Midas01:
If. Man made that statement would you have this senseless comment?

Kennedyiheme:
l my point is they still run back to yet another man

merahki:



The sexual urge is a primal instinct, a need for human beings and animals, like eating and sleeping. Marriage is not
I hope you know this as you make your digs at your Miss Independent?
Do you want her not be having sex? Why? Cos it makes you feel better to imagine her rich but sexually starved? One can be rich and be getting quality sex, okay?
Some single rich women get more sex (wild and fulfilling) than some married women. Do you not know this?

DCmonster:
Take a look at the bolded above, then go back to her statement of working 60-80 hrs weekly. How does that correlate? That's if you can read and understand. She is saying she works 60-80 hrs week in, week out and you are here giving an example you working closely related hours sometimes. We are talking about regular work hrs of 60-80hrs weekly.

Midas01:
Who ask you for your own comment,
mumu.

SBL28:


Before jumping, Go back and read again slowly, where did I condemn her in any way?

Midas01:
[s]Mumu, she's not boasting. She belongs to "money Twitter", and such is the norm there. You on the other hand should get some sense[/s].

Midas01:
Judging 3.5 billion women because of the opinion of one woman. How sensible is that?

Beverlyjean:


Alot of people that commited suicide made people Ard them believe that they were happy ... I am a woman like u , but I hv decided to face the realities of life ... I used to live in denial like most women do , but i knew I wasn't happy cos I was only living a life of make belief ... It's time women start to tell themselves the truth of life realities ... Money is never happiness , that's a poor man's mentality ... Happiness is real family ... Having a husband that's loving with healthy kids is the best life can offer even if u can't afford a mercedes ... Or u think Genevieve and Linda are fulfilled ... Even men can b happy if they hv all the money in the world and no family to enjoy the wealth with ... Some occultic men that hv so much money have been told never to hv a family , and that's the price they hv to pay for wealth ... Do u think they are happy... They can only pretend to b happy ... Money without family is crap...anyone that tells u that they are happy is lying ... I hv an aunty that stays in ikoyi at Osborne ( her own house) drives the latest Benz and BMW ....she travels to different countries monthly but she keeps on telling my mum how sad she is that she doesn't hv a family ... She acts like she is very happy towards friends and colleagues , but we in the family know how she feels ...

SBL28:


I don't understand why you people are misunderstanding my comment. I'm saying she has everything she wants. That even though she's not married, She can afford whatever she wants and she probably has a healthy sex life, what else does she need?

partnerbizn4:


lol

She is happy?

cos she is smiling?

Beverlyjean:


Alot of people that commited suicide made people Ard them believe that they were happy... Money is never happiness , that's a poor man's mentality ... Happiness is real family ... Having a husband that's loving with healthy kids is the best life can offer even if u can't afford a mercedes ...

izzou:
That's one fact about life almost everyone doesn't understand

People have their choices and priorities in life.

She wanted a career, not marriage. And she's happy about it. Everyone has their own definition and version of happiness

So no need to remind her about menopause. She wasn't interested from the beginning

izzou:


She's happy because she said she's happy

Why should I believe she's unhappy? Because you said so?

SBL28:


I don't understand why you people are misunderstanding my comment. I'm saying she has everything she wants. That even though she's not married, She can afford whatever she wants and she probably has a healthy sex life, what else does she need?

merahki:



Can I buy you a drink?

merahki:


Okay, can you I buy you a drink and another drink?
Cool guy

sassysure:

U belittled her.
And your post reeks of jealousy.
Next time, learn how to construct your sentence properly to avoid misunderstanding.
All the people that liked your post are male.
A woman running down a fellow woman gives them erection

merahki:



I now realise we are basically saying the same thing
I thought the independent bit was a dig at her somehow
My bad/ I am sorry

izzou:
That's one fact about life almost everyone doesn't understand

People have their choices and priorities in life.

She wanted a career, not marriage. And she's happy about it. Everyone has their own definition and version of happiness

So no need to remind her about menopause. She wasn't interested from the beginning

cococandy:
How did you determine she didn’t want marriage?

Nothing in her post said anything about not being married

izzou:


I know

That was the assumption that was going to flood here. And that was why I typed that

Beverlyjean:


Alot of people that commited suicide made people Ard them believe that they were happy ... I am a woman like u , but I hv decided to face the realities of life ... I used to live in denial like most women do , but i knew I wasn't happy cos I was only living a life of make belief ... It's time women start to tell themselves the truth of life realities ... Money is never happiness , that's a poor man's mentality ... Happiness is real family ... Having a husband that's loving with healthy kids is the best life can offer even if u can't afford a mercedes ... Or u think Genevieve and Linda are fulfilled ... Even men can b happy if they hv all the money in the world and no family to enjoy the wealth with ... Some occultic men that hv so much money have been told never to hv a family , and that's the price they hv to pay for wealth ... Do u think they are happy... They can only pretend to b happy ... Money without family is crap...anyone that tells u that they are happy is lying ... I hv an aunty that stays in ikoyi at Osborne ( her own house) drives the latest Benz and BMW ....she travels to different countries monthly but she keeps on telling my mum how sad she is that she doesn't hv a family ... She acts like she is very happy towards friends and colleagues , but we in the family know how she feels ...

cococandy:


Okay. well you’re right about the assumption part

SBL28:


The definition of happiness is relative please. The fact that those things are important to you does not mean they are for everybody. Some people do not want to get married or have kids, they are not in denial, rather they have decided to own their truth.
Some are okay with havinv an exclusive relationship with someone without the "marriage" tag. Many of them even last longer than actual marriages. People need to stop assuming that every single person is unhappy.

cao:
Izzou, I owe you a crate/carton of your favourite beverage.

monex:


I honestly cannot understand this. Marriage is my own ultimate goal but i would absolutely understand if it wasn't same for another person

monex:
there is nothing in her post to suggest she sacrificed marriage or that she is currently single.

She claims she sacrificed her 20s. Those bribing up the "Marriage vs Career" balancing question have made assumptions about her that are not in her post.