Ifyjos:
Yes I know that I’m not good in writing English,please forgive my errors .

Aunty why did u let hate and bitterness get d better of u?
You're meant to be very Happy that your sister is helping u with your child. I know many baby mama's like u that their family chased out
But you were given accommodation, food. You're not even working o.. You're meant to be thankful u have such a nice family but no you became bitter.

At 20, u don't have any future plans only to get married. U did not go to school so u can't get a white collar job
U don't have any business whatsoever. Look at yourself and imagine where your mates are and where u are.

Try and Start up something, leave your baby daddy alone. You're not getting younger. That guy will still leave you

And if u know any means possible to bring your sister's fiance back, better do it. If u don't want karma to reset your face

So some girls still dey mumu like this on top boy matter. Man wey go still leave u

FloraEC:

Lolzz, seriously your sister should start up business for you and your supposed baby daddy. Is she that extremely rich, have she not done enough by training your child in school.
How old are you again?

my sister, no be small thing o. Like say make I slap her. Even if her sister is very rich self. She's just an ingrate.

She's not even remorseful for giving having a baby for a smoker. She dey even support the guy self.

Human being dey o.

Ifyjos:
Yes I had my baby at the age of 15 . She was born 10 may 2014
quote author=wizflame post=85587592]so you have birth at 15?


HMMM OKAY

Eleribu ni e

your sister can carry your matter to an MFM church to pray "fall down and die," prayers, against those responsible for her predicament.

And you will not be able to beat the consequences!
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Loooool . This is hard oh. How would you waited for household enemy to destroy you before raining fire on them.

Maybe the OP wanted to fall down and die (just saying oh ) I think somebody somewhere has started raining prayer of fire on her that's why she came online vomiting words like witches because she longer have peace of mind

Better do the needful before your sister wake up from slumber

umarshehu58:


She be tout just like her guy

She forgot that her sis wants the best for her
If she get sense(which I doubt) she would have taken her did insults to motivate the guy
But no
Aunty decide to spoil her sis joy

Ifyjos:
My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again.

So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October.

She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened.

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house.

I’m Feeling helpless

Your sister is a very good and kind person. You are the one that's bad. You opened your legs for a man at the age of 15,you LovePeddler,you olosho,you prost.itute and you expect a good sister to be praising you for this? Your type will later do family planning for your young daughter as well because she will likely start collecting dicks very early and before marriage just like her mother. Apart from being an harlot,you were so wicked that you decided to ruin your sister's life the same way dick ruined yours. Its obvious you couldn't further your education because of your love for penis,I could see that from your bad English

AIIyIic:


I can't believe what I just read

This one bad
No joy

You're such a fool. First you ruin yourself by opening your legs to a guy who can't be responsible, then you proceed to ruin the life of your sister who has been telling you the truth and has been paying for your daughter's school fees. Okay let me even ask yeah, since you gave birth to your daughter, what have either you or your dumb dumb of a boyfriend done to get your lives on the right track and at least make a decent living for yourselves? let me guess, nothing. Rather you leech on to your sister and then try to ruin her life. I hope Karma pays you big time. Useless fellow.

Ifyjos:
My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again.

So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October.

She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened.

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house.

I’m Feeling helpless

Go and tell her former fiance everything.

I put it to you that you are a lowlife that will never achieve success nor growth for the rest of your life. Be assured that except you genuinely repents and seek forgiveness from your sister, you will NEVER experience joy, and the consequences of your actions shall haunt you forever.



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Ifyjos:
My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again.

So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October.

She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened.

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house.

I’m Feeling helpless

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Evil being

trustworthy1:

I agree with you. In addition, I don't think her sister's ex fiancee loves her or deserves her. He shouldn't have just backed out just like that without hearing out from her elder sister or investigating properly. What if they later got married and someone from no where accused her wife wrongly, will he back out just like that?The fiancee thinks he has it all and looks like someone that is full of himself. The Op is very wrong. The sister wants the best for her. Op should be thinking of how to go back to school or learn a trade and not revolving her life around good for nothing guy that got her pregnant at a tender age. She is still young.

Who shouldn't back out?? Didn't you read the part where she said the fiancé's life was THREATENED? If na you, nkó? Will you stay in that relationship and lose your life, after getting all those death threats??

GidiWoodsMan:


A lot of families are like this! Smiling in each other's faces while secretly working for destruction via diabolical and other criminal acts!

Only God and common sense can save one.

She doesn’t want the best for me , all she wanted is for me to become a single mom and suffer while she will be happily married

blesskewe:

She forgot that her sis wants the best for her
If she get sense(which I doubt) she would have taken her did insults to motivate the guy
But no
Aunty decide to spoil her sis joy

It is not easy

Malawian:

Go and tell her former fiance everything.

You can keep lying to yourself but the only reason she missed work is you and your WhatsApp posting boyfriend

N now you have given him more reasons to leave you with your inability to stand for someone that has sacrificed for your family. If only you could see things from your sister's perspective, assuming you are real, if u had finished school n got a good job, ur little token will help the family's finances, instead from the little she has, shes also paying your child's fees.

If truly u want this issue resolved, go and meet your mum n confess to her, she will guide you.

N borrow yourself brain please. Men leave women all the time....

Ifyjos:
He can never dump me because If he wanted to leave me , he would have done it long time ago when I was still pregnant. He never denied me and my pictures is everywhere on his Facebook and WhatsApp profile and our future will be greater. Not I’m not responsible for her loosing her job , she lost her job because at the time her fiancé dumped her , she was suicidal and missed work for almost a month and lost her job.

OP you are a big fool.
1. Opened leg for a man at 15.
2. Gave birth to a child without plans to train him/her.
3. Knowing your sister takes care of you and your baby you still allow the guy she doesnt like come to her house. shey the guy no get house?.
4. Slapping your sister for insulting you?
5. Breaking her marriage/life...

See God will punish you in this life, your sister did nothing to you, even the arrest was just to let you open your eyes, truly a tout is the father of the child and i am sure you are also an omo wobe, that is witchcraft and the bible says suffer not the witch to live.

You're such a disgusting soul to do this to your own blood because of a boyfriend not even a husband. Even if is a husband that doesn't warrant you. Mehn, A man who has not paid your bride price. What a shame you are to the whole family and the general public. Don't worry, karma will surely catch up with you cos you will surely receive this in double folds.

Ifyjos:
It is not easy

Then Write a letter and send.

I didn’t ruin my life because having a child at a young age it is not the end of world but my sister made me loose my confidence and motivation. She doesn’t pay her full school fees , she only help if my guy doesn’t have any money , it is not a new thing because they are other people who had paid school fees for strangers before , and there’s nothing wrong if my sister does the same for my child , because my child it’s like her daughter too. Someday I will pay her back by taking good care of her future children too.

solonubinho:
You're such a fool. First you ruin yourself by opening your legs to a guy who can't be responsible, then you proceed to ruin the life of your sister who has been telling you the truth and has been paying for your daughter's school fees. Okay let me even ask yeah, since you gave birth to your daughter, what have either you or your dumb dumb of a boyfriend done to get your lives on the right track and at least make a decent living for yourselves? let me guess, nothing. Rather you leech on to your sister and then try to ruin her life. I hope Karma pays you big time. Useless fellow.

Hello, if you are still angry with your sister, which i know you are why don't you LEAVE HER and let HER wallow in the PAIN you've caused hER after all its your revenge. Then go ahead and get married or PRAY for your guy and hope TO live with him... You MUST bear the consequences of the action you destroyed her happiness just as you said she destroyed yours but yours is NOT destroyed by the way becos your man is still there.

Ifyjos:
She doesn’t want the best for me , all she wanted is for me to become a single mom and suffer while she will be happily married

Ifyjos:
My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again.

So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October.

She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened.

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house.

I’m Feeling helpless

What happened is like pouring a liquid milk on the sand, it has sinked and can't be recuped

The best thing is to buy another tin milk

Pay a visit to her boyfriend if you can and ask him why he called off the marriage

Hear from him, if he say he has gotten so many calls threatening him of her relationship with her and how he was told about her way ward life

Ask him if he still loves her, if he said yes he is but tired of reports about her

Pls tell him to follow you

If you are a Catholic, take him to the nearest blessed sacrament and tell him you want to reveal something to him but he should pls keep it a tight secret

Open up to him and vomit out all you did and why you did so

If you are not a Catholic, take him to any available church as you walk down with him and do same confession to him

Forgiveness is from God not man

If you don't do it

You will never experience peace

You are the architect of your sister's misfortune and she is going to tackle it by asking God to punish whomever that spoilt the plans of her marriage

If she dies of depression, you killed her and she will make sure the person that did this to her will remain miserable

As for you, you have already tolled the wrong path of life by opening your leg to a nuisance

As far as am concerned, your guy is a liability to his family and if you don't take are it will get to a stage you can no longer withdraw from him and if you do, consider yourself gone below six ft

Your sister was right insulting your guy because he brought burden to her

Now everything has spoilt just because you allowed devil to direct your path

You are living a stupid life with a stupid fellow who has no plans for life

Your sister lost her suitor because of your attitude

She lost her job, I will still attribute it to you

Your father is sick, she can no longer contribute money for treatment, it's still your fault

The whole family is not happy the way things are going, it's still your fault

You don't have anything tangible doing, it's your fault also

Run to God for mercies, he is the only one that can put things right in your family

I don’t hate her but I’m trying to clarification on what she did to me because some people are blaming me for getting pregnant at a young age , and they are blaming my guy because he has nothing. But I know that God has better plans for me and him , the situations that we are passing through today , it is not permanent and one day it will become a story to motivate others. Like I said getting pregnant at a young age was wrong but She is my greatest blessings from God and I don’t regret having my child , she is the best daughter ever

Vanzcharles:
Hello, if you are still angry with your sister, which i know you are why don't you LEAVE HER and let HER wallow in the PAIN you've caused hER after all its your revenge. Then go ahead and get married or PRAY for your guy and hope TO live with him... You MUST bear the consequences of the action you destroyed her happiness just as you said she destroyed yours but yours is NOT destroyed by the way becos your man is still there.

YOU BE WINCH............WHINCH YOU BE.............YOUR USELESS IGBO SMOKING BOYFRIEND IS USING YOU AND WHEN HE FINNALY DUMPS YOU .YOU WILL HAVE NO WHERE TO RUN TO.ASHAWO WEY BORN FOR 15YEARS....JUST PACK YOUR LOAD AND GO FOR DELIVERANCE THEN BEG YOUR SISTER FOR FORGIVENESS THEN PICK UP THE PIECES OF YOUR LIFE ALL OVER AGAIN

[quote author=Ifyjos post=85596404]She doesn't care about me because if she did want the best for me , she would would support me and my guy to be together and establish a business for us instead she wanted me to break up with him to become a single mom as if she would have marry me or even take care of my child the way her father does. That's something she cannot do because theres nobody that will take care of my child like her father. He has better plans but things are just difficult for him. He is a good man he can never ask me to kill any of my relatives because If that was the case then it would have kill my sister long time ago and I'm not stupid to do such things. Yes I know what we did was wrong but we only wanted revenge for her to feel the pain that she has been causing us but I just realised that it was the wrong path to take , which I'm regretting but that doesn't make us bad people please


You are the most stupid and heartless human animal,from all the trash you are writing to justify you action here shows you are not even remorseful.You not only disrespect and disgrace your sister but you whole family they show disown you sef.you have done every thing wrong and still say you deserve her support (which she even supported your child and feed you too am sure) you already destroyed your future and you still want to remain there Gosh "Open a business for you?"come to think of it are you not already a single mom? "you only wanted to revenge" what wrong did she do to you?for loving you and wanting the best for you?he will tell you to sell you fathers house too and you will see nothing in it...Idiot SMH...You both are just irresponsible and wicked...and you will meet you loo soon..

to send the letter to her fiancé ?

Malawian:

Then Write a letter and send.

THE GIRL NA WHINCH .....SHE BETTER CORRECT HER ERRORS AND AMEND HER WAYS LIKE YOU HAVE SPOKEN.

frozen70:


What happened is like pouring a liquid milk on the sand, it has sinked and can't be recuped

The best thing is to buy another tin milk

Pay a visit to her boyfriend if you can and ask him why he called off the marriage

Hear from him, if he say he has gotten so many calls threatening him of her relationship with her and how he was told about her way ward life

Ask him if he still loves her, if he said yes he is but tired of reports about her

Pls tell him to follow you

If you are a Catholic, take him to the nearest blessed sacrament and tell him you want to reveal something to him but he should pls keep it a tight secret

Open up to him and vomit out all you did and why you did so

If you are not a Catholic, take him to any available church as you walk down with him and do same confession to him

Forgiveness is from God not man

If you don't do it

You will never experience peace

You are the architect of your sister's misfortune and she is going to tackle it by asking God to punish whomever that spoilt the plans of her marriage

If she dies of depression, you killed her and she will make sure the person that did this to her will remain miserable

As for you, you have already tolled the wrong path of life by opening your leg to a nuisance

As far as am concerned, your guy is a liability to his family and if you don't take are it will get to a stage you can no longer withdraw from him and if you do, consider yourself gone below six ft

Your sister was right insulting your guy because he brought burden to her

Now everything has spoilt just because you allowed devil to direct your path

You are living a stupid life with a stupid fellow who has no plans for life

Your sister lost her suitor because of your attitude

She lost her job, I will still attribute it to you

Your father is sick, she can no longer contribute money for treatment, it's still your fault

The whole family is not happy the way things are going, it's still your fault

You don't have anything tangible doing, it's your fault also

Run to God for mercies, he is the only one that can put things right in your family

God forbid ,he will never dump me because our love and bond is stronger than ever. My guy is better than most married men here . He is not rich but he put my daughter and I first in the centre of his life

rita25:
YOU BE WINCH............WHINCH YOU BE.............YOUR USELESS IGBO SMOKING BOYFRIEND IS USING YOU AND WHEN HE FINNALY DUMPS YOU .YOU WILL HAVE NO WHERE TO RUN TO.ASHAWO WEY BORN FOR 15YEARS....JUST PACK YOUR LOAD AND GO FOR DELIVERANCE THEN BEG YOUR SISTER FOR FORGIVENESS THEN PICK UP THE PIECES OF YOUR LIFE ALL OVER AGAIN

Lie lie story

rita25:
THE GIRL NA WHINCH .....SHE BETTER CORRECT HER ERRORS AND AMEND HER WAYS LIKE YOU HAVE SPOKEN.

My dear, not an agent of witches, a witch her self, live one

This is what we call enemy within

You obviously are still young and naive and very stupid that's why you did this....so a young man who smokes and is a tout is better for you than your sister who is working and actually helping out?
Believe you me you'll regret what you've done so much in your life later because subsequently all this so called love and good guy you have with this guy will fizzle out and you'll be left alone...it is then you'll understand that your sister was doing all that out of love. Agreed she went a bit far but she did it out of love. Now welcome to a life of regret.

comtem2011:
my sister, no be small thing o. Like say make I slap her. Even if her sister is very rich self. She's just an ingrate.

She's not even remorseful for giving having a baby for a smoker. She dey even support the guy self.

Human being dey o.

The girl is unrepentant,very incorrigible human being. Yunno first love things na, ndị team Mills and Boons. Happily ever after
Fight and destroy my own blood because of man, hian only if I'm jazzed.