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Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Nobody: 10:39am On Dec 17, 2019 |
TwoBottles:LOL, it's baldderdash because I made mention of Islam. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by ayanjamz: 10:40am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Let me help u to help urself. You can go ahead with the wedding, if both of u agreed on the outcome. Nowadays, we do intrauterine fetal sampling to confirm fetus genotype before delivery. Most pregnant women in ur situation either abort the fetus in-utero or go ahead with the pregnancy. The only challenge is the cost of sampling the fetus wic is not cheap... It cost 250k |
Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Nobody: 10:40am On Dec 17, 2019 |
By now and with so much awareness, SS is supposed to have been eradicated. It's not oyibo sickness so they don't spend heavily on it through research. We are meant to use only our sense to stop it. Love with your mind and not heart. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by odisman(m): 10:41am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Snowale:Accept Jesus today and thank me later. |
Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Baztardmods: 10:41am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Freethought:You are not smart at all, so f00lish |
Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by NaijaDonCast(m): 10:42am On Dec 17, 2019 |
If GOAL GOAL (SS) PLAY THAT TICKET DON CUT Lexusgs430: |
Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by rexandyke(m): 10:43am On Dec 17, 2019 |
OP, my reply will be long, very long and this is because of the fire that burns in my heart whenever I see such posts. I have seen 4 of my cousins die of SS and one is still living with it. We know he will die, but not sure when it will be. The pain the family suffered taking care of them and seeing them die after they have lived so long is unbearable. Two died when they finished secondary school (19 and 20 years respectively). One of them died after she completed her master's program at the university while the last one was after graduating from the university and waiting for NYSC. I happened to be close to most of them and the pain you could see from their eyes knowing they will die anytime soon. I was pained too because I couldn't stand losing them to SS. I have been advocating for couples who are AS or SS NOT TO EVER MARRY EACH OTHER. The pain that will result in the nearest future could be reverted by finding another soul partner. There are millions of other men and women you can link up with and get married to. Some people are advising you to marry and then use medical interventions to prevent having SS kids. The idea is nice, but I don't advise that, sincerely. This is an avoidable havoc man! The cost of such medical interventions is always high and the money can be used to venture into some kind of business. Why waste that money when it can be prevented? Also, it is not 100% guaranteed as you can do everything and still give birth to SS. We have seen it happen, not once or twice. The stress and pain of taking an SS patient to the hospital during their crisis and having their blood changed aren't what you will ever want to experience. I don't even pray for my enemy to have that kind of stuff happen to them. I beg you in the name of God in heaven or in the name of anything you believe in. Please! This comment is from a passionate heart that doesn't want to see another family suffer from this pain. Have a great day! 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by saddler: 10:44am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Culin: Doing better than most normal people. In what way ? Finance, health, or what? I will like to know 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by macphilip: 10:44am On Dec 17, 2019 |
oya clap for yourself |
Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Horstin50(m): 10:44am On Dec 17, 2019 |
You haven't told anyone yet����... You have just told over 5million Nigerians on nairaland Freethought: 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Lexusgs430: 10:45am On Dec 17, 2019 |
drjprince: Umiambassadors on patrol...... KEEP OFF....... |
Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Xisnin(m): 10:46am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Snowale:Before Islam, most cultures are against pre-marital sex, murder, adultery or maiming. Those people didn't need Islam to tell them what is bad because they have brains. You can't just wake up and erase all human history before Islam and attribute everything to Islam. Even nowadays, most people are not Muslims, one would expect them to be enmeshed in crime and chaos since they don't have Islam to tell them how to behave. The reason why many Muslims like you see things this way is because of indoctrination and limited education outside of Islam. Islam seems "perfect" to you because that is what you have been told for a very long time. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Nobody: 10:47am On Dec 17, 2019 |
odisman:Any Muslims that doesn't believe in Jesus is wasting his time, Jacob(ASW), Moses(ASW), Jesus(SAW), Mohammed(SAW)etc. are messengers of God who came with their various scriptures. I will not worship any messanger, but I will worship the God Almighty that created us and them 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by ZAWs: 10:48am On Dec 17, 2019 |
lebron7: actually, its 350k for the test. so the OP can afford it. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Vivos: 10:48am On Dec 17, 2019 |
rexandyke:so what about the baby? Are you advising they abort the baby bcoz of their foolish decisions |
Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Nobody: 10:49am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Freethought:I hope u have a very good job dt has medical cover. Most wont cover an SS child though, so just make sure u can afford medical insurance. Dt is what a responsible man should be able to provide at the bare minimum for a sick child. If u want to be paying out of pocket whenever there's a crises u can NEVER afford it. If uve never thought about a job wt medical cover or medical insurance, then u are a wicked and irresponsible man. Have u ever seen an helpless child? Do u know how heartbreaking their little faces are when they're in pain? Or u want to turn ur wife to an abortion machine, dt will be getting rid of babies after tests? Hope u won't dump her after uve finished her womb. I don't know any couple wt an SS child dt has a happy marriage. Even those dt live in the UK with free NHS. Just a cloud of sadness and fatigue all around. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Lexusgs430: 10:49am On Dec 17, 2019 |
philsbaba: Oga, we have to be sincere with him nah...... If hin born SS kperen, he would regret diving in raw, and watching it flow out like a BOSS.......... 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by doctorgold(m): 10:50am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Ifemide123: They dont come in a particular order. You can find tha first three children come with SS |
Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Baztardmods: 10:50am On Dec 17, 2019 |
YourNextLevel:Leave prayer out of this |
Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Nobody: 10:50am On Dec 17, 2019 |
She is not pregnant. You give her belle or she carry belle. You can say she is pregnant when you have legally married her. Please take note. On the issue at hand, seek prompt medical advice ASAP. |
Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by seyijoseph(m): 10:50am On Dec 17, 2019 |
If you have the financial wherewithal I'd suggest you run test of the foetus genotype and if known take the right decision before it gets too late. All the best. |
Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Culin(f): 10:51am On Dec 17, 2019 |
saddler: "Finance, health or what?". Uncle what topic are we discussing here if not health. |
Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by ejimatic: 10:51am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Freethought:. You are AS both .What if the child is SS you will be blaming Buhari and bring the new born baby into life long crisis.... Both of you are educated illiterates..Be ready to face the consequence of your stupidity. |
Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by PrinceGallant: 10:51am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Don't be tensed where there is no tension. The only fault you have is sex out of wedlock, which is a grievous sin. The greater sin you may commit is to abort the pregnancy, and I advise you are careful. That you are AS and your partner is AS does not necessarily mean that your child will be SS. Be positive in your thought. |
Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by lebron7(m): 10:51am On Dec 17, 2019 |
O.P, just do d test and get rest of mind bcus ur child might not have sickle cell, but if ....... |
Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by hopexter(m): 10:52am On Dec 17, 2019 |
You and you AS story sef. Hope this is the last Episode 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Lexusgs430: 10:52am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Lexusgs430: 10:53am On Dec 17, 2019 |
doctorgold: Tell them o...... That poorly illustrated biology lesson is deceiving them.......... |
Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by paparazi1(m): 10:54am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Freethought:From medical perspective both of you were suppose to adhere to instructions but you lack wisdom. I dont call this love bec there is no love without money, besides both of you have not witness sickle cell crisis, when you get into the real deal what you call love today will disappear. Ideally you suppose produce 50 percent SS and 50 percent AS, you might be lucky to have only AS like both of you which are regarded as carriers. I wont say pray bec in the first place both of you has no relationship with Christ. |
Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Nobody: 10:57am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Xisnin:So, the OP doesn't have brain by doing what's wrong, we seebad people everywhere, you think they don't have brain, one needs a way of life, that teaches ways to do the right things always, without any lapses, and of every way of life there can be only one best, and you don't need to be told that in Islamic school seeing things around you and thinking with an unbiased mind will guide you. If there is no law there is no sin, if you don't have a good culture and think you know what is right because you have brain, you will do what is wrong without knowing. The brain gives what it takes, some thinks there is nothing wrong in betting and having sex with protection, but both are vices 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Nobody: 10:58am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Freethought:You came seeking for advice. Got it. And went against it. You've made your bed, lie on it. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by sinaj(f): 11:00am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Lexusgs430:I hope it turns out well for them else it will be a long ride |
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