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Re: Don't Accuse A Lady Of Cheating If You Won't Marry Her by pocohantas(f): 7:41pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Ishilove: Is he? I had a feeling he is pretty reserved and well brought up sha. I also think he is very selective |
Re: Don't Accuse A Lady Of Cheating If You Won't Marry Her by Ishilove: 7:43pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
pocohantas:Oh he is. Tall, handsome, reserved, well brought up and likes them yellow pawpaw 1 Like |
Re: Don't Accuse A Lady Of Cheating If You Won't Marry Her by makydebbie(f): 7:45pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Ishilove:I wanted to say I like. |
Re: Don't Accuse A Lady Of Cheating If You Won't Marry Her by Nobody: 7:47pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Prec1ous: Thanks and that's exactly how I feel and there is no way I am gonna keep talking to her anymore because doing that it's another way of her coming back and she is not really what I want to be sincere with myself. |
Re: Don't Accuse A Lady Of Cheating If You Won't Marry Her by Muhylonaire(m): 7:47pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
ARKINZ: Bro I understand how you feel. We are in the same shoe. Relationship of 4years (from school) she just went into thin air. No arguments, no misunderstanding but instinct don't lie. Some nairalanders know nothing about relationship, hence they say what they want. Who told you guys that most of the 4years, 5years or even 6years that ended were not defined? One thing is certain, if a lady wants to cheat, she will cheat. Imagine someone we both gave our all, her mum and dad knows me well, same as mine. The only thing we are waiting for is to be a little bit more comfortable, so what other definition do you want? All in all, a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Bro, you will get another one. Dem no dey finish for market. 1 Like |
Re: Don't Accuse A Lady Of Cheating If You Won't Marry Her by Nobody: 7:48pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Michellekabod2:True but it's better to be termed 'desperate' than to be taken for a ride for 7 years. Most guys who use the term 'desperate' are those who are not ready for marriage. Let's be fair here; We all have sisters and aunts. How would you feel if your sister/daughter is approaching 35 and has been dating a guy for years? I've seen mothers weep because their daughters are yet to get married. Nobody should blame a lady eager to settle down. |
Re: Don't Accuse A Lady Of Cheating If You Won't Marry Her by Ishilove: 7:48pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
makydebbie:This is a new year. He may adjust his criteria |
Re: Don't Accuse A Lady Of Cheating If You Won't Marry Her by Nobody: 7:52pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Muhylonaire: He just dey pain for heart bro, I different kind of Pain. |
Re: Don't Accuse A Lady Of Cheating If You Won't Marry Her by chronique(m): 7:54pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
pocohantas: Why do people always think I'm a Casanova? I know I have the potential to be bad but I choose to be a good boy. |
Re: Don't Accuse A Lady Of Cheating If You Won't Marry Her by chronique(m): 7:55pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Ishilove: Me wey I spoil anyhow like Rotten Tomatoes... Why you de blow your guy cover now? |
Re: Don't Accuse A Lady Of Cheating If You Won't Marry Her by chronique(m): 7:57pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
pocohantas: Come, na who de give you Intel? How much did you pay for the info? |
Re: Don't Accuse A Lady Of Cheating If You Won't Marry Her by Gudlite: 8:02pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Relationship ought to be defined. Ladies should know when to quit and not to cheat.same with men |
Re: Don't Accuse A Lady Of Cheating If You Won't Marry Her by Skmoda360(m): 8:04pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Ok next pls..... Pls if you know any orphan in any public university who is at the verge of dropping out because of financial difficulties, tell such person to send his or her mail to: *inspirationafrica@yahoo.com* Done my part |
Re: Don't Accuse A Lady Of Cheating If You Won't Marry Her by pocohantas(f): 8:09pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
chronique: Lol. I don't think you are casanova. I was only teasing you. I think you are very selective and impatient. Do people think you are one? Maybe you give the vibe or it is the usual stereotype for goodlooking people. chronique: Picked them from your posts over the years. Don't mind me, I have strong instincts and a retentive memory. Points me in the right direction. |
Re: Don't Accuse A Lady Of Cheating If You Won't Marry Her by makydebbie(f): 8:13pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Ishilove: Lol, okay Mami. |
Re: Don't Accuse A Lady Of Cheating If You Won't Marry Her by solofresh(m): 8:37pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Well, i pray u catch your girlfriend one day having sex with another guy.Either you are getting married to her or not that is not my concern. Your reasoning ability is very low bro Imagine you a grown up son with this same issue,is this what you are going to tell him? |
Re: Don't Accuse A Lady Of Cheating If You Won't Marry Her by virago(f): 8:39pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
donstan18: That is your interpretation of his write up ? smh |
Re: Don't Accuse A Lady Of Cheating If You Won't Marry Her by chronique(m): 8:43pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
pocohantas: Yeah, I'm very selective, used to be quite impatient in the past but I've been able to really work on that(especially last year). You sure did well in picking me out over the years. Good job madmosseile!! 1 Like |
Re: Don't Accuse A Lady Of Cheating If You Won't Marry Her by virago(f): 8:43pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
izzou: A polyamorous relationship is also a relationship so what are you on about |
Re: Don't Accuse A Lady Of Cheating If You Won't Marry Her by virago(f): 8:48pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
1StopRudeness: How long does it take to get to the marriage lane If in a year or thereabouts you're still not sure about marriage with her then you can't blame her if she looks outside. I don't know what you guys are on about , he stated clearly that you shouldn't waste the lady's time by dating for years and you still claim you're not sure about marriage with her. If after a year or at most 18 months and you're not clear about the direction of the relationship you don't have a right to complain if she looks outside |
Re: Don't Accuse A Lady Of Cheating If You Won't Marry Her by folks4luv(f): 9:13pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
So if you a guy proposes marriage to his girlfriend of 4 years and the girl asks for time to think about it. Let's say she is still thinking after 6 months to one year, the guy won't start looking for another bae on a low key? It is easier to throw stones cause it's a girl involved. Walking away may be hard for some people mostly because somehow, they are emotionally tied to the person they are with so instead of just walking a way, they start 'scouting' for another talent while they hold on, who knows? This is not healthy anyway, the best is still to walk away if expectations are not being met. But to be sincere, I don't think it takes so long to decide what one want from a relationship. Someone that can't take a decision after 4 years is a time waster... For someone that wants marriage at that point in time |
Re: Don't Accuse A Lady Of Cheating If You Won't Marry Her by folks4luv(f): 9:15pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
She may not have sex with another guy, she will just entertain other suitors instead of shutting em out solofresh: |
Re: Don't Accuse A Lady Of Cheating If You Won't Marry Her by Nobody: 9:22pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
virago: How long does it take to get to marriage lane??See, all this ur question is standard textbook approach to relationship ...there’s no standard time...some guys are desperate enuf to propose under 24hrs, some 2weeks, I’ve seen 6months, and I’ve seen 7years...there’s no fast rule What is : if in a year..., if in 18months,.what’s all these time line??. sounds like a line from a 34 year old and above babe everyday talk..... No one is forcing anybody to be in a relationship, if the condition isn’t cool with u anymore, take a hike....but telling me I don’t have a right to complain that u are looking outside without calling it off with me just becos I’ve not taken u to mama is the highest form of nonsense I’ve ever heard...... what makes u think because I’ve not given u a ring now means I won’t give u at all?? 1 Like |
Re: Don't Accuse A Lady Of Cheating If You Won't Marry Her by Oyiboman69: 9:22pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Rapmoney:What if the girl Loves the boy and she refuses to end the relationship even if the odds are not in her favour? |
Re: Don't Accuse A Lady Of Cheating If You Won't Marry Her by openmine(m): 9:25pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Nanatrendy:Go back and peruse what the op said! He is in support of cheating in a relationship! If there is no proper defining of the destination of the relationship,the lady should QUIT rather than continue staying in the relationship and cheat at the same time! Such suggestion by the Op is at best illogical and unorthodox! My sister will be sensible enough to know that a partner is aimless or responsible from the first 6 months they start dating which will ensure that she doesn't wait for 7 years before knowing where she stands...she will simply quit the relationship and look for a serious partner! Simple! 1 Like |
Re: Don't Accuse A Lady Of Cheating If You Won't Marry Her by openmine(m): 9:27pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
TopNotchdecor:Exactly! |
Re: Don't Accuse A Lady Of Cheating If You Won't Marry Her by virago(f): 10:02pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
1StopRudeness: So I'm supposed to just wait on the hope that you'll give me a ring even if you haven't done so in 7 years , listen to your bullcrap. So I wait 7 years and you suddenly realise you're not meant for me , please say something else. And you saying it's textbook approach is just an excuse for your philandering ways , the earlier you let her know the better for both of you. |
Re: Don't Accuse A Lady Of Cheating If You Won't Marry Her by Nobody: 10:12pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
virago: What part of ...”if the relationship condition isn’t okay for you, take a hike” don’t U understand ? Why are u sounding like u are angry... nobody is saying I should wait for 7years ....Ddnt u see that in my comment, nobody is forcing u to stay..... There are people dating for 10years, 7years befor proposing.?? They waited, they took the risk and it paid them off.... U don’t want to go, but u want to stay with the guy Incase he will still propose and still cheat so if u get another proposal outside u can dump him... Olè nièeeeee... 1 Like |
Re: Don't Accuse A Lady Of Cheating If You Won't Marry Her by Prec1ous(m): 10:35pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
virago: If you are not getting ring like you expected, leave the relationship na. Why will you stay with someone and start cheating or sleeping with other men? That is what he is asking you! 1 Like |
Re: Don't Accuse A Lady Of Cheating If You Won't Marry Her by zakkxx: 10:54pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Abeg free this ladies I don’t blame them u wan dem to wait forever abi. 4 year which kind wickedness b dat na. So make she take risk then later u go dum her like hot potato abi. Ladies carry go abeg afar as u don’t sleep around date 13x30 until d serious one proposed. |
Re: Don't Accuse A Lady Of Cheating If You Won't Marry Her by victorian(f): 11:04pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Michellekabod2: After a year ke? One year is too long to wait, if he hasn't made up his mind to wife me. 6months tops! I don't have the luxury giving a guy after one year of my life before moving on or stay put. Time waits for no-one 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Don't Accuse A Lady Of Cheating If You Won't Marry Her by Martinez39(m): 11:33pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
victorian:Strong independent woman, no time to waste nah? 3 Likes 1 Share |
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