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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Juliearth(f): 3:40am On Feb 16, 2020 |
Michellekabod2: Trust me, the issue here stems farrr from the pedophile's financial status. It totally has nothing to do with it. Personally, I felt it was absolutely cold for op to allow her (permit me to use the word irresponsible) boyfriend to mete such treatment at her sister. I have younger ones and my kid sister is around 17. If any man puts her in this condition ( God forbid) you won't expect me to give him a gold medal. Moreso, it must have been disappointing for the op's elder sister to see her sister frollicking with the same man who put her in the family way. Did you read the part where the op said they BOTH beat her up and that was why she locked them up? Like the pedophile who puts my sister in a family way laying his hands on me because he overstepped his boundaries by coming to my house? Can you tolerate that? Has it not occurred to you that there isnt smoke without fire? She may have asked him to leave (albeit in her usual insultive way) and he refused, thus the rancor. She dropped out of school due to her condition, but don't people get pregnant, give birth and bounce back to their normal lives(school)? In op's case, she chose to continue with that same man...and you expect the sister to be happy? Let's not make the victim the villain here. Although her choice of words were not stellar, but is that a good enough reason to do such to her. MARRIAGE/RELATIONSHIPS ARE MEANT TO UNITE FAMILIES AND NOT TEAR THEM APART... Thus if her boyfriend could harbour such plan against her sister,it means he may wake up one day to suggest that she kills her entire family and the airhead would definitely buy into the plan and that is my worry with the man... He is irresponsible and there is a high probability that he is not serious about his situationship. Real men won't take advantage of 14 year olds and if he meant well for them,by now, he would have secured a place for them ( even if its in a shanty) to protect the LO from possible assault. Lastly, nobody hates the op( I for one don't and I am sure Ehibbigirl and the others don't as well) but it seems she is not totally sober from her actions and inactions. 11 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Juliearth(f): 3:45am On Feb 16, 2020 |
yeyeosoronga: Exactly! The op and her abuser outdid themselves and its funny to see people trying to coin out a reasonable angle as to why they may have done that. Judging by the op's demeanor, she may have always been stubborn, the sister may have warned her countless times before the mistake... I am an elder sister and the way I look out for my sisters is second to none. The day I saw my immediate younger sister (above 18) strolling with an opposite sex, I pretty much accosted her from him, interrogated her and when i wasn't sure of her replies. I involved soldiers to warn the guy from the other end to steer clear. That is the length elder sisters can go to protect their blood. So I totally feel the pain of the op's sister and all the hurtful things she said were borne out of that pain. 4 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Juliearth(f): 3:48am On Feb 16, 2020 |
midnighter: God bless you, we don't give a fricking frack about his financial status but the whole situationship, just like you mentioned it. Apt! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Juliearth(f): 3:50am On Feb 16, 2020 |
James289: Hasn't karma caught up with her? 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Juliearth(f): 3:51am On Feb 16, 2020 |
kingphilip: Gosh! I can only imagine the sister's pain right now!!! Please God, do not make my siblings become the vile over me and/or each other. 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Odemok(m): 10:32am On Feb 16, 2020 |
And you think if the guy was responsible and not broke, all this problem would have occurred? He would have married her out of her sister's sight. Michellekabod2: 6 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Diiiamoond: 9:20pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
You will never know peace, what your sister is facing today yourself and your foolish boyfriend will get it back in million times.what a wicked soul you are |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 11:03pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
Look at this stupid fool and who are you to tell me that I will never know peace ? Are u God the almighty the giver of peace? For your information God has already forgiven me, I have the best peace ever and my life is going well and everything is working according to God plans and is you and your fake accounts that will not know peace Stupid fool go hang yourself and die Diiiamoond: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by CHoccolaTE: 1:05am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Lol This thread is still alive? 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by dbestuncle: 5:44am On Mar 21, 2020 |
Yes! We will keep the trend until op is at least able to realize or make peace with her siblings n parent CHoccolaTE: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by sisisioge: 6:50am On Mar 21, 2020 |
I will keep reading until the OP receive the awakening. I hope everyone can deduce now that good education helps us develop reasonably and make us sound people. It is direly essential for everyone to get that exposure to at least learn how to reason intelligently. If only OP's abuser allowed her to concentrate at school instead of using priccck to distract her...it is well. 6 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by babyfaceafrica: 8:59am On Mar 21, 2020 |
sisisioge: I hope everyone can deduce now that good education helps us develop reasonably and make us sound people. I don't entirely agree with this... I have seen Ph.D individuals misbehave and handle issues badly.. In as much as formal education is sacrosanct.... It doesn't make us all sound people. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by sisisioge: 10:56am On Mar 21, 2020 |
babyfaceafrica: Well, you are somewhat correct that its no guarantee, however, the possibility of having an educated fool is lesser than having an uneducated idioot. Education really do affect our reasoning to a large extent. Imagine what this girl would have sounded like with some education....her reasoning would have been a lot better. You do know that they teach logic in school, right? 3 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by dobnina(f): 1:56pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Read this post from page 1 to 47 @ Op, please, I only care about your daughter cos I am a mother too. Please watch her closely since you and your husband are still squatting with his friends. Child molesters are people close to the parents so please don't let your guard down and don't trust anybody. I pray God provides for both of you so you can move out and get an apartment but for now, please, watch your daughter closely. 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by babyfaceafrica: 3:50pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
sisisioge: Very right |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by nuban07(m): 5:06pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Your sister never hated u or ur guy. She was only trying to create space between u and ur guy so u won't get pregnant again to a jobless and homeless guy. May God forgive u and ur guy 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 8:37pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
nuban07:My guy is not jobless he works hard for me , his daughter and our unborn baby to be well. We don’t lack anything |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ginaz(f): 8:48pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Ifyjos: You’re pregnant again? Na wa o. Which one be unborn baby na? 6 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by nuban07(m): 8:53pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Ifyjos: You still need to beg ur sister, she wanted the best for u. Though she might ve hurt u doing that 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 8:57pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Ginaz:Yes am pregnant and what’s your problem? |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 8:58pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
nuban07:I have already apologise to her she refused to forgive me there’s no need for me to keep begging her . Is she God? |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ginaz(f): 10:10pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Ifyjos: Well, If you ask me I would have said you’re better off with one child for the main time till your baby daddy is strong financially to rent his own house and take properly care of you and your first child. No house yet, no financial means to make life better than the way it is currently so why bring another child to this struggle life? When you were busy having sex tournament with him after leaving your family’s house, you both should have made plans for the future, go to the hospital for family planning . Na wa o babe . You should not do this to yourself cos you’re still a young girl . You want to turn to a baby machine at this young age ? No financial backup, no school, no job, no vision , no actions for a better life at all!! Na struggle life you want ? Pity the kids small and yourself too. Stress life is not good, it makes you age faster than your mates . Well congratulations... what do I know? Cos I was thinking after this your first child, you would go back to school or learn a trade. ... not to get pregnant a second time . 8 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 10:19pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Ginaz:Who school epp? Anyway you will never see me in your house begging you for money to feed my children even if I had 4 of them my guy and I will be taking good care of them with the little we have. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ginaz(f): 10:55pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Ifyjos: The matter is not about begging , stop being sentimental. This is a serious issue ifyjos. You’re too talented , beautiful, filled with blessings and potentials to limit yourself to be a baby mama , living with your baby daddy in his friend’s house with no vision for a better future and you’re obviously satisfied with all these with no passion to exceed beyond this stagnation you have put yourself . You can be better, live a better life , you deserve more than you currently are right now . If you can’t go to school, you can learn a skill, or a trade to give you a secured future babe . Do something with your life other than being a Baby mama and waiting for your baby daddy to take care of you all. 4 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ginaz(f): 11:02pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
You can get more than the little you have to take care of your kids . Don’t settle for little or less. Expand your dreams and vision. You want to live a “we will manage and little we have life?” Will that kind of mentality take the kids through school? Pay rent? emergency money nko? You will be running from pillar to post to sort finances? What have you put in place to make sure the kids have a sound education as possibly could without interruptions ? 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 11:17pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Ginaz:Who told you that I have no vision for a better future ? You just want to talk rubbish so people can likes your rubbish advice please ooo I don’t need your advice because it will not change anything in my life , I’m happy the way am leaving my life your cheap talk won’t stop me . go and preach to your little sisters. You are jealous because you don’t have a man and you wished to be in my place |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 11:18pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Ginaz:And what have you achieved so far ? Apart from being here 24/7 making comments what else do you have in life ? You are jobless |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by malvisguy212: 11:32pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Ifyjos:why do you talk with bitterness? That lady, she is only trying to help. God will answer your prayer when you ask BUT remember the bible say we should ASK WITH WISDOM. 6 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ginaz(f): 11:33pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Ifyjos: Urgggg!!! Don’t think everyone who gives you advice is jobless . It’s so boring when you talk like that. You call people jobless a lot and it’s very much pathetic and doesn’t tell how intelligent you are. Someone who is emotionally intelligent and psychologically advance won’t talk that way. Any small thing “I won’t beg, you are joblesss and bla . It’s so pathetic you don’t wanna see how urgent it is for you to make drastic and life changing decisions. Even more so pathetic you reason like a naive person. Well, bye and safe delivery of your child . 7 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 11:38pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
malvisguy212:She is not helping but mocking me and do you want me to clap my hands for her ? |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ginaz(f): 11:39pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Ifyjos: Nope .. I rather be single than be in your place .no normal filled with potentials and vision young lady would choose the life you live . To be a mother and expecting another living with her boyfriend in his friend’s house with no job, just going from hand to mouth , very ok with such a stagnant life . What is there to envy or wished for ? You simply think too highly of yourself more than you are worth dear. 8 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 11:41pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Ginaz:Yes I’m not intelligent and you that is more intelligent why don’t you go there and give solutions for corona to stop so the world can be at peace again? Anyway call me whatever you like I don’t care. Your mates are there sleeping next to their husbands and you are here putting mouth on thing that doesn’t concern you. Go marry and leave me alone |
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