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Re: How I Got Married With Just N28,900 (my True Life Testimony) by Legaldruglord: 10:19am On Jan 12, 2020 |
Youngjohnosas: Edo women are only hardworking in house chores oh . Lets be guided . |
Re: How I Got Married With Just N28,900 (my True Life Testimony) by Nasir123(m): 10:23am On Jan 12, 2020 |
Richy4: That's exactly where he missed it. Who know if he's even lying! 2 Likes |
Re: How I Got Married With Just N28,900 (my True Life Testimony) by PrimadonnaO(f): 10:35am On Jan 12, 2020 |
elektra: You’re my soul sister! What’s even worse is that the whole place will be filled with people you don’t freaking care about... and who don’t care two hoots about you either. If I ever have to do something in the form of a wedding celebration, it will be a dinner with my inner caucus in some really exotic place. That’s where we’ll really be happy and have fun. 2 Likes |
Re: How I Got Married With Just N28,900 (my True Life Testimony) by Funkybabee(f): 10:40am On Jan 12, 2020 |
womenareapes: Marriage is a scam in your family. Ode 1 Like |
Re: How I Got Married With Just N28,900 (my True Life Testimony) by PrimadonnaO(f): 10:42am On Jan 12, 2020 |
MoonandStar: See, there’s nobody who doesn’t like the good things of life. But the point really is... know when you can indulge. If your money or current status can’t afford the things you crave for, make do with what you can afford at the moment... then work towards getting your cravings. The problem is, most ladies don’t want to cut their calf according to their cloth. They don’t want to understand that there is a future... they want what they want NOW... at all cost. That’s the problem. 3 Likes |
Re: How I Got Married With Just N28,900 (my True Life Testimony) by whytepawn1(m): 11:03am On Jan 12, 2020 |
OkunrinMeta:Lols...too much sense will not kee you. Anyways she is a rare personality, can't trade her for anything. |
Re: How I Got Married With Just N28,900 (my True Life Testimony) by Funkybabee(f): 11:08am On Jan 12, 2020 |
shege45:. Lols, like the way she's craving for it now.. But know what, it can never be like the first.. Oyinbos says, make hay while the sun is shining, and others say do the right thing at the right time in the right place... When you are not up to something, bend away from it then tell me if an unfortunate things arise, how would u want to cope know fully well that she's under you and you are responsible for it... My mother's always says. 'Mi o da, mi o de lejeun ti o da... I'm not good but I cannot eat what's not good.... Just don't do overboard |
Re: How I Got Married With Just N28,900 (my True Life Testimony) by Youngjohnosas: 11:09am On Jan 12, 2020 |
Legaldruglord:house chores ke,A typical Edo will comfortably take care of her house hold when her husband is not buoyant enough to take up responsibilities. I can count up to ten In my church alone that have built houses and u wouldn't even know they own the house except You are so close to them through petty trading. one even after building the house bought a bus for her husband for commercial purpose,An average young Edo girl can play hard to get or test ur financial capabilities but marriage here is very sacred and they don't run away except for reasons beyond their country. 1 Like |
Re: How I Got Married With Just N28,900 (my True Life Testimony) by womenareapes: 11:14am On Jan 12, 2020 |
Funkybabee: 2 Likes
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Re: How I Got Married With Just N28,900 (my True Life Testimony) by BreconHills(m): 11:21am On Jan 12, 2020 |
jidamsel43: This isnt true. I attended a wedding like this late last year. The couple travelled abroad to the US 48 hours later - he to do his PhD, she on work posting. No reception, no fuss. Church wedding and over in one hour and a bit. Things are changing and they are changing fast. 1 Like |
Re: How I Got Married With Just N28,900 (my True Life Testimony) by Sanchez01: 11:33am On Jan 12, 2020 |
safarigirl:You miss the point totally. The North is about 95% homogenous; belief system, tradition, food, origin and culture, etc. The same cannot be said of the ethnic groups and tribes in the South South. Ancestry, belief system, foods, culture, etc, are not in way related. It is why the Ibibios are known for notorious bride price costs and their Anang sisters don't follow that line of thought. It is why some sub-groups of the Urhobo people will ask a groom-to-be to pay N65 while some others N120. Edos? Totally different. You see why I stated that the South South is the most diverse compared to other regions in the country? The North which mainly consists of the Hausas/Fulanis have their bride prices tied to education. You might want to do your little research on this. The illiterates among them might request for little or nothing but the child of an influential individual would see the partner-to-be bring gold jewelries and boxes filled with clothes. Regardless, that of Imo, specifically Mbaise is on a whole new level. I lived in the East and can attest that the Ibibios are the only ones that can match or come close to Mbaise's neck and throat approach when it comes to weddings. 2 Likes |
Re: How I Got Married With Just N28,900 (my True Life Testimony) by Nezero(m): 11:46am On Jan 12, 2020 |
We4all: Wow, I just understood the rationale behind deliberately inviting a crowd when there is no capacity to feed them. And that thing about rice and zobo is a good alternative although biscuits is acceptable in many localities. |
Re: How I Got Married With Just N28,900 (my True Life Testimony) by shekauvsbuhari: 11:58am On Jan 12, 2020 |
lawman88:If dey no go assist financialy, then giv dem de middle finger n go do what U can afford. Na so I dey take handle my family. Comin from big and known family can be a burden atimes. |
Re: How I Got Married With Just N28,900 (my True Life Testimony) by MedicH: 12:07pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
[quote author=womenareapes post=85727324][/quote] Lol. Abegooo |
Re: How I Got Married With Just N28,900 (my True Life Testimony) by MedicH: 12:11pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
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Re: How I Got Married With Just N28,900 (my True Life Testimony) by frakdon(m): 12:26pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
elektra: Please will you marry me, if i ask you to? |
Re: How I Got Married With Just N28,900 (my True Life Testimony) by DabFrankNG: 12:37pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
Re: How I Got Married With Just N28,900 (my True Life Testimony) by OGHENAOGIE(m): 12:40pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
SecretSpy666:can u link me up with any ngo.. bsc pol sci willing to relocate... |
Re: How I Got Married With Just N28,900 (my True Life Testimony) by chingle5(m): 12:50pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
OP Why do i feel like this whole thing is a SCAM |
Re: How I Got Married With Just N28,900 (my True Life Testimony) by akojifred: 1:02pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
SecretSpy666:I KNOW SAY BENUE GUYS NO THEY TAKE LAST. AM HAPPY FO YOUR GUYS |
Re: How I Got Married With Just N28,900 (my True Life Testimony) by Owiii(m): 1:05pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
SecretSpy666:Yes. |
Re: How I Got Married With Just N28,900 (my True Life Testimony) by thunderbabs: 1:06pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
All dz our girlfriends that can't marry a hustling guy earning even 40k monthly, una go tey for Shiloh ooo |
Re: How I Got Married With Just N28,900 (my True Life Testimony) by Duru009(m): 1:16pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
This can only happen when you marry your wife ! 2 Likes |
Re: How I Got Married With Just N28,900 (my True Life Testimony) by akdjr(m): 1:17pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
You have beat my record, I spent 35k and I only invited few family and friends 15 in total and it was a successful celebration. Now I am facing main reason behind married men beii refer to as "Responsible men" quote author=SecretSpy666 post=85672129]I registered on this platform to tell my story and encourage other Nigerian youths who may have humble background like me, not to give up. I did one of the craziest wedding in human history. I can’t stop laughing now as God has changed our story COST OF THE WEDDING IN DETAIL: Statutory marriage (court wedding) – took place in December, 2015 The court wedding was contracted at the marriage registry of Kano State, opposite Emir Sanusi’s palace, Kano municipal. Here are what I spent: 1) Wedding Certificate fee N8,000 2) Wedding ring N1,500 3) Clothes for the wedding for both of us (including sewing) N13, 600 4) Two crates of multina N5000 5) One carton of Digestive biscuit N600 6) Transport for both of us (kake napep) N200 (to and fro) Total: N 28,900 No reception Few invitees and no much celebrations TRADITIONAL WEDDING: I spent about 35,000 including clothes. HOW IT STARTED I was posted to Kano for my NYSC in 2014 August, Batch B. I fell in love with this beautiful lady and we had similar historical background. Before I completed my NYSC, I got admission to Bayero University for my master degree programme (march, 2015). I didn’t have what it takes for marriage and there was no help from anywhere. I really wanted to dump her and focus on my study but she never let me go. She told me she want to go for master too, we hurriedly applied for her during the late application period, she was lucky she got admission to study community health. She took me to her parents who are based in Kaduna but are from Okrika in River state. Her parents are educated and gave me good advice and encourage us to get serious with our studies. The father told me to pay N5,000 as bride price and I spent about 30,000 for a very quiet traditional wedding. In Kano, we live in a single room (self contain) opposite Bayero University gate, going to school together. I started a part time teaching with Al-Furkaan Science Academy with 18,000 salary and also work it for her to be teaching there too for 15,000 salary. The school management did not know that we are couple. Some teachers there were even trying to talk to her…. After our coursework, as if God was waiting for us to complete the coursework, boom!!! I was called by an agro allied company based in kano for interview. I applied online for the job. I got the job and we were both happy!!! Three months later, my wife got a job with an NGO working in communities in Kano and Jigawa. Not long after, we moved to a two bedroom flat and got a car. We had a baby boy now and building a house in Otukpo, Benue state. THIS IS MY TESTIMONY…… Start little and God we increase it… I was so ashamed then and the people laughing at us them are now coming to begg us for money and support. Now my wife is saying we should do a flamboyant, expensive, and gorgeous church wedding and invite all the people we invited during the low-key court and traditional marriage...and invite all friends, foes and all the people laughing at us at that time.... [/quote] |
Re: How I Got Married With Just N28,900 (my True Life Testimony) by AngryArmani: 1:19pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
How is this a testimony? God forbid 1 Like |
Re: How I Got Married With Just N28,900 (my True Life Testimony) by swedbase(m): 1:34pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
Congrats and good luck to you both even though i don't believe in inter tribal marriage. |
Re: How I Got Married With Just N28,900 (my True Life Testimony) by xpmode(m): 1:35pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
THIS IS MY TESTIMONY…… Testimonials |
Re: How I Got Married With Just N28,900 (my True Life Testimony) by jaxxy(m): 1:36pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
At the end of the day it’s all about knowing what u want and what u really want to achieve. |
Re: How I Got Married With Just N28,900 (my True Life Testimony) by egopersonified(f): 1:42pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
Youngjohnosas: e be like na your church my cousin dey go |
Re: How I Got Married With Just N28,900 (my True Life Testimony) by Nobody: 1:46pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
elektra:can I apply to marry you. you just stated my wish |
Re: How I Got Married With Just N28,900 (my True Life Testimony) by Sarang(f): 2:20pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
Wettoid123: Ana akogheri |
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