As a woman, its not a bad thing if you want a man that has all your criteria, but it gets to a point when you should get off your high horse. I have this 36 years old aunt who is still as choosy as she was when she was 18 year old. I grew , http://www.jaguda.com/2010/11/28/you-will-never-find-a-husband-pray-all-you-want/

So?
cos she s 36
pls drop it boi

Not every woman would get married.

tell her to continue she'll one day a rich man as old as obj as husband. i know plenty of them

I feel for cultures where marriage is such a huge deal. What about people who DO NOT want to get married --- what do you want to do ? Kill themselves ? Not everyone, woman or man wants to get married and they should not feel pressured to do so.

Marriage is a choice and folks should not feel compelled to get married.

They are too choosy.Not baaaaad if only later on, they dont start running after other pple's husbands only to av children nd later claim to be feminists, _{fighting for women's rights}

Think its better to follow ones heart, than for fear of what people will say,end up with a man one will wake up every morn,regretting marrying.

obowunmi:

I feel for cultures where marriage is such a huge deal. What about people who DO NOT want to get married --- what do you want to do ? Kill themselves ? Not everyone, woman or man wants to get married and they should not feel pressured to do so.

well said!!!!

deols:

They are too choosy.Not baaaaad if only later on, they dont start running after other pple's husbands only to av children nd later claim to be feminists, _{fighting for women's rights}

Na true