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Re: There Is No For Hope Me... by TallPck1(m): 7:45am On Dec 21, 2019 |
NoHopeForMe: I'm dead serious dude. If you mean business hit me up and if you don't please swerve! |
Re: There Is No For Hope Me... by czarina(f): 7:48am On Dec 21, 2019 |
citadels: No be Nairaland again? You never see... |
Re: There Is No For Hope Me... by Nobody: 8:43am On Dec 21, 2019 |
czarina: 1. If truely you knew a little bit of psychology, you would have known that there is a 95% chance that guy is serious about what he is about to do. But you are so dull, ignorant, insensitive and wicked not to see this. I have seen threads on suicide created to swindle people and I can say with a 95% confidence that this is different and the guy really means to die. It only takes a bit of common sense to see it. Yes there are scammers but I haven't read at any point where the guy is requesting for money. Even if he is faking to be suicidal and just looking for attention, there is definately an unpleasant situation he could be facing that is causing him to crave for attention. Sadly, your method of reasoning is very typical of the average blackman especially nigerians. I don't know whether it is poverty or just inherent wickedness that makes we africans think this way. You won't find such wickedness and insensitivity in foreign forums like quora and reddit. See a similar link below on suicide from quora and see how the whites approached it. 2. If you have no words of encouragement for him, I think it would be honourable of you to at least keep quiet. https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.quora.com/Should-I-commit-suicide&ved=2ahUKEwiMluSKocbmAhUCzYUKHfl3CBUQjjgwAXoECAYQAQ&usg=AOvVaw3vnTA22q362zbeOz0gN_M0 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: There Is No For Hope Me... by LilMissFavvy(f): 8:44am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Don't do it, the eternal damnation you will face is far worse than all you have faced in your life. Eternal damnation is horrible and cannot be quantified, believe me hell and heaven exist, forget the lies people tell that it doesn't exist. Whatever you are facing, don't give up. We have people who were in worse situations, but are coping or came out strong. Reject the spirit of death. Many people have issues yet refuse to give up. Force yourself to gain hope and hold on, meditate on the right scriptures as applicable to your situation and be patient. NoHopeForMe: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: There Is No For Hope Me... by Nobody: 8:46am On Dec 21, 2019 |
citadels: After forming to be a counsellor, you are now joining the rest to mock him abi? Surely, time is a revealer and it has shown that you had no genuine interest in helping him. I am glad the OP did not reach out to you when you requested. 3 Likes |
Re: There Is No For Hope Me... by Nobody: 8:50am On Dec 21, 2019 |
AmericanDad: Please don't mind them. They are all very stvpid and insensitive. OP should have used quora or reddit instead of nairaland. I think the demographic difference in character is apparent when we compare this forum visavis that of quora by the westerners and the likes. The average black man acts like an enemy to his brothers. 2 Likes |
Re: There Is No For Hope Me... by Nobody: 8:55am On Dec 21, 2019 |
dominique: Did he ask for money? Don't let fooolishness becloud your ability to think. 5 Likes |
Re: There Is No For Hope Me... by Nobody: 8:58am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Graxie: Very insensitive and wicked. No wonder God has kept you so poor that you cannot afford something as common as laptop. If you don't change your mindset to one that is emphatic and has regard for human life, you will continue to lack the basic necessities of life. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: There Is No For Hope Me... by Nobody: 9:02am On Dec 21, 2019 |
@ NoHopeForMe Send me a pm. I am not trying to talk you out of comitting suicide but just want to share with you how I overcame my own depression. I was the overall best student in my class but for a while was the object of scorn and mockery. I will share with you how I turned things around. I have pmed you severally and you have not replied. 3 Likes |
Re: There Is No For Hope Me... by Graxie(f): 9:05am On Dec 21, 2019 |
DanXplore:Idiot, So God actually make people poor? Op claimed he has all those and still want to die, is it not better he gives out his properties? He claimed he has never been useful, is it not better he becomes useful. I refuse to know your God that makes people poor. Meanwhile, if you can also gift me the laptop since your God have blessed you so much for being sensitive. 1 Like |
Re: There Is No For Hope Me... by czarina(f): 9:06am On Dec 21, 2019 |
[s] DanXplore:[/s] 1 Like |
Re: There Is No For Hope Me... by Graxie(f): 9:12am On Dec 21, 2019 |
DanXplore:Oh, your God was punishing you with mockery and poverty even when you were your class best student, you think you have overcome depression, don't worry you will soon slip into it. Get it into Your brain, GOD is not owing you anything. Stop thinking he is owing you, he is not owing. You are a clay in his hand. Your happiness or joy should never be tied to things. The level you are will soon get useless and then like a confused child, you will slip into depression. |
Re: There Is No For Hope Me... by czarina(f): 9:14am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Re: There Is No For Hope Me... by Nobody: 9:21am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Graxie: 1. I am not surprised. Saying God has made one poor was just a figure of speech in that particular context and as usual, you failed to see it. There is often a very high correlation between poor intellectual potential, poor discernment, poor judgement, poor understanding with low emotional quotient. You just displayed all in one swing. 2. The second part of your argument is perhaps the most disappointing and disturbing. What method would you suggest for him to transfer the properties? He should just drop them off on the streets or call you to pick them up? What if investigations are done and his properties are traced to you or whoever he donates to? Did you for once consider this possibility? You are so dull and greedy that your ability to systematically reason out the implications were beclouded. Secondly, even if he dies without donating those items, won't it still be picked up by someone or his next of kin? In the end, wouldn't someone be the beneficiary of his items? You are definately a very dull person. No pun intended. 3. To behonest, I have worked so hard and can afford to give out 1million naira without it having any significant inpact on my overall finances. When you work for your money, you will tend to give it to people who are deserving and not just any random stranger that is filled with hate and wickedness. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: There Is No For Hope Me... by czarina(f): 9:25am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Re: There Is No For Hope Me... by Graxie(f): 9:28am On Dec 21, 2019 |
DanXplore:So after all the long episode, you still don't have solutions to the matter at hand. Your God who rewards poverty is rewarding DEATH to the op for his ingratitude. You are working hard, harder than wheel barrow pusher? Please stop quoting me, I don't think the suicide man have relatives, if he does he would have been wondering what their emotions will be. Carry your sensitivity and get out. 2 Likes |
Re: There Is No For Hope Me... by Nobody: 9:31am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Graxie: I expected that you would step back and reflect on how meaningless your post was but you kept slipping into more logical traps that exposes your mediocre thought paradigm. Your prayer is for me to get into depression but in reality, it is just your subconscious venting out its frustrations. Perhaps when you are well experienced in life, you would understand that life is like a sine wave. There are as much peaks of joy as there are troughs of struggles but in the end, a person's pain-alleviating resources that has been accrued over time is what will enable him navigate, dampen or rectify the inevitable series of troughs. There are certain things you would never understsnd and it is based on the intellectual limitiation you evidently have. It appears your brain is not configured to understand certain things. 6 Likes |
Re: There Is No For Hope Me... by czarina(f): 9:33am On Dec 21, 2019 |
See grammar abeg! |
Re: There Is No For Hope Me... by Nobody: 9:35am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Graxie: The bolded is another testament of your defective ability to process information. State where I have directly or by implication referred or suggested God to be a rewarder with evil? I would have stopped replying you but I want you to keep exposing how ridiculous you are for people to read. If only you knew how you sounded, you would bury your head in shame. 6 Likes |
Re: There Is No For Hope Me... by czarina(f): 9:38am On Dec 21, 2019 |
*yawns* |
Re: There Is No For Hope Me... by Nobody: 9:40am On Dec 21, 2019 |
czarina: The average nigerian and low self esteem are like 5 and 6. Whenever one tries to construct a dialogue that beats their educational level, they begin to shout "grammar" I pity those who subscribe to your massage. They probably are desperate or out of options. I am very disappointed to see that you even operate in my state of origin. I have noted your details. I will and my friends that love massage will scrutize properly to ensure we dont patronise wicked people. 5 Likes |
Re: There Is No For Hope Me... by czarina(f): 9:42am On Dec 21, 2019 |
[s] DanXplore:[/s] |
Re: There Is No For Hope Me... by Nobody: 9:48am On Dec 21, 2019 |
OP I am waiting... |
Re: There Is No For Hope Me... by BlackHummer(m): 9:50am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Danxplore pity her na... 2 Likes |
Re: There Is No For Hope Me... by NoHopeForMe: 9:59am On Dec 21, 2019 |
DanXplore: Thanks for your concern. I am ok... I must say that I feel better now but I think I am bipolar. Sometimes the feeling is so intense i just want to end it all. If things don't work out by decmeber I will kill myself and have decided that already. I apreciate your concern but at this point i dont want anything that will encourage me to keep hoping for nothing and living in more misery. Bye |
Re: There Is No For Hope Me... by Nobody: 10:02am On Dec 21, 2019 |
NoHopeForMe: Ok, goodluck. |
Re: There Is No For Hope Me... by Nobody: 10:11am On Dec 21, 2019 |
BlackHummer: Lol. They had it coming, it was long overdue. Someone needed to show them their place else more people will emulate them. I am awed at their level of insensitivity. During my Msc. Program in the UK, the directors of the school adjusted the deadline for submission of dissertation for about 5 students who said they felt suicidal. Students bought gifts and played video games with them...i even played tekken with one of the suicidal victims just to make them happy. My empathy for them was sponsored by my own previous experience with depression and so I could easily relate with them. Whereas in this same planet, some e-rats are plunging someone who clearly needed help into more depression either because of ignorance, insensitivity, clout chasing or abundance of data. I am a strong believer of the school of thought that there is no suicidal victim that cannot be helped. 2 Likes |
Re: There Is No For Hope Me... by Graxie(f): 10:34am On Dec 21, 2019 |
DanXplore:Long gibberish as usual. You started by telling me that your God gives poverty because of insensitivity. Oga your God have given op depression to kill him because of his stupidity. Why are you ranting? 1 Like |
Re: There Is No For Hope Me... by czarina(f): 10:38am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Re: There Is No For Hope Me... by Nobody: 10:40am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Graxie: And I said point out where I said so for us to analyse it based on the rules of propositional logic. You are afraid of engaging me in this because it will expose your poor intellect. I am waiting for you to point out where I categorically stated or implied that God gave poverty due to insensitivity. I am not responsible for your assumptions. |
Re: There Is No For Hope Me... by Graxie(f): 10:43am On Dec 21, 2019 |
NoHopeForMe:You mean you will not allow your sensitive mesiah friend to help you? It shows you are intelligent. You truly know what you want. I saw from the foolish guy post of ascribing poverty to his God, he was actually making you feel you are where you are because You failed His God. Good you are figuring it out yourself. You don't need any motivational speaker. You are a wise man!!! 1 Like |
Re: There Is No For Hope Me... by NoHopeForMe: 11:00am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Graxie: I don't think that was what he mean but thanks for your concern |
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