i just met this girl that i admire but the problem is that i don't know if i should ask her out
through text message or tell it to her face-i know say una go yab me & i no mind but can text still do the magic?

U be pikin?
What if she assumes/concludes your thoughtfull written txt was a forwarded one?
Don't be afraid of rejection. It will only make you stronger/better

jay bee:

U be pikin?

No

What if she assumes/concludes your thoughtfull written txt was a forwarded one?
Don't be afraid of rejection. It will only make you stronger/better

ok but my toasting line might as well be memorize
just thinking if text can still work

@poster
there will never be a better way to talk to someone than face to face.
if you are shy to do that then, via text msgs, you are just selling yourself as what you are not, pointless!

EFCC1:

No ok but my toasting line might as well be memorize
just thinking if text can still work

Yes they might be but i don't expect you to go with scripted lines. People don't toast these days.
You meet a girl, you chat about various things, laugh giggle with her, compliment her and she gets the signal.

Chei . . see all what they pass through

And they have the guts to call us the weaker sex!

Guy, go to her wit one mind jare!

Ujujoan:

Chei . .  see all what they pass through    

And they have the guts to call us the weaker sex!

Rejoice not yet madam  
am just looking for fast method that will work on you girls

EFCC1:

Rejoice not yet madam
am just looking for fast method that will work on you girls

Yea, I know . . . and it's rocket science! ROTFLMAO

190:

talk and text and talk and text again!!

benz  190 y d anga? i wan len 4rom d prof na

@ujujoan so can u update me on any method that will work on you

I know different people have different personalities. BUT, a girl will definately run out of confidence when you gather the courage to have a direct face to face talk. % failure will be smaller.

EFCC1:

@ujujoan so can u update me on any method that will work on you

I would, but I doubt if you can afford it!

call her

Ujujoan:

I would, but I doubt if you can afford it!   

[img]http://www.easyfreesmileys.com/smileys/thinking-023.GIF[/img]sure? oya name your price

MRbrownJAY:

@poster
there will never be a better way to talk to someone than face to face.
if you are shy to do that then, via text msgs, you are just selling yourself as what you are not, pointless!

OK. you know guys & girls view things differently

Ask her mama ''Mumm'' to help u telling her
I'm sure u be pikin

Do anyone jare. Wetin go be, go be.

Ogbeni go and talk to her jor,try being friends wiv her first.

jay bee:

Yes they might be but i don't expect you to go with scripted lines. People don't toast these days.
You meet a girl, you chat about various things, laugh giggle with her, compliment her and she gets the signal.

exactly , thats what i thought it should be these days but i keep running into old fashioned ones who still expect the old way of doing things, i don weak sef.

@EFCC1, at least you got the resources (money and time) that you want to devote to this lady, nothing beats a bold and courageous face to face request for an outing, subsequent ones can be texted, arm your self with some humor sense too, revert with feedback ASAP

D-sense:

Ask her mama ''Mumm'' to help u telling her
I'm sure u be pikin

u wan send me to early grave  

Do watever you like== no even toast the babe be a gentle man== every meat no be for chop

after a little flirting-she gave me a peck yesterday

EFCC1:

after a little flirting-she gave me a peck yesterday

Did you reciprocate the gesture too?

osama binladin.lol using 4one now, wil ripli u 2moro
@mrs 190 we go rapport 2moro

EFCC1:

osama binladin.lol using 4one now, wil ripli u 2moro
@mrs 190 we go rapport 2moro

Am right here.

buy her black berry!

It's obvious that she likes u but u don't just want to stay 'good friends' so get a nice secluded comfortable place for ur nxt date and go for the kill (I mean kiss not peck o!) 

Man up and call the broad. If she rejects you so what, there are other crayfishes in the sea and you should always have backups anyway.