My First Date In 2020. What A Nigerian Lady Did.

What happened yesterday left me in shock.
I least expected it. Not from a Nigerian lady.

Yesterday I went to visit a lady in her state. Arriving her state, I told her I've dropped.
She texted me to go to an eatery and wait for her. I didn't want to spend much on her so I asked for an average eatery bought a drink and waited for her.
She came and told me she didn't like the place that it was crowded. She took me to one bigger eatery within there. Just as I entered the eatery I said to my self "I ain't spending more than 5k here". We sat and she called the waiter and asked me to make my order I told her to make first. She ordered for food and drinks for herself. I later ordered for mine. What I ordered outweigh hers in price because I said to myself "I can't spend less on me and more on a leech".

After eating we sat down to gist. Along the line I felt pressed and I went to the gent. Came back gist and it was time to go. I went to the waiter asked her how much the bill is. She said 11,600. I pulled out my purse to get my card I heard the waiter said "She has paid". I asked "She? who?" She said "the lady you followed paid". I was shocked and felt ashamed.

Since I was born, this is the first time a Nigerian girl has ever spent on me.

There's something I learned yesterday. If you want to date a Nigerian lady, go for the ones that are less active on social media and are not the hipsters.
Also, don't go for any lady below 26years..

Another one.... See what ubunja and co have caused? Now you think every girl is out to spend your money

Yesterday I went to visit a lady in her state. Arriving her state, I told her I've dropped.
She texted me to go to an eatery and wait for her. I didn't want to spend much on her so I asked for an average eatery bought a drink and waited for her.

Understandable... Naija is hard

milemimi93:
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She came and told me she didn't like the place that it was crowded. She took me to one bigger eatery within there. Just as I entered the eatery I said to my self "I ain't spending more than 5k here". We sat and she called the waiter and asked me to make my order I told her to make first. She ordered for food and drinks for herself. I later ordered for mine. What I ordered outweigh hers in price because I said to myself "I can't spend less on me and more on a leech".

The biggest problem with guys like you is that you love stereotypes. How can you just assume that a girl who you just went out with is a leech? Judging humans without evidence is the lowest a man can get. Very daft and ugly way of life.

...Also, don't go for any lady below 26years.

There he goes stereotyping again..
Fvck... I give up on you. You're bent on this stereotype thing. I wonder how you went out with all the ladies below 26 in Nigeria.

By the way, otedola's daughter is below 26 and she will take you and buy you out fine fine. Stop running you mouth because you have a dick and testicles. That one no EPP anybody

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I want to understand, are you complaining or are you angry?

I like liberal feminists

Change your circle of friends.

When is the wedding date?

If she had not paid, what would you have done?
Considering the bill was over 6k more than what you budgeted

milemimi93:
There's something I learned yesterday. If you want to date a Nigerian lady, go for the ones that are less active on social media and are not the hipsters.
Also, don't go for any lady below 26years..

True! the ones that are online are complete trash..

SweetBuns:
Another one.... See what ubunja and co have caused? Now you think every girl is out to spend your money



Understandable... Naija is hard



The biggest problem with guys like you is that you love stereotypes. How can you just assume that a girl who you just went out with is a leech? Judging humans without evidence is the lowest a man can get. Very daft and ugly way of life.




There he goes stereotyping again..
Fvck... I give up on you. You're bent on this stereotype thing. I wonder how you went out with all the ladies below 26 in Nigeria.

By the way, otedola's daughter is below 26 and she will take you and buy you out fine fine. Stop running you mouth because you have a dick and testicles. That one no EPP anybody

Sister come.close

Don't be shy, come close na

Pls tell me...
Wat did milemimi do to you

I am not angry or complaining

Okpa042:
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I want to understand, are you complaining or are you angry?

I like liberal feminists

I am just shocked and feeling guilty.. I had to take her to a shopping mall to buy her stuffs. Getting to the mall I told her to pick any thing she wants that I will pay.

she picked just 3 things. When we got to the counter the cashier said the bill is 870.
I was shocked again that she didn't get more things for herself. With joy, I gave the cashier 1000 and told him to keep the change.

U got me on this..

donstan18:
Change your circle of friends.

Thanks

Dude, she indirectly sent you a message; She's miss independent. If you are not a gigolo, my advice is you hold on to her if she's truly your spec.

First impression out on a date really matters... While at it, some ladies will just want to seize the opportunity to milk and exploit you... I've had my fair share of opportunists .

The day a Nigerian lady will pay for my meal or anything in my stead, that day I will wife her

Bro, you are a lucky man. Am too mature to bash women or do what these small boys do here denigrating women but I have to be frank n truthful on this one. Women like this are rare in Nigeria.

Would have paid but my body language would have changed..

emeijeh:
When is the wedding date?

If she had not paid, what would you have done?
Considering the bill was over 6k more than what you budgeted ?

Kingrexyl:
True! the ones that are online are complete trash..

This girl does not have IG or Twitter. She only has Facebook and Whatsapp. I went through her post she last posted pics on Facebook in 2018. She isn't active on social media.

The way she constructed her tenses during our convo I cut cap for her..
Lady gave good brains.

She is bro. Would it be proper I tell her tribe?
I think tribe has nothing to do with her personality.

MJBOLT:

are you sure she's a nigerian because nigerian ladies will never pay for their own food if they are on a date.

I'll be 30 this year. I have bin in so many relationships. The first woman to spend on me among all the ladies I have ever dated is an Asian woman. This is my first time seeing a Nigerian lady spent on a date.

Richnerd69:
Dude, she indirectly sent you a message; She's miss independent. If you are not a gigolo, my advice is you hold on to her if she's truly your spec.

First impression out on a date really matters... While at it, some ladies will just want to seize the opportunity to milk and exploit you... I've had my fair share of opportunists .

The day a Nigerian lady will pay for my meal or anything in my stead, that day I will wife her

2020 is starting off nice.

SweetBuns:
Another one.... See what ubunja and co have caused? Now you think every girl is out to spend your money



Understandable... Naija is hard



The biggest problem with guys like you is that you love stereotypes. How can you just assume that a girl who you just went out with is a leech? Judging humans without evidence is the lowest a man can get. Very daft and ugly way of life.




There he goes stereotyping again..
Fvck... I give up on you. You're bent on this stereotype thing. I wonder how you went out with all the ladies below 26 in Nigeria.

By the way, otedola's daughter is below 26 and she will take you and buy you out fine fine. Stop running you mouth because you have a dick and testicles. That one no EPP anybody

thank you for spreading the ubunja gospel.
If anyone wanna know for themselves what this ubunja writes about, just follow this link: https://www.nairaland.com/ubunja/topics

milemimi93:
She is bro. Would it be proper I tell her tribe?
I think tribe has nothing to do with her personality.

What's her tribe?

Please which tribe is she from?

jampro123:
Please which tribe is she from?

na owerri babe my guy,,,they spend on their guys,,, hahahagfgjyyyaaaaahgg

Please ask if she has single friends.

milemimi93:
What happened yesterday left me in shock.
I least expected it. Not from a Nigerian lady.

Yesterday I went to visit a lady in her state. Arriving her state, I told her I've dropped.
She texted me to go to an eatery and wait for her. I didn't want to spend much on her so I asked for an average eatery bought a drink and waited for her.
She came and told me she didn't like the place that it was crowded. She took me to one bigger eatery within there. Just as I entered the eatery I said to my self "I ain't spending more than 5k here". We sat and she called the waiter and asked me to make my order I told her to make first. She ordered for food and drinks for herself. I later ordered for mine. What I ordered outweigh hers in price because I said to myself "I can't spend less on me and more on a leech".

After eating we sat down to gist. Along the line I felt pressed and I went to the gent. Came back gist and it was time to go. I went to the waiter asked her how much the bill is. She said 11,600. I pulled out my purse to get my card I heard the waiter said "She has paid". I asked "She? who?" She said "the lady you followed paid". I was shocked and felt ashamed.

Since I was born, this is the first time a Nigerian girl has ever spent on me.

Wow!
There are several ladies like that. However, it equates to one in a million

Nigerian girls are something else but bro you are lucky. Here is my experience with a girl I met and took outing within 24 hours, me I can't shout I rebuked her ASAP

Sweet! I love this, an independent woman always turn me on. Know your worth

Yoruba. but i think tribe has nothing to do with this. according to her she grew up in the South

jampro123:
Please which tribe is she from?

Yoruba

Gina2019:
What's her tribe?

lol

superfitsez:

na owerri babe my guy,,,they spend on their guys,,, hahahagfgjyyyaaaaahgg

Why?

dreaizy:
Please ask if she has single friends.

pickatyou:
Nigerian girls are something else but bro you are lucky. Here is my experience with a girl I met and took outing within 24 hours, me I can't shout I rebuked her ASAP

Bro,the reply wey you give her sef...u no get chill o

Man I havnt recovered from the shock i had yesterday..

pickatyou:
Nigerian girls are something else but bro you are lucky. Here is my experience with a girl I met and took outing within 24 hours, me I can't shout I rebuked her ASAP

I believe naija women are turninh g a new leaf

kimlee3:
Sweet! I love this, an independent woman always turn me on. Know your worth

As early as 7am today, she don already called me to know how my journey was.