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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Hypnotise: 12:19pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Ebenezar2020:Are you trying to say the lady is under my influence? |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ebenezar2020(m): 12:58pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Hypnotise:na wah no Moniker we no go see for nairaland ![]() domor sir ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 1:09pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
No I didn’t go to his office again because He won’t even want to see me and That would be a waste of time and transport. But before I left the house this morning , I did recorded some voices videos narrating what I did and sent them to my sister WhatsApp, so far she hasn’t seen it yet because it’s only showing one tick and her last seen on WhatsApp was yesterday 8.19pm so I’m just here waiting to see what will happen when she listen to those voices I sent her. I’m scared and my mind is telling me because she hasn’t seen them yet I should deleted but I don’t know if I should or not SlimBrawnie: 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ginaz(f): 1:42pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Ifyjos: You still live in fairytale and your naivety is out of this world. Don’t worry, reality will soon hit you and wake you up from your slumber and yes, you are very foolish . 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ehibiggirl(f): 1:45pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Hestywhyt:so the troll has been identified. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by ffo(m): 2:30pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Ifyjos:Don't delete it, let her see it, also be praying about it, you should have still make an attempt to see her fiancee 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by SlimBrawnie(f): 2:41pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Ifyjos:It's a good thing you've done. Please don't delete them. You are a strong lady and will definitely withstand whatever result will come out of it. Just remember to also pray for God to touch her heart also so that things don't escalate. All the best. 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 2:45pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Ifyjos:Ha, It is obvious that you deserve to be poor and miserable. All 12 levels of hell will wait for you. Thunder fire you. To harm your blood sister, benefactor and fellow woman. You did all you did due to jealousy. You deserve to be ostracized from your family. May I never meet people like you. Better confess you wretched fool. Your sister is right, no wonder you got pregnant at an early age. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 2:47pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
yettymuse:I swear to God. How do I unread this bullsh¡T? |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Livescores: 2:47pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Dear ifyjos, Please deactivate immediately, stop replying posts here. Thanks. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 2:56pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Ifyjos:let me tell you the truth. You guys will soak kpokpo garri and allow it to swell for the rest of your life. That's a fact. Let's even leave what you did to your sister aside. 1. You are twenty with a child, so most likely you haven't finished school, so you're uneducate making you 10 times more likely to be useless to society. 2. You are still suffering and smiling with a useless tout and you are calling him your husband. Even if he makes it which I doubt, he will still dump you and get a better woman. Also he is most likely uneducated. 3. The man has no vision for his life, no plan. but to drink and smoke his liver and lungs away. It is only a while before you start downloading his blows like etisalat data. 4. God grace is not going to make you rich. Hardwork and diligence will. He seems to be doing neither because he had time to plot your sisters demise. 5. You are both small minded and petty, plus you are swimming in the pond of poverty mentality. Michellekabod2 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by CeterisXVII: 2:57pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Livescores:Deactivate? ![]() ![]() Let other people read and learn, from it. Let them see how a person with a self-entitled mentality, poor behaviour, and lousy attitude can use her own hands to ruin herself, and her sibling. Let them see that a man or woman's enemies, are members of their household. ![]() Let them witness first hand, man's inhumanity to man (or should I say, woman's inhumanity to woman)? ![]() Let them also realise how one wrong action can alter a person's destiny and cause serious consequences, down the line. By getting pregnant at 14 and giving birth at 15, this Ifyjos girl, single handedly messed up her education, and embarked on a journey of hardship. ![]() And let the rest of us all pray and thank God, that we are so fortunate to have good siblings who have our best interest at heart, and would not ruin our own lives, like this wayward girl did to her own biological sister! ![]() At least, that is what I have been doing ever since I came across this thread! ![]() 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 3:05pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Ifyjos:To whom much is given much is expected and you are a dissapointment. You don't deserve a business from her, you aren't worth it |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 3:06pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
CeterisXVII:Amen 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 3:06pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Ok thanks very much ffo: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 3:07pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Ok thanks very much SlimBrawnie: 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Livescores: 3:07pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
CeterisXVII:Hey mate,I don't know the Op .... in as much I condemned her actions, I really don't like the way folks here are taking advantage of vulnerability, enough of the insults. The previous 35 pages can serve as lessons for those who want to learn. The thread is a joke already. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by CeterisXVII: 3:12pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Livescores:Nobody is taking advantage of her vulnerability. In fact, it is the other way round. She has been taking advantage of other people's attempts to advise her, by insulting them, justifying her horrible actions, and deriding her sibling. 9 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 3:13pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Ifyjos:he can never.dump you? It is like they have used your destiny and sense to play ludo. You drove your sister to depression and made her lose her job. So you caused it 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Livescores: 3:15pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
CeterisXVII:k 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 3:16pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Ifyjos:with your husband na 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by imustsaymymindo: 3:22pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Ifyjos: You would be fine. It would pass. But you'll have to face the consequences of your actions. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 3:27pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Meliian:it isn't actually |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 3:37pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Meliian:Nope, accounting for the child is bare minimum |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by DeeMain(m): 5:02pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Depending on the type of family you have, confessing directly might lead to letting all hell loose and a series of events that can prove disastrous. It's not all families that can handle this madness. Like I said in my previous post, unless you are sure your family can handle this, go the indirect route at first - try anonymous tips to the fiance at first and see how things pan out, if it works and the fiance's mind changes towards her, then you can confess. At least they are back together. Alternatively, go to a church or NGO you respect and that can beg on your behalf or protect you and rehabilitate you if your family proves too difficult. Let them take up this issue for you. Let them beg and negotiate a soft landing for you. You do not have what it takes to handle the fallout of this. My hunch is that going directly is a bad idea. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ehibiggirl(f): 5:14pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Ifyjos:this is one step in the right direction. Make up your mind to bare whatever comes. Beg for her forgiveness that the only way you can ever be free, even if the relationship never works out between them. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by letitrainnow(m): 7:23pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
ffo:this one na 11 count offence you are guilty of. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by MrCork: 10:58pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE: bro u tak too much mennn ![]() |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by EhisChelsea1(m): 7:31am On Jan 12, 2020 |
Ifyjos: @Ifyjos, you confess and end this thing once and for all now. We have all said all there is to be said.... End this talk, responses and insults plus fight. The ONLY MSG WE WANT TO HEAR FROM U NOW IS THAT U HAVE CONFESSED......be responsible for once plz......and show us our time and data used in commenting on this thread isn't wasted 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by bigpicture001: 9:51am On Jan 12, 2020 |
Plz ifyjoy... How did it go...? Can't itch enough to know. Wish u d best of luck as u do d right thing |
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