Good morning all.
I have a challenge facing me for a while now. I've been dating this young girl (25 yrs) for like a year and half now. She is a single mother with 2kids and am a young guy (27yrs) working and as well schooling.

There is some funny characters she displays that is a huge red flag to me, she can flirt online and always pressure for a marriage. Please can she be the right choice?

Hell No

ajast:
Hell No

Hell f**king NO.

why would you load up your young life with unnecessary baggage. Look for a good girl with no kids and unnecessary baggage

you are not good enough for her

What exactly is the point of these post ?
To seek opinion from total strangers on your life decisions ?
Or to join the trend of making single mothers look like beasts ?

My brother, you are too young to go this part.

First ask yourself y the dude she got the kid for didn't marry her

Another foolish one on the loose.

charvick:
Good morning all.
I have a challenge facing me for a while now. I've been dating this young girl (25 yrs) for like a year and half now. She is a single mother with 2kids and am a young guy (27yrs) working and as well schooling.

There is some funny characters she displays that is a huge red flag to me, she can flirt online and always pressure for a marriage. Please can she be the right choice?

Don't allow any woman to pressure you for anything especially marriage, no hurry in love

Be her single or single parent

Take your time

Marriage is a journey of rough road but your ability to manage the roughness will lead you to a smoother road

How can you marry someone's dumpster , has your level of inferiority reached dah side . You no see fresh,sweet and clean girls for ur hood

USE YOUR HEAD OOH

you are very stupid to seek advice that you know will kill you.

I don't get you? Am in a cross path, a time I need to decide and I reached out for advise.

lovenavigation:
you are very stupid to seek advice that you know will kill you.

If you wanted to marry her, you won't ask nairalanders.

Not at all dear. Am no judge over people's life, but when I see red flags and uncertainty especially from one that has been messed from love(leading to being a single mom) I panic!

Riele:
What exactly is the point of these post ?

To seek opinion from total strangers on your life decisions ?

Or to join the trend of making single mothers look like beasts ?

charvick:
Good morning all.
I have a challenge facing me for a while now. I've been dating this young girl (25 yrs) for like a year and half now. She is a single mother with 2kids and am a young guy (27yrs) working and as well schooling.

There is some funny characters she displays that is a huge red flag to me, she can flirt online and always pressure for a marriage. Please can she be the right choice?

Where is the baby daddy?

Yes go ahead and marry her.

He is alive and stays not too far from my area. The point is that,hes jobless for some time now and also beats women. He jumped into another relationship after the former and is still single. Care less about the kids too.

MajorWarren:


Where is the baby daddy?

charvick:
He is alive and stays not too far from my area. The point is that,hes jobless for some time now and also beats women. He jumped into another relationship after the former and is still single. Care less about the kids too.

Bro if he isn’t dead or serving multiple life sentences in prison then don’t proceed with the marriage.
You’re still too young you don’t want that drama.

"she can flirt online and always pressure for a marriage. Please can she be the right choice?"...




A 25yrs old girl already a mum with two kids out of wedlock and she still flirts with men online. One may be a mistake but two means she is obviously out of control and for you to even consider marrying such a woman with all the red flags, yes she is perfect for your type of man.

charvick:
Good morning all.
I have a challenge facing me for a while now. I've been dating this young girl (25 yrs) for like a year and half now. She is a single mother with 2kids and am a young guy (27yrs) working and as well schooling.

There is some funny characters she displays that is a huge red flag to me, she can flirt online and always pressure for a marriage. Please can she be the right choice?

You no dey learn?
Run oooo
I have one like that too with two kids. Has been on my neck with love and all that. Her calls are just too much.
Infact, her supposed Love is frightening.
I just put her on ignore mode ooo.
She has done everything to know my house. Na lie.
Once she knows the house, she's anytime visitor.
Imagine 2 kids at such young age.
Such ladies are generally loaded bombs.
Anger (her own is terrible)
Frustration
Bitterness
Just too many loads.
DON'T EVER TAKE THIS ROUTE

It will end in tears...

Single mothers will feel like killing themselves now after reading this.

Are you alright Mr man, she flirts online, untop of that she has two kids at the age of 25 and prolly has no job

She is too sexually active to have two kids at 25 and already divorced or without her childs father, again a mother of two flirting online is a not a serious person and feels children should be given birth to, to litter the world


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Riele:
What exactly is the point of these post ?

To seek opinion from total strangers on your life decisions ?

Or to join the trend of making single mothers look like beasts ?

Don't tell me you are a single mom ma....

Yes she is the right choice. You should go ahead and marry her.

Go ahead and Price High Blood Pressure medication as well.


Just passing.............

What happened to the father of the two kids?
Were they ever married?
If they were not, after one child, she had someone like you in the middle and still got pregnant for a second.

This guy no like himself. To marry non virgins na war self talk more of the ones with kids. Objectivity wise sha unless she's based abroad in the western world while the man is here in hell suffering then u two can work something out. I actually met one this holiday period. The understanding and mindset is very different. It could be worth it. If na a jobless, poor baby maker pls run.

charvick:
Good morning all.
I have a challenge facing me for a w.... Please can she be the right choice?

You have already seen the red flags therefore you should not be asking this question!

[quote author=J111333 post=85748605]"she can flirt online and always pressure for a marriage. Please can she be the right choice?"...




A 25yrs old girl already a mum with two kids out of wedlock and she still flirts with men online. One may be a mistake but two means she is obviously out of control and for you to even consider marrying such a woman with all the red flags, yes she is perfect for your type of man. [/quote


Lol heavy red flag for the flirting aspect. A good woman that's into a relationship with 2 kids out of wedlock won't flirt, rather she will try and make the relationship work cos she's the one that at disadvantaged here. He shld not allow her pressure him into marriage she's a ticking time bomb.

Why will you want to marry someone that you claim flirts online? On top of that she already has two kids. Bro, you better back off and look elsewhere. If it is love, trust me, I have been there, you will get over it and find someone you love more than her with time.

Na wa!!!.......What's with some men and their quest for a Fairly used women??

She is not even after 1......But after 2.

I have even seen where some men Marry after 3 woman......Tufiakwa!!!