@ Poster,u have heard it all! Mine is a guy who i have known for 2years,we talk all the time but i hvnt met anybody close to him.We started dating not quite long and i still dnt know where he stays and havent met his folks cos they aint together,my crib is comfy so we spend most of the time at mine cos of my work schedule. I know its riduclous not to know ur bf's place but my question is why would a guy want to hide his crib for two months?

@Maryando

Your guy is married and you are dupemu (ask a yoruba person to translate)

eobaro is trying to cash in on the poster as well. Chai.

@Poster: I know it is not easy since you might have fallen in love and thinking you are close to 30 and need to settle down (naija style) . Child please, it is not just about settling down o.
This man is irresponsible and looks like he will use you as long as you let him.
Have you tried talking to him? Let him know that you will leave him if he doesn't change his ways. Stop giving him money now that he has a job to see if he loves you for who you are and not because of the cash flow.
When he threatens to borrow money from his mom and sister, tell him to go ahead. After all that is his family. He really knows how to have his way with you.
You are a strong independent woman; you deserve someone that will work with you in a relationship and not one that will work against you.

Maryando,

You live in the same city with a guy and he does not let you see his place for two months. Haba, haba the guy is married.

Flee from that man

@dayokanu,
Thank you for that, the best way is to pick race and stop waisting are time.

it seems you love him but be sure he loves you too or else you are heading for doom, but if you think he does not love you hesitate to give him money even if you have and see he will dump you like a piece of shit.

[quote author=quantumgal]I believe that people sometimes genuinely need help, without exaggeration of course. I hesitate on how to bring up the subject: perhaps ask him NOT to ask me for cash anymore or just let him know that it makes me uncomfortable![/quote

Child 1 word for u ''wahalaaaa''. Honey tell me, did yo momma drop u by head wen u was smal pikini?baby look a man is a provider not u honey.dis man wil neva lv u coz u giv hin da stuff**** n u alsi give him money.wat else cud he ask for?he dnt love u sugar n if he marries u,its bcoz he knws hw rich he wud get witout even sweating.lv dat man, u deserve beta

infact i only read da first few lines of ur post.......please continue giving until u r broke, come on girl im sure u know da answer to wot u asked. He sounds like a "waste man" sorry to say. If u luv urself dont borrow him anymore money (cos u know he aint borrowin it, its jus a trick to get u broke n then he will leave ur ass cos u wont be capable of takin care of his luxurious life lol)

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ebonyvibe: @Maryando

Your guy is married and you are dupemu (ask a yoruba person to translate)

uv gotta be wise