once met a lady when I was unemployed, she was still trying to gain admission so she was always at home with me and we started a relationship. To me I finally found someone that loves me but I totally wrong what really happened here was SITUATIONSHIP. The only reason she was with me was that she was bored and lonely as hell. The way a lady that just got a new job in a new environment, meeting a new challenge, new friends, guys admiring her everywhere and totally overwhelmed will behave in a relationship will be different from when she is sitting at home lonely and unemployed without meeting new guys. let me give you an instance if you start a business the way you will treat customers when you hardly have a customer will be different from the way you treat customers when you have thousands of them. That is why some times a lady will snub you and after some months she will start calling you and also a lady that seems to be available to you at the start of a relationship will just start ignoring you later. I once had an experience after service with a lady i was dating in the junior batch when I finished service i was lonely, bored and I seem to have all the time and attention for her, she on the other side was overwhelmed with service and hardly return the attention. Then months later I got a job and the table turned she was the one doing the disturbing. What I am trying to say is you might meet a lady when she is overwhelmed with attention and it looks as if she is not interested in you but it's not you it's her that is the problem. I have a lady like that that was always always forming for guys but when she was almost becoming evening newspaper she slept with anything just to get a man of her own. That's how it is sometimes.

Wow what a comprehensive write up. Makes alot of sense