i finally proposed to dumebi my love. We have been dating for a year now, and we have not had sex, cos as a christian i dont bliv and encourage in sex b4 marriage.

I was expecting a yes, but to my surprise, dumebi said i must sleep with her, and not only that, i must get her pregnant so that she will be sure i am good in bed and also potent.

I thought she was joking at first, but after several days, her mother called me and reiterated what her daughter had said. I threatened to go marry another girl, and the mother began to abuse me, calling me impotent and other derogatory names. She even said that in this generation where young men have sexuall illness, it will be impossible for any girl to marry me without sleeping with me first.

She also said if i wasnt having sexual problems, i would have requested for sex from the first date.

Right now, i dont know what to do.

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Lienus
Dumebi kee u dere

Thunda faya you OP for this nonsense

ublight:
i dont know what to do.

Is that dumebi in your DP?