Sniper101:

slowpoke! Are you still alive?

Jimbadly:


Amadioha strike you where you stand you asthmatic dufus.

Greatdre:
This question is for the married folks!!! If you are to marry again, would you marry your current spouse? Please, be very honest with your answer.

Sniper101:

Ha ha ha
Am actually not standing right now, you stupid urchin.

so, your shít is going right back at ya.


may Ogun strike you dead wherever you are right now.

victorian:







Thanks, i have had enough of broke guys deceits to last me to my old age and grave .

My mind is made up, way before i read your story . Too many bad cunning people out there .

But thanks anyways, im fine with the choice i will eventually end up with.

ImaIma1:


Watch your step because you are just jumping up and down into conclusions.

You obviously did not understand my comment and decided to jump on it and give it your own meaning.

Did I say all ladies should marry rich guys? Men on this forum are so quick to defend struggling guys and condemn the rich ones. You guys get so touchy on this issue and are unable to process simple information.

Please try to process information well before attacking and making baseless conclusions and declarations.

Sorry to burst your bubble...I am married already . And guess what! He was not rich. But unlike you, I won't blame those who married wealthy guys. It's their choice and it's not a bad thing.

victorian:








Wow! 11years!


And youve been the one taking care of a full grown man!
Na wa o

In the past i use to date broke ,poor or hustling guys .i almost made a terrible mistake marrying one ,but my eyes cleared when i asked him a simple question a day before meeting his dad .
I asked , honey if im broke tomorrow , will u help and assist me with money?
This is a guy ,i always stock up his fridge with lots of nigerian and foreign provisions including meats and Chicken.
I always want to make sure any guy i date at least look fresh like me . This is a guy i will use my own money to cook pot of soups and stew.

Guess his reply?
The fool said but Babe how can i run broke? Ha! No o , i should stop such jokes . A whole Ceo, broke ke? Its impossible .
I looked at this guy with shock.

Then he continued and said his best friend wife bought a jeep for his best friend and the guy is living large , and envy to all of them who are his friends and he was expecting i wil buy him a car , attached to the full wardrobe of clothes and shoes i promised him so he can match my level . Cause i always say he doesnt dress rich .

Mehn! That was the end of that relationship.

I told him point blank , its over . Go look for another rich maga to marry.

Can u imagine ? I rather remain single for life! Than marry a man i wil.be dashing money to all the rest of my life or taking care of his life style..

If a man is not rich dont fucvking come near me ! Dont even look at my direction, abeg!

You are really trying and God will keep blessing you , and open more doors of prosperity for u in Jesus name.amen.

Hes doing himself o.

Jimbadly:


May Iyi-oji blast you into smithereens you slobbering twerp!

Annstar:
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engrchykae:
I don't know what you mean by the double question mark

Sniper101:

Ogun kill YOU.
And also wipe out your present & future generations.

Maduawuchukwu:


Victorian are you normal at all? How come you have a personal story in every thread? If you are not telling us of your CEOship you are telling us you are fresh, or you are telling us you are a good cook. Na wa for you o.

Jimbadly:




You noticed that too?

Me thinks she's gone nuts.

Maduawuchukwu:


I dont like interfering in peoples yarns but hers is something else.

Jimbadly:


Amadioha castrate you and every male member of your family and neuter every female in your family. May your family never see the light of the day. May your carcasses be food to vultures. Chimp.

Maduawuchukwu:


Victorian are you normal at all? How come you have a personal story in every thread? If you are not telling us of your CEOship you are telling us you are fresh, or you are telling us you are a good cook. Na wa for you o.

Jimbadly:




You noticed that too?

Me thinks she's gone nuts.

victorian:







There is something called selective reading.

You dont have to read some part of my biography, if you dont wish to. At least i didnt force your eyes to my handle..
Na wa o!

So one cannot be 98% perfect in peace again?

Annstar:
I asked for date not number

engrchykae:
are you serious? Ok how about December

Annstar:
ok..no problem

KingSatan:


Like I said, no woman will ever tell her the truth.

If you had read my post, you would have seen where I said "Marriage is not a smooth sail". What if you have comprehension issues?

If you had compared both posts truthful, you would have noticed that there is a big difference. What if you have a microscopic Intelligent Quotient?

Or better still, you are a just being a WOMAN THAT YOU ARE!

For the records, my story is not a true love story. It's actually a MARRIED MANS EXPERIENCE IN WRITING. NO LYING, NO HYPOCRISY


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RoyalRoy

sukrecake:
Yes I will oooooooooo

Queenserah26:
Not married but i hope so

ojoj:
Yes yes yesYes yes yesYes yes yes 100%. I am 15 yrs in d union with kids. I always thank God for the blessing of my wife. She is a blessing to me, a supporter of good things. In my next life, I will choose her again. I am using this opportunity to thank God.

LewsTherin:
If you follow Nairalanders, you will believe life is only about sadness and misery.

The overwhelming consensus on marriage here is that 99% of marriages are sad, filled with cheating spouses, have financial disasters and are 1 step away from divorce or even murder! Yet outside of Nairaland.com, statistics say otherwise.

While I have been unable to find any stats concerning Nigeria directly (as per Naija factor, I'll bet), I came across this
https://www.wevorce.com/blog/poll-most-marriages-are-happy/

Long story short, 75% of people polled said they were happy up to 75% of the time in their marriages. This is in a country with an almost 50% rate of divorce! When you compare it with Nigeria that has a much MUCH lower rate of divorce then you wonder what Nairaland is all about.

In my small group of 7 couples, only 2 can be seen to have issues in their marriage (they don't come out to say so anyways but we can all see it) 2 out of 7. That rhymes with the stats of about 75% of marriages being happy.

So read these sob stories as what they are - sad stories that represent the percentage of sad stories only. I am not sayong they are fake stories. I am saying we get to hear only the sad stories which in itself is a good thing. It helps the rest of us know what to avoid, and it helps those affected find some therapy and answers.

In summary, most marriages are good. Marriage as an institution is basically a good thing. Your marriage can be good. Your marriage can be fixed. Like everything else in life, you have to work at it.