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Re: Pastor Disrupts His Member’s Marriage Proposal by Nobody: 11:05pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
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Re: Pastor Disrupts His Member’s Marriage Proposal by AJohnnasa(m): 11:13pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
ngwababe: Sụwanụ bekee. |
Re: Pastor Disrupts His Member’s Marriage Proposal by lahizak: 11:15pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
jamesharryson:Mr. Keyboard warrior. Read again, the girl in question is d pastor's daughter. How can u propose to my daughter in my presence and i dont even know u? Where is that done? 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pastor Disrupts His Member’s Marriage Proposal by Phyde: 11:17pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Good for the guy, must you do this publicly? just because you wanna copy the unnecessary rubbish others are doing. 2 Likes |
Re: Pastor Disrupts His Member’s Marriage Proposal by ffo(m): 11:17pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
sassysure:Read the story not just the headline 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pastor Disrupts His Member’s Marriage Proposal by Rebuke: 11:19pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Some of yhu here know how to spew trash sha. Once it has anything to do wth men of God all yhu miscreants will jump at it. The man said he isn't aware of the relationship. Watch n listen again. If d young man hasn't spoken to the father of d girl officially or got him informed about his intention then he shouldn't have tried doing so in such a place. To me, that's kinda disrepectful. All yhu jobless Internet judges, how many of yhu would allow a man propose to yhur daughter in such a manner without yhur awareness of their relationship ? I am sure if the guy has a good relationship with the parent of the girl that wouldn't have happened. Yhu can't just show up from no where and propose to someone's daughter in that manner please. Let's tell ourselves the truth. 2 Likes |
Re: Pastor Disrupts His Member’s Marriage Proposal by udemzyudex(m): 11:22pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
1cor2v9: Lol. |
Re: Pastor Disrupts His Member’s Marriage Proposal by Dbarrzx: 11:24pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
chukwugoziegi:that was why i took my proposal to her room then in school...to avoid drama...because i might not survive this kind humiliation 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Disrupts His Member’s Marriage Proposal by Rebuke: 11:27pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
kingbasuraiii: Don't worry, when yhur daughter wants to get married she won't inform yhu.......or when a total stranger shows up in a public gathering to propose to yhur daughter just smile and clap for them....... 2 Likes |
Re: Pastor Disrupts His Member’s Marriage Proposal by Rebuke: 11:30pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
udemzyudex: Just listen to yhurself. So, that's how it's done in yhhr place? Meet a girl and propose to her without first getting to know or meet her parent... Where are some of yhu raised for petsake? 2 Likes |
Re: Pastor Disrupts His Member’s Marriage Proposal by Ashirioluwa: 11:40pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Made4NaijaM4N:Maybe because is not a rich guy |
Re: Pastor Disrupts His Member’s Marriage Proposal by mechanics(m): 11:49pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
tosyne2much:That's right. 2 Likes |
Re: Pastor Disrupts His Member’s Marriage Proposal by wisekings: 11:49pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
stupidity:hahahaha.... Nawa o... Dis one weak me |
Re: Pastor Disrupts His Member’s Marriage Proposal by xpool(m): 11:51pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
AdegbiteAdemola:This one no be pastor issue at all. The suitor is an idiot, serves him right. How can you do that? Its just like walking into a man's house and in his presence starts proposing to his daughter, without the man aware of any relationship. Too much addiction to social media go kill us one day. Its like he just did marriage introduction without the prior knowledge of the girls father. Proposal is supposed to be between man and woman, even if you want to trend, you don't do it in the presence of the father. The guy na the biggest Yuletide fool. If them do this shit to you popsy, you go like am. If I am the pastor, the guy no go ever marry my daughter lielie. 2 Likes |
Re: Pastor Disrupts His Member’s Marriage Proposal by AdegbiteAdemola(m): 11:53pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
FreelanceRebel: Alaye I made the comment when the report was not so well detailed before it moved to front-page. I had no idea the girl is his daughter |
Re: Pastor Disrupts His Member’s Marriage Proposal by AdegbiteAdemola(m): 11:53pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
FreelanceRebel: Alaye I made the comment when the report was not so well detailed before it moved to front-page. I had no idea the girl is his daughter. |
Re: Pastor Disrupts His Member’s Marriage Proposal by xpool(m): 11:55pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
sassysure:Olodh, you could not even read well. The lady is the pastors daughter. You no even get sense at all. Forget that the man is a pastor, assume he is your father, then judge 2 Likes |
Re: Pastor Disrupts His Member’s Marriage Proposal by uvie66: 11:56pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
MycroftHolmes:is his daughter not his property |
Re: Pastor Disrupts His Member’s Marriage Proposal by xpool(m): 11:57pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
beresponsible:I will stop visiting nairaland; Too many kids from broken homes have infested this site. 3 Likes |
Re: Pastor Disrupts His Member’s Marriage Proposal by xpool(m): 12:04am On Dec 16, 2019 |
fatymore:Shut your trap, let them do it to you sister and father. Yabas brain 2 Likes |
Re: Pastor Disrupts His Member’s Marriage Proposal by BluntBoy(m): 12:05am On Dec 16, 2019 |
There is nothing wrong with proposing to a lady before meeting her parents. Many people propose before meeting up with the parents of each other. How can you decide to meet your girlfriend's parents when you have not even proposed to her and she has accepted your proposal? However in the case in the OP, the man proposing to his girlfriend in front of her father who doesn't know him yet is rude and insensitive, or should I say, was foolish. Moreover, I don't understand this idea of making a public proposal. There are more romantic ways of making a proposal. With a public proposal, it would be hard to tell if the girl is accepting the proposal because she wants to or because she doesn't want to embarrass the guy. But with a private proposal, you can be certain about it. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pastor Disrupts His Member’s Marriage Proposal by PasD(m): 12:11am On Dec 16, 2019 |
The girl is foolish, the young man is irresponsible, the pastor is saving her underdeveloped brain from future emotional damage. This is why... THE YOUNG MAN You came to a church to propose to a lady and you did not inform the shepherd (small s) of the house... 1 Corinthians 14:40 Let ALL THINGS be done decently and in order. The church is not a shopping mall or a club. If you decided to propose to her in a church you should follow due process. The church is not a gathering of irresponsible people that have come to waste their time! Its a show of irresponsibility to decide to propose to her in a church JUST LIKE THAT if you must do it in the house of God you MUST do be decent. THE YOUNG LADY You have been in a relationship of that level of commitment, if the pattern of your church is to let the pastor know of such relationships (of which most churches do so as to ensure proper guidance because some young men are just terrible and brainwash naïve women) you should have done noble (except if you were doing something his and seek and never thought it would come to this). If you see the level of emotional damage most women go through for marrying the wrong men, you would encouraged them to seek counsel and spiritual guidance before engaging. When ever women are faced with marriage their brains block. After marriage their brains unblock. THE PASTOR Maybe he didn't teach them well and made the rules of engagement when it comes to marriage issues clear to his congregation. It would have saved him such embarrassment and embarrassing the young man. He probably should have just left them see what the lady would do, if she took the ring he'd just free her...her eyes will open if she made a wrong choice. Have seen so.many christian sisters wish they never got married than marrying irresponsible men! 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Pastor Disrupts His Member’s Marriage Proposal by Archcele(m): 12:13am On Dec 16, 2019 |
[b][/b] these pastors are so stupid nd hypocrite... |
Re: Pastor Disrupts His Member’s Marriage Proposal by udemzyudex(m): 12:27am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Rebuke: Which hole did you come out from? Pls return back to that hole for petsake. |
Re: Pastor Disrupts His Member’s Marriage Proposal by labusinessguide: 1:12am On Dec 16, 2019 |
vickydankal: What sort of reasoning is this please? 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Disrupts His Member’s Marriage Proposal by Correcto: 1:23am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Is proposal part of the African culture? This is just proposal and not wedding or introduction. If I was the Pastor, I will watch to see if my daughter will accept, and when she does and I don't like it, I will call them both to tell them , as well as make my findings as to whether to support them or not. Kirinwa: |
Re: Pastor Disrupts His Member’s Marriage Proposal by Correcto: 1:28am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Really? It is just a proposal and not a Marriage introduction. Is proposal an African culture? Ring can return anytime, hence proposal hold no heavy water. MycroftHolmes: |
Re: Pastor Disrupts His Member’s Marriage Proposal by IprintMONEY: 1:33am On Dec 16, 2019 |
i like that pastor, these naija guys are becoming too dramatic with this engagement shit. why distrupt another persons wedding because of one useless engagement/ nonsense 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Disrupts His Member’s Marriage Proposal by Dredgemaster(m): 2:28am On Dec 16, 2019 |
[quote author=Made4NaijaM4N post=84930243]I’m not aware of the relationship, pastor says, as he disrupts his member’s marriage proposal Pastor stops man from proposing to his daughter inside his church, says he isn't aware of the relationship. There are things I'll never do in this life, this stupid tradition of kneeling to propose to a girl in public is top of that list! |
Re: Pastor Disrupts His Member’s Marriage Proposal by TOPCRUISE(m): 3:27am On Dec 16, 2019 |
That means no bride price was paid since there were no meeting. That's wrong from the young man |
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