have ever wished to have in a woman or so I once believed.

I loved her and our relationship was going to lead to marriage.

After we met in August I traveled back to Abuja and a few months later her NYSC call up came. She told me about it and we planned that she will serve in Abuja. I paid one NYSC man to work her posting but unfortunately, she was posted to another Northern state.

On her way to the state where she was posted she stopped over at my place in Abuja on the 3rd of November, That night we had sex without a condom and after the sex, I gave her a pregnancy prevention drug tablet I had collected from a doctor.

She refused to take the drugs not until after much persuasions. The next morning, some thick blood mixed with water started coming out of her and she was also having stomach pains so I called the doctor that gave me the drugs and he said we should come to his hospital.

We got to the hospital and after explaining to him what happened the doctor said she was already pregnant before taking the drugs that's why her body reacted that way to the drugs.

She denied that she's pregnant and eventually she had to undergo a pregnancy scan. The result came out negative but the doctor kept on insisting that she was pregnant and that the reason why the result came out negative is because of the drugs she took and how young the pregnancy is.

She left for home angrily that day and I had to beg her to forget whatever it is that happened.

A few days later she left for NYSC camp in the state where she was posted. After two weeks she started complaining to me that she's been feeling cold, hungry, and sleepy often than she used to.

I told her that it could be because of the change of weather and the approaching harmattan season. While she was in camp I was working for her to be reposted back to Abuja and somehow she didn't want to serve in Abuja again. She wasn't really open to me about that but she was subtly letting me know of her desires.

Finally, her reposting worked out and she came down to Abuja three days ago. Today she told me that she wants to go for a pregnancy test and I obliged and escorted her to another hospital different from the one we previously went to the first time she came to Abuja.

After the test and scan, the result said she's 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant. We went to another hospital and the result came out the same.

Remember that I first had sex with her on the 3rd of November. Tomorrow will make it a month I had sex with her but she's already 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant.

I could not understand why she should be 6 weeks pregnant when it's not been up to 4 weeks I had sex with her. I have asked her to tell me if she slept with someone else earlier before she came to Abuja but she has maintained that she did not.

I have equally asked the two doctors we met today plus a few other doctors I spoke with on the phone if they think that I'm responsible for the pregnancy but their answers are all contradicting.

Now I'm confused. She's in my house, with a child I'm certain does not belong to me. I don't know what to do. I'm really really confused. Please, any mature advice would be gladly appreciated.

Thank you!

Ebenezar2020:
same here dear.
how about a pm?