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Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Graxie(f): 12:33pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
KanuSE:super story 3 Likes |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by IceColdVeins(m): 12:33pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
This right here is exactly the point. Life is unfair you know? You earn my RESPECT!! ibkayee: 2 Likes
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Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by BRATISLAVA: 12:33pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
JONNYSPUTE:you are truly the peacemaker. |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by ibkayee(f): 12:34pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
IceColdVeins:Yup 1 Like |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Ladycewhy(f): 12:35pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
JONNYSPUTE:The op was corny for that. He painted a wrong narrative of how he apologized to his deadbeat dad and i can understand the reason people made the comments they made in the first two pages . What came to my mind when i first read his comments was oh ,his father is rich now he is the one going to apologize to his rich dead beat father. But now we know why, the op is just late to the party,all his other siblings have dine that even his mum and dad now live together. Very interesting. 1 Like |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by KanuSE: 12:35pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Graxie: You need a remarkable date... seriously! |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by IceColdVeins(m): 12:36pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
lol you are my buddy oooo, its by force..Not deliberately though. Ladycewhy: |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Nobody: 12:36pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Ladycewhy(f): 12:36pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Ryan03:i just tire for the guy, giving half stories here and there. 4 Likes |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by abimbola74(m): 12:37pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
BRATISLAVA:Are you saying you've been perfect all your life ? We all deserve a second chance. Let's just enjoy every moment of our life and take every burden off our mind . We should learn to forgive and forget and move on with our lives. Life is too short to be bitter about the happenings of life . 2 Likes |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Ladycewhy(f): 12:38pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
IceColdVeins:see how you made people to be insulting themselves on this thread ,i dey vex for you o. If to say i nor do investigation now na so i for join ,becareful buddy |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by KanuSE: 12:39pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
BRATISLAVA: what about me? |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by IceColdVeins(m): 12:39pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
He did not apologise at all ooo Life is unfair you know. Ryan03: |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Lewandoski20(m): 12:40pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Romanoff: Are you sure your dad in the village can hold a phone up? 1 Like |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by BRATISLAVA: 12:40pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Omakraid:that info is new and was never in the original post. I guess it's been modified. And even then, we still haven't heard the crime guys mother committed that warranted the neglect 2 Likes |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by JONNYSPUTE(m): 12:41pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Ladycewhy:..Agreed But do you see anyone apologizing even when he or she is right as a wrong thing to do? I asked because I personally can still apologize to the person that wronged me. |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by midnighter(f): 12:41pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Ladycewhy: Thats why you should look before jumping into marriage issue At times the person you are fighting for is not complaining. If you dislike your father because of what he did to you and your mother no problem but dont fight on the womans behalf The bond between husband and wife is very strong to the point of making you forget whatever the person may have done to you. Thats the only way marriage even works sef, when two of you just dey do like mumu wey no remember anything At the end you as an outsider will be feeling like somebody lied to you 1 Like |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by BRATISLAVA: 12:41pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
KanuSE:you? |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by BRATISLAVA: 12:43pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
abimbola74:is this about perfection? Or it's about a guy who has a father who he said treated he and his mother badly? People depend too much on second chances, so they live their lives terribly and do wicked, stupid things just so that they will get the second chance. Many don't get it. So why not live right in the first instance? 4 Likes |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Ladycewhy(f): 12:46pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
midnighter:True i would rather let the kids feel the rejection themselves. My uncle was the one that pushed his kids away, they will go to him for school fees he will tell them to go to their mother, they will go for holiday, he will say nasty things to them and even about their mother ,till they stopped going to see him. So many things i dont want to touch on. My mum even had to take my cousin in take the load off their mother,she sef tire for her brother. Lol So its better the kids see the rejection themselves. 1 Like |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by KanuSE: 12:47pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
BRATISLAVA: One thing that bothers me is that expression 'Deadbeat', why coin such a word if people mean well. I think if they had the chance they prolly prefer the runaway dad dead. Wicked people everywhere. |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by JONNYSPUTE(m): 12:47pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
BRATISLAVA:.. Most times,I do apologise even if I'm right.Like there was a day I came back and noticed that my wife is not happy. I didn't bother to start asking what the problem was,I simply held her and said,i'm sorry for anything that might be the problem cause I believe as the keeper of the house,I should keep it in order.Does that make me weak ? No. Rather it shows maturity.Lets stop seeing people like that as fools. Note. Sometimes I do apologise to my staffs just to reassure them that we are one and equal. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by IceColdVeins(m): 12:49pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
No not like tha. I want peace doesnt mean all is well. midnighter: |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Ladycewhy(f): 12:50pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
JONNYSPUTE:This is not a matter of wrong or right,i find it very intriguing. I watched the video of the guy that hugged his brother's killer in court. I was intrigued. I have heard of stockholme syndrome who knows what we will call that part. I am more interested in finding out the psychological pathway behind it that if it is right or wrong. 1 Like |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by BRATISLAVA: 12:50pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
JONNYSPUTE:keep it up. It takes a lot to lead. And I mean true leadership. 1 Like |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by midnighter(f): 12:51pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Ladycewhy: Exactly, not the one the lady will stop them from going to see their dad "because I dont want him to poison you against me" If the fellow is really as useless as you think, let everybody see it for themselves. You cant shield a person all his life. At least a child must be curious about his parent Now your cousin can never blame your auntie for depriving her of her father so her conscience is clear 1 Like |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by oyebanji(m): 12:53pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Why would you, a child, get yourself involved in fights between your parents? |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by midnighter(f): 12:53pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
IceColdVeins: Yes dear, its not well but try not to implicate yourself so as not to appear as a troublemaker |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by JONNYSPUTE(m): 12:53pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Ladycewhy:.. Ok. Like me for example. I do it most times. I mean apologizing to the other party even if I'm right. I don't see anything there. Sometimes it's ego and pride that makes people see it as a special stuff. |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Ladycewhy(f): 12:54pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
midnighter:The first son that raised a cutlass on him while they were still kids because he was beating their mum has mended fences but they are just cool,na still all man for himself you know those kind of hi hello kind of relationship, but my cousin my mum raised that one nor wan hear o, still addresses him as old man. Lol |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Ladycewhy(f): 12:56pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
JONNYSPUTE:I see ,i need to learn this ,i can apologize when wrong, but not when i have been wronged ,i would rather tell you how you wronged me and tell you i forgive you instead of telling you to forgive me for wronging me. 1 Like |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Romanoff(f): 1:02pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Lewandoski20: Sadly, my dad died about 12 years ago. If your mum had known you'd be this daft, she for use you do menstruation instead of bringing you into this world to be this senseless. Talk about my dad one more time and watch me take you to the cleaners. Uduozuo. 2 Likes |
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