cococandy:
All these “new handle, tells story, deactivate handle“.
Sigh.
I may not be too off if I guess the poster isn’t even married at all or might even be a boy.
Always looking for reactions from posters.

Anyway each message posted here was valid so I guess real folks with real issues can draw from it if they may.

Of course most stories here are fake but we navigate and learn from them.

No I'm not...I even try to help out at home with my own little money.. I'm the only daughter of my parents and I have 6 brothers so they opened a business for me after I got married, [b]he is unemployed [/b]but he trys to hustle like every other man

My dear. Sorry ehnnn. You've really tried your best but its a pity u fell into the wrong hands. Later on , we men will call ladies gold digger . imagine what these lady is pass through in the hands of that boy wey call himself man . she's ready to assist and do everything possible to make the family workout but alas , the guy dey showcase van dam skill on an harmless woman .Just continue praying for him. These is one of the reason why a lady will never settle for less .
To all nairalnad ladies, make una no use the one case judge o. Good guys are out there hustling nd doing cool in there own little way.

@op, try as much as possible to avoid any altercation from him, to protect your unborn baby please, you and your baby should be your number one priority... There is nothing as painful as having a miscarriage as a result of physical abuse... Na beg i dey beg

Prec1ous:


Yes, people abuse others because they go through stuffs. Policemen, Sars, bully, serial killers, robbers, envious people... The lists goes on.

So stop acting like it is news.

Physical violence is bad and I do not support it.

But we are trying to find the cause of the issue in this woman's household.

This is why I say this woman has not completely and explicitly expressed the true situation in her post.

There is a way she Is acting or reacting to him that is making him beastly. She is the only on who can answer this. But I am certain on one thing, she is not being helpful to the man's plight and he is doing the only thing he knows, violence.

There is a reason for every actions. People don't just snap!

you made a whole lot of sense here bro, I don't support domestic violence and wife battering, but something keep telling me that this woman is hidding some issues just to gain more sympathy.

85percent of women who falls victims to domestic violence are those who uses their mouth badly on their husband, evidence indicate that this woman is being disrespectful to her husband in some ways, she even stated it that the man claimed that she is being disrespectful, what does a disrespectful woman expect from a man with uncontrollably temper.

She also said that the man was not like that before meaning something must have triggered the sudden change and beatings, men don't like when a woman uses her mouth to rubbish him same way women don't like it when a man raises his hands on her.

bukatyne:


Your husband hurts you anytime you try to apologize to him.

Apologize for what exactly?



This is interesting especially the bolded



So your husband of 6yrs suddenly thinks you are not making your marriage work anymore.

Madam, tell us the full story if you genuinely want an holistic advice.

I go continue to dey talk am anytime I see your post, you don't support nonsense, let her tell us the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth.

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Yi hakuri ma'am professor.
I didn't see that...before I asked my question.

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Update please.
How are you now?

No I'm not...I even try to help out at home with my own little money.. I'm the only daughter of my parents and I have 6 brothers so they opened a business for me after I got married, he is unemployed but he trys to hustle like every other man

You have 6 brothers ,your husband is unemployed and abusive and threatens to get another wife. With whose money?
Please have your brothers visit all at the same time for dinner with a couple of their friends.at least 10 total
After a good meal let your oldest brother speak some few words about the complaint they had from their only sister.
Then they should allow him speak.
After that your brother, the one wey no dey hear word should wrap it up and speak last
I promise you he will behave himself.At least he will never lay any finger on you again ever.

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