He asked me for what to do. he said should he tell his father? i am confused on the issue myself

this is sad and amazing!!
what kind of friend is that?
why did he do such a thing to u??

ohhhhhh dear, am sooooo sorry

But please dnt tell ur father, things might get worse.
if ur father divorces ur mother, u are the only cause, and any problem that may arise from that angle
also hangs on ur neck.

Please sit ur mother down and have a talk with her
get down deep into what made her do that, perhaps u might understand and sympathise with her.
but dnt tell ur father.

if ur mother is unfaithful (sorry for the word), let ur father finds out on his own
but the dnt be the deliverer of bad new (angel of doom)


Please ok

As the Good Book says, 'there's nutin new under the sun'! There's no point tellin his dad, it'll only make things worse. What to do? I have no idea.
Maybe seein a shrink would help.

My dear, please u have to weigh the problems that may arise:

1.  if your father is quick tempered, he might do somethin very stupid - hitting ur mother so hard that she might die

2.  if he is not all that fit, he might end up dying of heart attack

3. if divorce comes, he might stop taking care of u and ur sibblings

Darling pls consider all these ok

Dont Hate the Player hate the game,

your mum obviously is older and should know better, your friend (how old is he) should not have but truthfully is the betrayal worth the trust. who would you hold for this betrayal, ur mum or your friend, hard question.

i think u should keep it a secret for their sake and let them know it should happen again. your mother would die instead knowing you know but tellin your father would kill him.

mayb the mum knos something the son doesn't, i.e. daddy is probably having affairs too or maried 2 more than one wife, no excuse for it, but a possible explanation, there's usually more to these kind of stories

simple problem with simple solution


Let him allow the guy catch him too with his mother on his father's bed


Gbam!

he should talk to his mother. she is the one who ruined the realtionship by sleeping with the boy and the only one to blame for any results. again he should talk to her, tell he he know and she needs to do teh right thing and tell the father as well as break off all contact with the boy (have a talk with the boy). the father has every right to know and if the "wife" doesnt care enough to do so on her own then the son should tell him. the mothers secret is not worth the fathers health

ah!

efuah:


this is sad and amazing!!
what kind of friend is that?
why did he do such a thing to u??

ohhhhhh dear, am sooooo sorry

But please dnt tell your father, things might get worse.
if your father divorces your mother[b], u are the only cause[/b], and any problem that may arise from that angle
also hangs on your neck.

Please sit your mother down and have a talk with her
get down deep into what made her do that, perhaps u might understand and sympathise with her.
but dnt tell your father.

if your mother is unfaithful (sorry for the word), let your father finds out on his own
but the dnt be the deliverer of bad new (angel of doom)


Please ok

arrant nonsense. tell that your friend to inform his father asap! not only is she being unfaithful but she chose her sons friend!!

joobreel:

He asked me for what to do. he said should he tell his father? i am confused on the issue myself

Did you think you are dealing with fools here on NL.

How can this kind of lunaic story be real?.

Just tell the truth. Expose it so they can fix the problem.