That funministique girl is so ugly that I am utterly disappointed that such a creature has tormented this forum for years unend.

Her picture/image is perfect justification for why she’s bitter. I will be circumspect to take the comments of these feminists to heart going forward since it’s clear that most of them are suffering from one defect or another.

Very despicable & deplorable set of individuals who have polluted our cyberspace with their feminist poison.

twhy111:


Your advice up there, the one I quote you know that was harsh, it normal for we to fall but what matters is how fast we rise up and dust ourselves.

You don't need to shame a hustling man who's has been there for his family financially once. I fear you'd do more than these for your future husband if you mistakenly get rich more than him.

I don't know, not really.

jaafree:
You will not make a good wife, that! I am certain .

Her heart is filled with nails, scorpions & dagggers.

She’s pretty much deranged & steeped in feminist hate. And it’s a pity that her ugliness disqualifies her from being so entitled. Which sensible man will put up with feminist crap from an ugly woman?

uninspired07:


You will stay old in your father’s house!!! Any man that dares marry you has bought death for himself.

You’re damaged goods & you need serious help.

Swerve, when they don't have something better to say, they result to emotional blackmail

If she stays old in her father's house, how is that any of your business?
Why are you eating sand on her behalf?

Emotional tantrums all over this place.

Give your own advice and move on!

BiggyB242:


I pity your BF, that's if you have one for having such a mentality. You think those wealthy men today are wealthy because they hustle more. Life has its way, there are many contributed factors. Some acquire their wealth through illegal/dubious means, others came from a rich homes with connect, some the course they read isn't a favourable, others work their way to the top. etc.

This is the reason we have so many yahoo boys, ritualist etc just to prove to their women that they are "hustler".

Money changes men and women but that doesn't make what she's does right. Is like saying a lot of men cheat so you should a get a pass for cheating on an innocent man.

Deep words there.

uninspired07:


OP, please don’t take relationship/marital advice from women. They will only seek to manipulate you to their advantage. They can never be objective & altruistic.

Just look for a way to bounce back & take care of your kids. As for your wife, I will leave you to take the decision you feel fit. Just concentrate on getting your business going.

GBAM! I am surprised that strungup79 is still replying those women. Whether you like it or not, it's a mistake to look up to women for relationship advice. Their argument and advice are always misleading. They will always twist things in favour of women because when you complain or bring issues about a woman to them, they put themselves in the woman's shoe and argue selfishly. They argue like that because the advice they give is what they would want their boyfriends/husbands to follow if they were in the woman's shoes. Very cold-hearted creatures. Watch how they are advising and chatting strungup79 like he is at fault and he just over assuming.

eyinjuege:


That is very subjective.. Until you find out from the wife the love and respect she received from the husband, you really cannot say for sure.

sassysure:

Swerve, when they don't have something better to say, they result to emotional blackmail

If she stays old in her father's house, how is that any of your business?
Why are you eating sand on her behalf?

Emotional tantrums all over this place.

Give your own advice and move on!

Sod off. This is a new year & I don’t wish to spar with you.

I don’t expect you to caution that hateful creature because you share the same ideology. Just free me abeg.

My dear brother run away ooooO.

sassysure:

The guy is dancing around the major problem.
It's never about his wife earning more.
And I believe he never cared to address it either.
Sweeping it under the carpet as usual.

I wish them luck.

Becomes clearer with each emotional layer removed. She didn't change overnight or because of money.

uninspired07:


This is one of those feminists causing wahala in Nigerian cyberspace. This is a bit fine but she’s still bitter & I don’t know why.

Some of them are just damaged goods who cannot be in a normal loving relationship & it’s sad. I pray God touches them this year.

It's like you want to remain unfortunate in life this decade? Your destiny has already been used to play Ludo the previous decade, yet you still don't want to give yourself sense?
Borrow some sense, if nobody in your lineage has any.

okoroemeka:
I seriously doubt your statement that marriage is sweeter with money,my friend and his wife had the biggest fight in their marriage the day he bought car for her and a sound proof generator for their home,if a hubby can procure this things shouldn't that day be a happy day,NO,but if we were not around it could have ended with manslaughter, having money is not a guarantee that you will have a happy home, always win the mind games first.

Read where I said "every marriage have their peculiar problems " I mentioned it.

strungup79:


You are just like my wife. If marriage is about control, why marry? Why not stay on your own? Making money is not about hustling, if it was i'd be earning over three times what my wife earns. Luck, favour also plays a role. Maybe God just wants to show me who I married.

Don't mind her comment. A good woman is a good woman. Your down turn isn't supposed to be her opportunity to punish or disrespect you, except you did the same to her. If you did, all you need now is to apologize and trust God to turn your work into good success.

OP, I am sure you will get on your feet this year & your children will be taken care of.

As for your wife, I don’t blame her. We don’t raise the same kind of women like our mothers anymore.

I have already resigned to fate because no woman can love me like my mother. Our mothers are the best. They are radically different from the kind of women we have these days.

Only God will save menfolk in contemporary Nigeria.

BiggyB242:


Reason why "wise" a man stick to the woman who was with him when he had nothing. Most women love you for your money but thank God not all, that's why I impress a woman with my personality rather than the comfort she thinks I can afford her.

Las las Na woman when go give us peace of mind naim we need, is neither beauty nor profession, but there are some ladies who come with the whole package though.

The bold says it all. #thumbs up

uninspired07:


Sod off. This is a new year & I don’t wish to spar with you.

I don’t expect you to caution that hateful creature because you share the same ideology. Just free me abeg.

Who cares
Truth hurts.
If u desire her, do the right thing instead of attacking her.

We always know the reason for such attack.

eyinjuege:


It's like you want to remain unfortunate in life this decade? Your destiny has already been used to play Ludo the previous decade, yet you still don't want to give yourself sense?
Borrow some sense, if nobody in your lineage has any.

Se ofe she oriburuku ni lodun tuntun?


I will curse you oooo. You’re a prominent man hating feminist so I pointed that out.


Did I insult you? I only made a statement of fact.

cococandy:


Anyone who doesn’t agree with you guys is bitter. It’s a new year please. Do away with the worn out phrases would ya?

Most overused word on threads by men

Contumely:


So what was that you were telling your ex?

Women love attention, hate to be bored even when they can rarely come up with interesting things to do, hate the demands society places on them and repress their instincts.

You must learn how to hold a conversation with a woman for hours on any topic. Let her feel heard and she will open up to you. Let her feel like she matters, let her feel special, feed her vanity that she is a the best among her crew, but do not lap her up like a puppy. Do naughty things with her and when she misbehaves, quickly rebuke her and pet her afterwards.

When you conquer her heart, she will surrender her body .

sassysure:

Who cares
Truth hurts.
If u desire her, do the right thing instead of attacking her.

We always know the reason for such attack.

OMG!!! To be honest, even in my worst financial state, I cannot go for her kind because she is ugly & has an ugly attitude. A woman’s beauty is her character & feministique queen is an uncouth person so I can’t have anything to do with her kind.

I am just disappointed in her because her ugliness didn’t instill a sense of humility in her.

She’s bad news to any man whether rich or poor. She is not a biblically virtuous woman & any man that marries her will end up unfortunate & die in no time.

Preshy561:

This is so sad.
I understand your plight. If there's how you can search for a greener pasture by moving away from her for the main time, please do.
She might think you aren't doing good enough by seeing you home everytime.

Sorry about the situation.

Couldn't help it, just had to take your poem.

bukatyne:


Interesting.

My question:

Stereotypically, can a husband be the sole provider and still actively do house chores?

I want a yes or no.

You can eloborate on whatever answer you choose.

Yes. Just as a woman can stereotypically be the housewife and support the husband in ways above housework duties (e.g financially). One should not replace the other, as they can simultaneously coexist together.

strungup79:


I'm always out of town looking for one job or business. I've just been unfortunate that all my efforts have yielded little or no fruit. It's almost as if there's a curse working against me.

There's no curse bro, these things happen. Never look down so you don't see shadows!

OP, if this story is true, I will advise you to give yourself some breathing space from her, you don't have to keep yourself in hell all in the name of marriage, Go somewhere and start a new life, if she come back to her senses, fine and if she doesn't, good. Don't report a woman you can't control, it's just same like telling her you can't live without her

My brother I have carefully read your story .I am in my 40s too and life Experiences have taught me not pass judgement or give counsel based on one person's story when it comes to relationship.

Are you sure when you where doing well financially you where not like a dictator in the house?Did you ever involved in extra Maritals affairs and your wife knew but kept quiet?

Have you ever physically abused your wife?

I need details man.Well for now keep hustling and keep praying.Humble yourself for now ....

OP will be fine if he faces his business & children squarely. God will do a miracle in his finances & business.

How I wish we could hear from his wife. My training has taught me not to condemn any person unheard. Everything will be fine.

segun18:
My brother I have carefully read your story .I am in my 40s too and life Experiences have taught me not pass judgement or give counsel based on one person's story when it comes to relationship.

Are you sure when you where doing well financially you where not like a dictator in the house?Did you ever involved in extra Maritals affairs and your wife knew but kept quiet?

Have you ever physically abused your wife?

I need details man.Well for now keep hustling and keep praying.Humble yourself for now ....

Do you think a father should call a son father because situation change for worse, do you expect a mother to nag and beg his rich children for help when in need and they know but refuse to do. If He had been a bad husband before, it's time to learn his lesson but the Yoruba's said Ki a le eleyoro lo na, ki a to fi abo si adie

segun18:
My brother I have carefully read your story .I am in my 40s too and life Experiences have taught me not pass judgement or give counsel based on one person's story when it comes to relationship.

Are you sure when you where doing well financially you where not like a dictator in the house?Did you ever involved in extra Maritals affairs and your wife knew but kept quiet?

Have you ever physically abused your wife?

I need details man.Well for now keep hustling and keep praying.Humble yourself for now ....

Do you think a father should call a son father because situation change for worse, do you expect a mother to nag and beg his rich children for help when in need and they know but refuse to do. If He had been a bad husband before, it's time to learn his lesson but the Yoruba's said Ki a le eleyoro lo na, ki a to fi abo si adie

segun18:
My brother I have carefully read your story .I am in my 40s too and life Experiences have taught me not pass judgement or give counsel based on one person's story when it comes to relationship.

Are you sure when you where doing well financially you where not like a dictator in the house?Did you ever involved in extra Maritals affairs and your wife knew but kept quiet?

Have you ever physically abused your wife?

I need details man.Well for now keep hustling and keep praying.Humble yourself for now ....

Do you think a father should call a son father because situation change for worse, do you expect a mother to nag and beg his rich children for help when in need and they know but refuse to do. If He had been a bad husband before, it's time to learn his lesson but the Yoruba's said Ki a le eleyoro lo na, ki a to fi abo si adie. A child is drowning, you are scolding him for falling, is scolding the first thing before live saving

making money is about hustling

Mr, go and hustle

change line of business

ignore your wife and stop giving her attention, but she no try at all

my advice is simple, if you arent making it, find another location, move there alone and hustle hard, send upkeeping for children to your wife

men arent suppose to be complaining all the time, we are problem solvers, lets use our initiative to provide solutions to our problem

If making money was all about hustling, naija would have had loads of millionaires. I'm a witness. There's a path of life, once I found it, my hustling stopped!!

uninspired07:


OMG!!! To be honest, even in my worst financial state, I cannot go for her kind because she is ugly & has an ugly attitude. A woman’s beauty is her character & feministique queen is an uncouth person so I can’t have anything to do with her kind.

I am just disappointed in her because her ugliness didn’t instill a sense of humility in her.

She’s bad news to any man whether rich or poor. She is not a biblically virtuous woman & any man that marries her will end up unfortunate & die in no time.

I hear u

Meanwhile don't involve bible here cos u guys never practice what's in the bible. U use that only when it fits your narration.

Contumely:

Bought her a car and divorced?

saying I’m back in the game and not interested anymore... metaphorically

strungup79:


I'm already out of the house and out of town. I'm not lazy. I've put hands in odd jobs, low paying jobs and different types of business. I just need a little favour. I need the touh of God right now.

Hustling is not God's plan. Ask God to open your eyes and lead you. I'm a testimony.

funmisticqueen:
I don't know, not really.

I just picture you treating a Male patient as a doctor.

You: Explain your accident to me oga.

Male Patient: I got into an argument with my wife, it degenerate to fisticuffs and she did me this.

You: Is that all cos I presume you must be guilty somehow. Did you kill her in your former life for her to revenge this magnitude?

( mix cyanide and some overdose and hands over to Male patient)

Moment later, "nurse, call the ambulance service this man had gave up the ghost, inform the family while I prepare a medical report for I doubt wife is responsible for cause of death and injury ".