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My Girlfriend Insults Me And It’s Making me Loose My Mind by hope1292: 12:58am On Dec 24, 2019 |
Hi nairalanders I'm new here though but i just have to share my story with you guys, i have this girl i met 6 years ago and since then we have been dating, but i noticed she is this kind of person that finds it so hard to say sorry even when she is wrong. we live together and sometimes we fight for days and i still end up begging for her offense. she talks back at me in any slight argument, like i playfully hit her and the next thing i get the heaviest slap of my life, I get challenged in every argument like she stands face to face with me like she can beat me Last week my mom came to visit though we just had an argument before the visit but i expected her to keep it cool with my mom, but opposite was the case, she was not even listening to what my mom was saying instead she focused on zeeworld Then i was still trying to calm myself. Mom complained about the AC she was feeling cold, i expected her to switch off the AC but she was still all glued to the TV. i got angry and asked if she didn't hear what my MOM said. instead she got up and try to challenge me nd i got so angry and gave her a slap and the next thing she gave me close to 3 slaps nd i guess i had no other choice than to give her the beating of her life. Sometimes i beg for sex and i try to force her she insult me nd hit me too Now to the point, I'm tired of this girl i feel like 6 years in a relationship wasted because i don't see my future in her, I beg for sex, i get insulted, she tends to embarrass me anywhere even in front of her friends, though i love her and she loves me too. Please nairalanders i need advice I'm tired, i have talked to her, my mom have talked to her, it's just her way and I'm not sure she can control it, i hate to hit or beat girls but she wants to turn me to one, she even stored my name with woman beater since then This same girl i bought her an iPhone X nd gave her old phone to my MOM Without telling her nd i got the insult of my life Please i need advice 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Insults Me And It’s Making me Loose My Mind by Mraphel: 1:08am On Dec 24, 2019 |
You should have seen the signs bf u married her ..i will advice you not to slap or beat her again, go get a divorce instead. Beating or slapping her will make you d bad guy or a beast. 10 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Insults Me And It’s Making me Loose My Mind by warrenweste(m): 1:13am On Dec 24, 2019 |
Are you asking these for real or just trolling? 30 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Insults Me And It’s Making me Loose My Mind by iCauseTrouble: 1:16am On Dec 24, 2019 |
U bought iPhone X for her and gave her old phone to your mum - Omo ale ni e 100 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Insults Me And It’s Making me Loose My Mind by Starboytwo(m): 1:16am On Dec 24, 2019 |
Here's my advice Tomorrow morning just die You have failed all men, sorry everything masculine 51 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Insults Me And It’s Making me Loose My Mind by Starboytwo(m): 1:18am On Dec 24, 2019 |
iCauseTrouble:you did not say it well, jati jati suppose dey inside... U give am 1 slap, and she gi you 3 slaps, tiri slaps Unless she be Brock Lesnar sha 50 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Insults Me And It’s Making me Loose My Mind by PRISTINEMUSCLES: 1:20am On Dec 24, 2019 |
I just feel like twisting your neck now. Weak ass homo sapien. 38 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Insults Me And It’s Making me Loose My Mind by Nobody: 1:20am On Dec 24, 2019 |
One of them Bro, your script sucks! 14 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Insults Me And It’s Making me Loose My Mind by kurupt1: 1:23am On Dec 24, 2019 |
I'm beginning to suspect that some people are cooking up Males Lamentations threads for reasons best known to them 51 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Insults Me And It’s Making me Loose My Mind by KevMitnick: 1:26am On Dec 24, 2019 |
She doesn't have any value for you or the relationship. What of her family? Her mother or father, why can't you talk to them about her instead. Two things are involved : 1. Why the hell are you still dating after 6 years? You may be responsible for her actions. She is probably tired of telling you she wants to get married and she has been patient enough with you for keeping her like your wife when you haven't married her yet. Fix the date of your wedding and watch if she will change or not. I believe she will. She is protesting with her behaviour. 2. If she is just naturally stubborn and disrespectful, then you need to teach her a lesson, she knows you love her and won't leave her even if she does all those things. So shock her, ignore her completely until she gets the message. Don't give her money or anything and when she complains, get very angry and tell her to go, stand your ground oh don't be a puzzy azz nigga until she comes to her senses. You are seeing tell tale signs of a woman that will ruin your life, give you hypertension and probably stab you one day and you are asking for what to do. I hope konji will allow you to man up though. I don't know about that and can't help you with that either. 10 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Insults Me And It’s Making me Loose My Mind by pansophist(m): 1:33am On Dec 24, 2019 |
No one can make you a slave without your consent. She started this bit by bit, and your reaction showed her that you have no self-respect and will tolerate even her most despicable behaviour. And stop saying she loves you, because from what you described up there, she cant possibly love you. From the look of things, its high likely that she is with you for your provider status, since despite her bad behaviours you rewarded her with iPhone x and the main breadwinner of her sustenance You've positioned yourself to be a lucrative idiot with no sense of worth, and she has you by the balls. Now ask yourself this question, what benefit does she contributes to your life? If she insults you, freely award you dose of slaps, disrespect you and your mum, withhold sex, doesn't contributes financially to your relationship, then please tell me how exactly she is beneficial to you? You're the prize here, but so foolish that you have to bring this to nairaland for strangers to solve, where are your balls? Tufiakwa. No one will treat you better than you treat yourself, respect is deserved not freely given. You should leave her, because she will never respect you regardless if you toughen up. The numerous slaps your face has been blessed with can not be undone, and she sill resent you deeply because you cant even stand up for yourself, talk more of standing up for your family to the outside world. She may not articulate this, but she will hate the fact that a weak man like you is what she could settle with. Chances are, she is on the lookout for a better option, and once he shows up, your sorry ass will be dumped as you'll have outlived your usefulness. Have an abundance mindset and move on, there are millions of girls out there. You are suffering from 'oneitis', and you need to put yourself out there, and see that truly, you've been suffering all these while. 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Insults Me And It’s Making me Loose My Mind by shege45: 1:37am On Dec 24, 2019 |
leave that girl. its better late than never |
Re: My Girlfriend Insults Me And It’s Making me Loose My Mind by Gracespecial101(m): 1:38am On Dec 24, 2019 |
And she is your Girlfriend of 6 years now You saw all this things and you kept quiet since, so it is now your eyes are now clear and you want to dump her abi. The both of you are not even serious sef 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Insults Me And It’s Making me Loose My Mind by WorWorBoy: 1:50am On Dec 24, 2019 |
hope1292:Lol. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Insults Me And It’s Making me Loose My Mind by daddytime(m): 2:12am On Dec 24, 2019 |
All these fake monikers with numerics behind them, with their trumped-up fake ass stories. It's either they are new to the forum or registered a new moniker to post the fake stories, and they are hell as fukk bound for the fp. Make una continue o 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Insults Me And It’s Making me Loose My Mind by Martinez39(m): 2:14am On Dec 24, 2019 |
A side of me suspects you are troll, another side suspects you are being sincere. Anyway, use your head. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Insults Me And It’s Making me Loose My Mind by Martinez39(m): 2:17am On Dec 24, 2019 |
kurupt1:I am beginning to suspect too even though what the op describes happens in reality. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Insults Me And It’s Making me Loose My Mind by JamieLannister: 2:22am On Dec 24, 2019 |
iCauseTrouble: OP, I cannot reiterate this more. And you're here seeking for advice? You have failed all manhood. I mean you're seeing the signs abi na writing on the wall and yet you're ignoring it. Marry her kind and see how she turns your home into a living hell. I don't understand why people still endure and stick with toxic relationships. What exactly are you hoping for? |
Re: My Girlfriend Insults Me And It’s Making me Loose My Mind by Charleys: 2:29am On Dec 24, 2019 |
How hard it is for you to tell her to pack her bags. You've started begging for sex? Hahaha the trap. You know you can get that sex if you truly want it by cheating on her. Tell your mother you need a woman to marry. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Insults Me And It’s Making me Loose My Mind by iTearHerToto: 2:47am On Dec 24, 2019 |
Bro you're dating Brock Lesner. hope1292:Wait! Did I just read that [img]https:///view/wait-what-gif-7628062.gif[/img] Pukes 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Insults Me And It’s Making me Loose My Mind by atilla(m): 3:06am On Dec 24, 2019 |
Very interesting story. Op u made my day |
Re: My Girlfriend Insults Me And It’s Making me Loose My Mind by hakeemhakeem(m): 4:27am On Dec 24, 2019 |
You allowed her to treated you like lawma load to the point that she had up her to your mum.set a line btw your mum and excesses |
Re: My Girlfriend Insults Me And It’s Making me Loose My Mind by Nobody: 4:38am On Dec 24, 2019 |
hope1292: Girl friend kwa? Living with a girl that is not a wife yet. You're operating under a curse. Discharge her or go ans marry her formally. The rate at which decency is fast disappearing is alarming. Six years..living with a girl friend? 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Insults Me And It’s Making me Loose My Mind by femi4: 5:17am On Dec 24, 2019 |
hope1292:You are a disgrace to manhood I see no future in the relationship, one of you will end up killing the other if you eventually got married The relationship is toxic, lack respect and already strained 5 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Insults Me And It’s Making me Loose My Mind by Nobody: 5:21am On Dec 24, 2019 |
if this story is really true in the way ur so called gf treats you that means u no just get level at all |
Re: My Girlfriend Insults Me And It’s Making me Loose My Mind by zed7: 5:55am On Dec 24, 2019 |
Surely these stories guys narrate here can't be true. Who exactly are these effeminate men? You are being abused emotionally and even physically and you are still asking what to do? Please take her to the registry immediately. Get married to her, since you're both in love. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Insults Me And It’s Making me Loose My Mind by CAPSLOCKED: 6:17am On Dec 24, 2019 |
hope1292: WOMEN NEVER SAY SORRY BECAUSE WOMEN ARE NEVER WRONG. IF AFTER 6 YEARS SHE HASN'T STARTED TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR HER ACTIONS, YOU'RE GOING TO BE IN FOR A LONG RIDE, AND WILL PROBABLY DIE YOUNG ALONG WITH OTHER MEN WHO HAVE DIED FROM MARRYING PROBLEMATIC WIVES. 1 Like
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Re: My Girlfriend Insults Me And It’s Making me Loose My Mind by Oshin56(m): 6:23am On Dec 24, 2019 |
Op try and use your senses you have not get married to each other devil don they show faces and don't be deceived she hasn't show the beast in her try and do marriage(court wedding) that's when you will know that if you leave with a mad woman, someone is reliable to die young and to avoid the story that touches it's advisable for you to quite that thing called relationship and look for the one that's OK with you. |
Re: My Girlfriend Insults Me And It’s Making me Loose My Mind by DenreleDave(m): 6:43am On Dec 24, 2019 |
hope1292: 1st thing, where do u guy come across this kind of ladies sef? 2. If she save ur name with woman beater, save hers with man beater 3. U bought a new phone for ur GF not wife and gave ur GF used phone to ur mum dt sweated and suffer ontop ur head, I don't think ur mother prayers will work for u again.. Even if she doesn't know, her spirit knows 4. That lady is ur cross, you shall not separate from her, u shall be together for the rest of ur life, in peace, In beating and in anytin anytin... You cannot chop a lady for 6yrs and say u r not doing again. If u can tolerate her for 6yrs, u can do far better from. 5. Tell us the name of the lady with her picture, so dt guys like us wunt come across her.. Thanks 6 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Insults Me And It’s Making me Loose My Mind by willanderson: 6:45am On Dec 24, 2019 |
pansophist: you ve said it all. @OP you are dating a narcisist. my two cents dont ignore the red flags. quit before its too late. |
Re: My Girlfriend Insults Me And It’s Making me Loose My Mind by reservd(m): 6:49am On Dec 24, 2019 |
Mraphel:Are they married? |
Re: My Girlfriend Insults Me And It’s Making me Loose My Mind by BilltheDON(m): 6:52am On Dec 24, 2019 |
Hummmm... People de suffer for relationships oooh |
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